OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
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OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
Thats terrible. They obivously had no idea how it feels to have a genuine fear of something. When I have a panic attack, the last thing I think about are the people around me. Im sure she didnt wanna scare anyone but you cant control it. The feeling is horrible. M y body gets so hot I think Im gonna blow up and my head feels like its gonna explode. Its horrible. Im prone to panic attacks, theyre not fun. At least you had her back.
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You know, I used to LOVE flying. There was a time where flying was therapeutic for me. I couldnt wait to get on the plane sit back, watch a movie, and relax. It was after 9/11 that I thought, 'Holy crap! I could DIE!' Im the type of person where, if I see something traumatic, it stays with me forever. I need that Men In Black memory eraser thing!!! Anyone have one?
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OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
Thats terrible. They obivously had no idea how it feels to have a genuine fear of something. When I have a panic attack, the last thing I think about are the people around me. Im sure she didnt wanna scare anyone but you cant control it. The feeling is horrible. M y body gets so hot I think Im gonna blow up and my head feels like its gonna explode. Its horrible. Im prone to panic attacks, theyre not fun. At least you had her back.
I GET like that everytime someone else drives lol...this is a big problem i have to get over but dont know how...if i get used to someones driving and they are good drivers i get over it to an extent but some people its so bad...i seriously just sit there with knots in my stomach and just cant wait to get out of the car, i make myself sick over it hahahaha...people also think im so great bc i always offer to drive, and alot of times ppl are like oh no i feel bad ill drive and im like NOOOOOOOOOOOOO ill do it hahahaha, they dont understand i NEED to drive lol. Its so weird and dont know why im like this but yeah most times when im a passenger in a car its real bad
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OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
Thats terrible. They obivously had no idea how it feels to have a genuine fear of something. When I have a panic attack, the last thing I think about are the people around me. Im sure she didnt wanna scare anyone but you cant control it. The feeling is horrible. M y body gets so hot I think Im gonna blow up and my head feels like its gonna explode. Its horrible. Im prone to panic attacks, theyre not fun. At least you had her back.
I GET like that everytime someone else drives lol...this is a big problem i have to get over but dont know how...if i get used to someones driving and they are good drivers i get over it to an extent but some people its so bad...i seriously just sit there with knots in my stomach and just cant wait to get out of the car, i make myself sick over it hahahaha...people also think im so great bc i always offer to drive, and alot of times ppl are like oh no i feel bad ill drive and im like NOOOOOOOOOOOOO ill do it hahahaha, they dont understand i NEED to drive lol. Its so weird and dont know why im like this but yeah most times when im a passenger in a car its real bad
Im the same way. I cant relax in a car anymore if someone else is driving. Someone told me my fear stems from constantly needing to be in control. Im like, 'Hell yeah I wanna be in control of my own life and how I leave this world, who doesnt'?!!!!
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Definitely the time you've had since your last flight is making you anxious. I was never afraid of flying but then I knew someone that was killed in the AA flight that crashed in Belle Harbor in 2001. Since then I was really nervous, especially in take off and I fly a lot for my job. I've gotten a lot better over the years.
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Definitely the time you've had since your last flight is making you anxious. I was never afraid of flying but then I knew someone that was killed in the AA flight that crashed in Belle Harbor in 2001. Since then I was really nervous, especially in take off and I fly a lot for my job. I've gotten a lot better over the years.
I feel like I was getting better too! Now Im worse lol. I find myself trying to convince FH that we should go on a cruise that leaves from NY so we wont have to get on a plane (he doesnt know this) But I hate that my fear is affecting where I wanna go on my honeymoon. Thats why i thought, maybe throwing myself out of plane would help.
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Definitely the time you've had since your last flight is making you anxious. I was never afraid of flying but then I knew someone that was killed in the AA flight that crashed in Belle Harbor in 2001. Since then I was really nervous, especially in take off and I fly a lot for my job. I've gotten a lot better over the years.
I feel like I was getting better too! Now Im worse lol. I find myself trying to convince FH that we should go on a cruise that leaves from NY so we wont have to get on a plane (he doesnt know this) But I hate that my fear is affecting where I wanna go on my honeymoon. Thats why i thought, maybe throwing myself out of plane would help.
What if it makes it worse?
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OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
Thats terrible. They obivously had no idea how it feels to have a genuine fear of something. When I have a panic attack, the last thing I think about are the people around me. Im sure she didnt wanna scare anyone but you cant control it. The feeling is horrible. M y body gets so hot I think Im gonna blow up and my head feels like its gonna explode. Its horrible. Im prone to panic attacks, theyre not fun. At least you had her back.
I GET like that everytime someone else drives lol...this is a big problem i have to get over but dont know how...if i get used to someones driving and they are good drivers i get over it to an extent but some people its so bad...i seriously just sit there with knots in my stomach and just cant wait to get out of the car, i make myself sick over it hahahaha...people also think im so great bc i always offer to drive, and alot of times ppl are like oh no i feel bad ill drive and im like NOOOOOOOOOOOOO ill do it hahahaha, they dont understand i NEED to drive lol. Its so weird and dont know why im like this but yeah most times when im a passenger in a car its real bad
Im the same way. I cant relax in a car anymore if someone else is driving. Someone told me my fear stems from constantly needing to be in control. Im like, 'Hell yeah I wanna be in control of my own life and how I leave this world, who doesnt'?!!!!
HMMM interesting but i think it has more to do with the fact that most ppl cant drive theres some ppl i do trust and i know they drive well so i can relax in the car so its not about control lol.
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Definitely the time you've had since your last flight is making you anxious. I was never afraid of flying but then I knew someone that was killed in the AA flight that crashed in Belle Harbor in 2001. Since then I was really nervous, especially in take off and I fly a lot for my job. I've gotten a lot better over the years.
I feel like I was getting better too! Now Im worse lol. I find myself trying to convince FH that we should go on a cruise that leaves from NY so we wont have to get on a plane (he doesnt know this) But I hate that my fear is affecting where I wanna go on my honeymoon. Thats why i thought, maybe throwing myself out of plane would help.
What if it makes it worse?
I wonder if it could get any worse! lol. I dont know. It might be a horrible idea. And having a panic attack in the middle of the sky might kill me so I dunno. I wonder if anyone has ever used skydiving as a technique to get over fear of flying.
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OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
Thats terrible. They obivously had no idea how it feels to have a genuine fear of something. When I have a panic attack, the last thing I think about are the people around me. Im sure she didnt wanna scare anyone but you cant control it. The feeling is horrible. M y body gets so hot I think Im gonna blow up and my head feels like its gonna explode. Its horrible. Im prone to panic attacks, theyre not fun. At least you had her back.
I GET like that everytime someone else drives lol...this is a big problem i have to get over but dont know how...if i get used to someones driving and they are good drivers i get over it to an extent but some people its so bad...i seriously just sit there with knots in my stomach and just cant wait to get out of the car, i make myself sick over it hahahaha...people also think im so great bc i always offer to drive, and alot of times ppl are like oh no i feel bad ill drive and im like NOOOOOOOOOOOOO ill do it hahahaha, they dont understand i NEED to drive lol. Its so weird and dont know why im like this but yeah most times when im a passenger in a car its real bad
Im the same way. I cant relax in a car anymore if someone else is driving. Someone told me my fear stems from constantly needing to be in control. Im like, 'Hell yeah I wanna be in control of my own life and how I leave this world, who doesnt'?!!!!
HMMM interesting but i think it has more to do with the fact that most ppl cant drive theres some ppl i do trust and i know they drive well so i can relax in the car so its not about control lol.
Thats so true. Everytime I think people cant get any dumber on the road, someone does something even worse.
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Im the same way. I cant relax in a car anymore if someone else is driving. Someone told me my fear stems from constantly needing to be in control. Im like, 'Hell yeah I wanna be in control of my own life and how I leave this world, who doesnt'?!!!!
HMMM interesting but i think it has more to do with the fact that most ppl cant drive theres some ppl i do trust and i know they drive well so i can relax in the car so its not about control lol.
Thats so true. Everytime I think people cant get any dumber on the road, someone does something even worse.
yeah i cant anymore with peoples driving lol. I am tired of getting so sick from being in the car with someone and a nervous wreck and just praying i get to where were going already lol
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Definitely the time you've had since your last flight is making you anxious. I was never afraid of flying but then I knew someone that was killed in the AA flight that crashed in Belle Harbor in 2001. Since then I was really nervous, especially in take off and I fly a lot for my job. I've gotten a lot better over the years.
I feel like I was getting better too! Now Im worse lol. I find myself trying to convince FH that we should go on a cruise that leaves from NY so we wont have to get on a plane (he doesnt know this) But I hate that my fear is affecting where I wanna go on my honeymoon. Thats why i thought, maybe throwing myself out of plane would help.
What if it makes it worse?
I wonder if it could get any worse! lol. I dont know. It might be a horrible idea. And having a panic attack in the middle of the sky might kill me so I dunno. I wonder if anyone has ever used skydiving as a technique to get over fear of flying.
I'm not a psychologist, but I know people that are afraid of the water and were when they were little and someone threw them in the pool or lake and it was awful. It's traumatic. I think you need to take it one step at a time. Maybe start with little trips? If you know people are going skydiving, see if you can ride in the plane with them. I did that when my friends went. It was pretty cool. The pilot made our plane do loops after everyone jumped out lol.
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OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
Thats terrible. They obivously had no idea how it feels to have a genuine fear of something. When I have a panic attack, the last thing I think about are the people around me. Im sure she didnt wanna scare anyone but you cant control it. The feeling is horrible. M y body gets so hot I think Im gonna blow up and my head feels like its gonna explode. Its horrible. Im prone to panic attacks, theyre not fun. At least you had her back.
I GET like that everytime someone else drives lol...this is a big problem i have to get over but dont know how...if i get used to someones driving and they are good drivers i get over it to an extent but some people its so bad...i seriously just sit there with knots in my stomach and just cant wait to get out of the car, i make myself sick over it hahahaha...people also think im so great bc i always offer to drive, and alot of times ppl are like oh no i feel bad ill drive and im like NOOOOOOOOOOOOO ill do it hahahaha, they dont understand i NEED to drive lol. Its so weird and dont know why im like this but yeah most times when im a passenger in a car its real bad
Im the same way. I cant relax in a car anymore if someone else is driving. Someone told me my fear stems from constantly needing to be in control. Im like, 'Hell yeah I wanna be in control of my own life and how I leave this world, who doesnt'?!!!!
HMMM interesting but i think it has more to do with the fact that most ppl cant drive theres some ppl i do trust and i know they drive well so i can relax in the car so its not about control lol.
OMG, so true. I fear for my life when I'm in certain people's cars! I so much rather drive then have them drive.
And it's not even that I think their radical, I just don't think they'd be able to respond quickly in certain situations.
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Definitely the time you've had since your last flight is making you anxious. I was never afraid of flying but then I knew someone that was killed in the AA flight that crashed in Belle Harbor in 2001. Since then I was really nervous, especially in take off and I fly a lot for my job. I've gotten a lot better over the years.
I feel like I was getting better too! Now Im worse lol. I find myself trying to convince FH that we should go on a cruise that leaves from NY so we wont have to get on a plane (he doesnt know this) But I hate that my fear is affecting where I wanna go on my honeymoon. Thats why i thought, maybe throwing myself out of plane would help.
What if it makes it worse?
I wonder if it could get any worse! lol. I dont know. It might be a horrible idea. And having a panic attack in the middle of the sky might kill me so I dunno. I wonder if anyone has ever used skydiving as a technique to get over fear of flying.
I'm not a psychologist, but I know people that are afraid of the water and were when they were little and someone threw them in the pool or lake and it was awful. It's traumatic. I think you need to take it one step at a time. Maybe start with little trips? If you know people are going skydiving, see if you can ride in the plane with them. I did that when my friends went. It was pretty cool. The pilot made our plane do loops after everyone jumped out lol.
hmmm i have no explanation of my fear of water, i was never thrown in the water and never a traumatic experience.
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OMG! Im a screamer too. I was screaming, 'OH MY GOD OH MY GOD ' over and over again and crying. After the flight, people came up to me to check on me and I was so embarassed!!!!! My face was red LOL
well be glad bc after the flight only a few ppl asked my friend if she was ok and the rest just gave her real dirty looks lol...there was 7 of us on the flight and i was also with my ex at the time and he just keep playing it cool saying OMG what is wrong with her so i got annoyed and yelled for others to hear me too about her being scared and people are F*cking retarded if they get mad bc of a person who was deathly afraid and freaked out, some ppl are so annoying
Thats terrible. They obivously had no idea how it feels to have a genuine fear of something. When I have a panic attack, the last thing I think about are the people around me. Im sure she didnt wanna scare anyone but you cant control it. The feeling is horrible. M y body gets so hot I think Im gonna blow up and my head feels like its gonna explode. Its horrible. Im prone to panic attacks, theyre not fun. At least you had her back.
I GET like that everytime someone else drives lol...this is a big problem i have to get over but dont know how...if i get used to someones driving and they are good drivers i get over it to an extent but some people its so bad...i seriously just sit there with knots in my stomach and just cant wait to get out of the car, i make myself sick over it hahahaha...people also think im so great bc i always offer to drive, and alot of times ppl are like oh no i feel bad ill drive and im like NOOOOOOOOOOOOO ill do it hahahaha, they dont understand i NEED to drive lol. Its so weird and dont know why im like this but yeah most times when im a passenger in a car its real bad
Im the same way. I cant relax in a car anymore if someone else is driving. Someone told me my fear stems from constantly needing to be in control. Im like, 'Hell yeah I wanna be in control of my own life and how I leave this world, who doesnt'?!!!!
HMMM interesting but i think it has more to do with the fact that most ppl cant drive theres some ppl i do trust and i know they drive well so i can relax in the car so its not about control lol.
OMG, so true. I fear for my life when I'm in certain people's cars! I so much rather drive then have them drive.
And it's not even that I think their radical, I just don't think they'd be able to respond quickly in certain situations.
YES!!!!!! and some ppl are oblivious to everything around them lol
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Definitely the time you've had since your last flight is making you anxious. I was never afraid of flying but then I knew someone that was killed in the AA flight that crashed in Belle Harbor in 2001. Since then I was really nervous, especially in take off and I fly a lot for my job. I've gotten a lot better over the years.
I feel like I was getting better too! Now Im worse lol. I find myself trying to convince FH that we should go on a cruise that leaves from NY so we wont have to get on a plane (he doesnt know this) But I hate that my fear is affecting where I wanna go on my honeymoon. Thats why i thought, maybe throwing myself out of plane would help.
What if it makes it worse?
I wonder if it could get any worse! lol. I dont know. It might be a horrible idea. And having a panic attack in the middle of the sky might kill me so I dunno. I wonder if anyone has ever used skydiving as a technique to get over fear of flying.
I'm not a psychologist, but I know people that are afraid of the water and were when they were little and someone threw them in the pool or lake and it was awful. It's traumatic. I think you need to take it one step at a time. Maybe start with little trips? If you know people are going skydiving, see if you can ride in the plane with them. I did that when my friends went. It was pretty cool. The pilot made our plane do loops after everyone jumped out lol.
hmmm i have no explanation of my fear of water, i was never thrown in the water and never a traumatic experience.
Maybe when you were little you saw something scary on TV? I know all the scary movies I saw as a kid have me afraid of the dark. I'm not kidding either. I hate the dark.
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me!!!!!!
Sorry, I've been busy busy all day.
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Yelley! Has anyone ever used it as therapy for fear of flying?
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Yelley! Has anyone ever used it as therapy for fear of flying?
I'm not sure. I'll have to talk to Joey about it. I know people who are PETRIFIED of heights (you are looking at her) that jumped. It's the flight that scares me the most, but the actual skydiving is amazing. I am also scared to fly in plane's. But my fear is not of the actual flying, its of the plane crashing in water and me not dying upon impact and drowning in the plane without being able to get out (I'm so sick, I know).
The best person to talk to is Joey. I'll see if he has any wisdom on the topic!!!
