when do you and FH want to....

Original post by Im a Pepper

Jun 29, 2008 08:09 PM

...have kids? Do you guys want them right away? A honeymoon baby? Or do you want to wait a while? Or just play it by ear?

Since I kind of pulled the rug out from under myself and decided to go in a completely different career direction, I think it will be quite a few years after the wedding until we think about having children. I'll have to finish school (which I'll do in 2010) and I'd like to be in my new career for a while before completely changing my life with children. I think if I weren't changing careers, we would just play it by ear and see what happens. What about you?

beram63 Posted: Jul 12, 2008 06:22 AM

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we'll probably get started soon after the wedding.

NikkiR515 Posted: Jul 12, 2008 09:14 AM

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We will probably wait a year...I don't think I could last much longer than that!

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Jul 12, 2008 10:09 AM

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Honestly, we thought we'd be married with a baby right now, but our lives have been so great and we've done/seen so many things that we want to continue that. We love our niece and nephews and probably won't even THINK about kids until we're nearing 30.

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Jul 12, 2008 11:11 AM

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We are trying right away. I have a son and he has a daughter already, so 1 more it is. plus Im 28 and dont want any after 30.

iYexie Posted: Jul 12, 2008 12:01 PM

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3-4 years after the wedding

littlepixie12 Posted: Jul 12, 2008 04:08 PM

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we are going to wait like 3 years

Dani777 Posted: Jul 12, 2008 04:37 PM

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We can NOT wait to have kids. :) We are planning on starting to try about a few months after the wedding...so we still get SOME newly-wed time to ourselves. None the less, just about ALL our kids are having kdis...so it works out great. CAN'T WAIT!!!
Just to think how different myl ife is going to be in about 2 years from now...WOWIE!!!!

Celeste617 Posted: Jul 13, 2008 04:56 PM

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As of right now we are undecided about children. But in a few years when I'm about 33, we'll talk about it then. We are looking to do some traveling first so once we've gotten that out of our system, maybe we'll be ready to start a family then

Fall BZ 2009 Posted: Jul 13, 2008 08:36 PM

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Well...if it was up to my FH it will be a honeymoon baby BUT I would like to wait ( most likely) at least 1 year or very close to it.

SoulMates4Ever Posted: Jul 13, 2008 09:43 PM

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right away ... i have wanted kids forever ... can't wait ... for now i have my cousin's kids to play with and the twins i used to nanny for ... i feel like a second mother to them