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What are you ladies doing about '&guest'?

Original post by Mommy2BeBride

Over the weekend my Fiance, his mother, my mother and I got together and started up our guest list.

Well after it was all put out on paper we are up to 228 people and thats not including people from our jobs or our friends.

A lot has to do with the '& guest' since most of our cousins are our ages and we figure to invite with guest but most of them arent even in relationships.

My question is, since FH & I are paying for this wedding ourselves, do we really have to invite '& guest' with everyone or can we just invite people alone, espeically our cousins?


Thanks in advance for you help!
jmgoncal Posted:

Re: What are you ladies doing about '&guest'?

We're paying for 90% of the wedding ourselves and we're inviting everyone over the age of 18 with a guest. I have always said I would do this since I've been on the other end of the invite - not being able to bring a guest and feeling uncomfortable OR dating a guy and him not being invited to bring me. But that's JMO and a lot of people don't agree. Just make sure whatever you do it's consistent.

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