make babies? How soon after the wedding? I think we will plan a month or two after. We hae already been living together for the past 3 years anyway. I'll be 33 (in 10 days) and FH will be 34 by the time we get married.
well we're not exactly going to plan an exact time when to have it but i would be good with waiting about 2 years, but if it happens sooner thats more than fine or if it happens later thats fine too, just not that much later hahaha
Posted by Espo22
well we're not exactly going to plan an exact time when to have it but i would be good with waiting about 2 years, but if it happens sooner thats more than fine or if it happens later thats fine too, just not that much later hahaha
Posted by Danielle623
Posted by Espo22
well we're not exactly going to plan an exact time when to have it but i would be good with waiting about 2 years, but if it happens sooner thats more than fine or if it happens later thats fine too, just not that much later hahaha
How old are you guys if you dont mind me asking. And not that it even matters.
we're thinking about passing on the babies thing all together ... oops
Probably after about a year or 2. We will start looking for houses by the end of this year and working on getting financially stable. I want to live together alone for at least a year before (we live in his family's basement). It would all work out if it happened earlier though. I'm 24, he's 23. I would like to have 2 kids by the time I'm 30 so we'll see.
Posted by Cutechef729
Probably after about a year or 2. We will start looking for houses by the end of this year and working on getting financially stable. I want to live together alone for at least a year before (we live in his family's basement). It would all work out if it happened earlier though. I'm 24, he's 23. I would like to have 2 kids by the time I'm 30 so we'll see.
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Cutechef729
Probably after about a year or 2. We will start looking for houses by the end of this year and working on getting financially stable. I want to live together alone for at least a year before (we live in his family's basement). It would all work out if it happened earlier though. I'm 24, he's 23. I would like to have 2 kids by the time I'm 30 so we'll see.
im still praying we win the lottery or come into ALOT of money and we can travel around europe for a year first![]()
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Posted by Cutechef729
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Posted by Cutechef729
Probably after about a year or 2. We will start looking for houses by the end of this year and working on getting financially stable. I want to live together alone for at least a year before (we live in his family's basement). It would all work out if it happened earlier though. I'm 24, he's 23. I would like to have 2 kids by the time I'm 30 so we'll see.
im still praying we win the lottery or come into ALOT of money and we can travel around europe for a year first![]()
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I'm secretly hoping that too!!! Shhh don't tell FH!![]()
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He is like chomping at the bit for the little ones...I say no way. Plus he's a teacher so he has PLENTY of kids.
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Posted by AllyDrew1108
we're thinking about passing on the babies thing all together ... oops
I am and will be 25 when we get married, and FH will be 26. We have been together since college and I use to be adamant that I didn't want to get married until I was 28 and didn't want to have children till I was 30. Well obviously that notion flew out the window when he proposed when I was 23. But I still hung onto the waiting till I was older to have kids. Recently, I was diagnosed with a hereditary thyroid condition that could perhaps effect my fertility. It is now being treated with medication and my doctor said I shouldn't have any problems but it really made me think that it is silly for me to wait, for my own selfish reasons. I don't think it is selfish of me to want to be more financially secure because every future parent wants to give their child the best life possible, but we shall see what happens.
we have zero plans to have children at this point in time....and even after we are married, we have agreed that we are not ready for that....at least not for quite some time
Posted by jeffamanda080808
Posted by AllyDrew1108
we're thinking about passing on the babies thing all together ... oops
Don't say ooops.
If that's how you and FH want things, then so be it!!!
It's about you guys after the I Do's....if you don't want kids then so be it, PERIOD. As long as you guys are happy and love each other, that is all that matters!
I'm 26 and DH is 34. We don't even know if we are going to have children. It is definitely up in the air
we're still pretty young (22,23) in my opinion to have kids so we want to wait about 5 yrs so we can travel and do more things together.
