When someone invites you out for a drink...

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

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Posted by SomethingBlu

I'm boring and unless I 'know' you or am comfortable around you, I'll pass.

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Yeah, I'm sure that you're boring, Sasha

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I am! And I'm socially awkward, so unless there was a comfort level, I would pass.

But I would so go for drinks with you Farah...even on a Monday!!

Maybe you're just too cool for them and they know it...

It's hard to believe that you're socially awkward, Sasha.

Farah, if you dye your hair like Rogue's, everyone will be tripping over themselves to have a drink with you. Maybe it's time for the London GTG.

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

It's hard to believe that you're socially awkward, Sasha.

Farah, if you dye your hair like Rogue's, everyone will be tripping over themselves to have a drink with you. Maybe it's time for the London GTG.

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Aw, thanks guys!

It's just ultra depressing being turned down for girl dates over and over again!!! I feel like a dorky guy!

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Posted by usuk2004

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

It's hard to believe that you're socially awkward, Sasha.

Farah, if you dye your hair like Rogue's, everyone will be tripping over themselves to have a drink with you. Maybe it's time for the London GTG.

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Aw, thanks guys!

It's just ultra depressing being turned down for girl dates over and over again!!! I feel like a dorky guy!

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Now where was this post in November when DH and I were in London?? Next time DH and I are in London we'll have drinks! and I'm sure there will be a next time since DH absolutely loved London!

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

It's hard to believe that you're socially awkward, Sasha.

Farah, if you dye your hair like Rogue's, everyone will be tripping over themselves to have a drink with you. Maybe it's time for the London GTG.

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Yes, I'm a super dork!!

And I agree completely...the stupid chick that turned you down for coffee will be so regretting it.

Who wants to chat on the phone anyway? What is she 12?

i do think it is a cultural thing. the british are a little more reserved- ever notice how quiet it is on the tube?

when i was in australia, i did have a few problems meeting people, i had a few friends, but not like i have here. and when i did go to parties with all australians, i noticed the conversations were quiet. since australia is sort of like britain i can compare it to that sort of.

i lived in germany for a year- and i had like 2 german friends (that was only b/c they lived on my floor). they dont talk to anyone and are very private people! most of my friends were americans or british people. then again that just may be a language barrier.

I lived in Europe and unless you lived in the City, we did not go out after work. Especially if you live in the suburb. Got to catch the train, subway..etc..

Takes time away from family. Unless you are much younger and party!!!!

I know exactly how you feel....this was done to me at a job when I worked in the city.....they always went out for lunch together and never invited me....it was all of the assitants in my department...I used to sit and eat at my desk by myself...one day I actually cried...I hope things get better for you

Id go but I just never have time. Sometimes I feel bad for constantly turning friends at work down, but most of them dont have children and dont realize how hard it is to get out.

I WISH I could go out more often because I TOTALLY would. Its so hard I have an overnights stay at a bed and breakfast and a large spa gift certificate I got last SEPTEMBER but I cant even use it b/c I just cant get away.