I've been having a lot of nightmares lately and they are all the same thing. I have two exes that I'm still friendly with and they are both invited to the wedding. One is married with a baby and the other is in the beginning of a divorce. I know both still hold some feelings for me.
Now in comes the nightmare. I keep dreaming that one of them comes to the wedding with an agenda to break FH and I up. One dream involved one of my exes coming to the bridal suite before the ceremony and professing that he's been empty without me and he made a mistake in letting me go.
I love FH more than anything and I know why things never worked out with the other guys (distance, maturity, and commitment amoung other things). I just can't get past these fears that they will try to say something on the day of the wedding.
So, what fears do you have?
jaep129
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People not coming to wedding! Like RSVPing no Or even worse FH family getting out of control (They drink a lot).
bluekat16
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I have many fears:
1 - That I'll have my period. 2 - That I'll feel sick to my stomach. I get like that when I'm nervous and anxious. 3 - That there will be issues with FH's family and my family. 4 - That I'll fall under my minimum.
My list can go on and on.
I also had a dream that one of my exe's had tried to break FH and me up at my wedding.
Kimbalina
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Mine are very superficial.. Like no flowers... wrong shoes... no music for ceremony,, my pastor's accent being to hard to understand
Future Mulligan
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im afraid of being sick - like a sore throat, cold, fever, flu
im afraid of being way under minimum
im afraid the day will go too fast
bella1028
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well, i really, really, really do not want it to rain...and although the day would still be great, i just would prefer sunshine and lots of it!!! And i have this fear of people not dancing and enjoying themselves....you spend so long planning and just want it to be perfect
Fall Bride 2008
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looking fat in my dress
AR31
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hmm.. several things but as past brides have said, it really wouldn't matter.. b/c regardless you'll be getting married and that's all..
BUT*T my reccurring nightmare is that i won't be ready and FH is waiting at the altar.. i wish i could get it analyzed.. and hopefully they won't say i'm getting cold feet..
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i fear that the limos won't be on time, or that something will happen to throw the whole schedule off. I'm not too worried about it, but i just keep in the back of my mind the thought that not everything will go perfectly.
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Sounds silly, but my worst fear is that I'm going to be HOT. Between my dress, veil, crinoline and corset, I'll worried that I'll be sweating my butt off that day!
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I've had nightmares where I've tripped walking down the aisle, that I spill something on my dress or I completely forget to do something, for example MY hair. So those are the things I am most considered and worried about
jteach711
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Anxiety attack
emomma17
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The first thing that comes to mind is fainting at the church, i have no clue why...i think because our ceremony is 40 minutes and we can't sit down so i am nervous about standing the whole time and something freaks me out about churchs...any wedding i've ever been in i get the anxious feeling like wanting to run out of there! And I can't be a run away bride!
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I have a fear that very few people will show up. That I'll look fat in my gown and people will wonder if I'm pregnant That the vendors will screw up royally. That the food will not be as good as i remembered That the wedding will look cheap because of my DYI projects That my mom will pick a fight with my dad (that one's a possibility)
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
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Posted by roan126
Sounds silly, but my worst fear is that I'm going to be HOT. Between my dress, veil, crinoline and corset, I'll worried that I'll be sweating my butt off that day!
oh I forgot that one -- that I'll be a puddle of sweat and my make-up will just slide off....
Mici n KC
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Spilling something on my dress
Annoulak
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my biggest fear is that people won't show up even if they've RSVp'ed yes
my next biggest fear is that no one will dance
my last fear is that someone else will say something to make me mad, thus ruining my mood
jessnstu08
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1. FMIL will make a scene during the ceremony
2. No one will dance
3. Florist not showing up ---- I will KILL them
4. Band not showing up ---- dead as well too !
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so many! But, I am a big crier at weddings and considering that when FI proposed I was a mess I am worried I am not going to be able to control my emotions at the alter in front of all these ppl. At my Best Friends wedding the wedding planner told me to 'get a grip'
Dee0522
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Vendors not showing up
Not liking how my hair comes out
People getting sloppy drunk
Getting sick right before the big day
American Airlines cancelling our HM flight!!! I heard this morning that they have cancelled more than 500 flights in the past couple of weeks due to inspections and stuff like that... UGH!
