who lives w/ their fh & who plans on it before...

micmar Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:16 PM

who lives w/ their fh & who plans on it before...

the wedding? I am planning on moving in a few months before the wedding.

SomethingBlu Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:22 PM

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We have lived together for almost 4 years...I was SUPER opposed to it at first, but he moved in the minute he proposed! And I mean, he moved it...he moved all his stuff into my old apartment on his own, I refused to help...but now we have our 'own' apartment and I'm glad we do...and I'm still there's things he hopes to 'surprise' me with once we're married...knowing him, I can count on it!

prncssrachel Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:28 PM

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We live together. It'll be three years when we get married that we've been living together. I wouldn't have had it any other way. And it was important to me that we were living together before getting engaged. Not that I thought it would make or break things, but it definitely proved to us that we work well together.

ladybug78 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:36 PM

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We do not live together but he lives less than 1 mile from me so we stay together every night...I will probably start moving my stuff to his place about 1 month before the wedding.

LuvMyMichael Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:38 PM

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we don't live together and we don't really plan on it until we get married.

ooohhhh....the anticipation & the waiting, its very exciting!!!!!!

micmar Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:40 PM

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Posted by ladybug78

We do not live together but he lives less than 1 mile from me so we stay together every night...I will probably start moving my stuff to his place about 1 month before the wedding.

We are about a mile away also - I am thinking a month or two before myself I'll move in so I don't come home from Hawaii & have to deal w/ moving!!

WinterBride2005 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:42 PM

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Posted by panapoli

we don't live together and we don't really plan on it until we get married.

ooohhhh....the anticipation & the waiting, its very exciting!!!!!!

Same here. We have our apt. for a few mon. now. It's really exciting preparing it. Our living room furn. came yesterday. We can't wait to move in.. after the wedding of course.

MACGIRL Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:48 PM

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We do not live together...not until the wedding.

Mrs_B Posted: Jan 23, 2005 07:49 PM

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THANK GOD WE LIVE TOGETHER NOW... You have to train them before the wedding

Stressed3204 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 08:10 PM

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We have been living together since just about 2 weeks after we got together.... And still loving it

Azrael27 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 08:16 PM

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We've been living together for almost a year now and it's great .....I feel like I really know him....In some ways, I wish we didnt though - so it could all be new when we get married....oh well - can't go back and change things And I honestly don't have any complaints......

alexlynn7 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 08:33 PM

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we've been living together for about 9 months now... but before then we lived in the same building, just on different floors. so basically we have practically lived together since we started dating exclusively... 2 years, 7 months.

slwh2005 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 08:33 PM

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We've lived together for over a year now. At first I was totally against it. But it has been so amazing. I'm really glad we did it.

Summer Bride Posted: Jan 23, 2005 08:34 PM

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We live together now. In July it will be almost 2 years.

littlebookworm4 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 08:45 PM

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we've lived together for 10 years this jan 18th

J&S Posted: Jan 23, 2005 09:00 PM

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We moved in together the day we graduated from college, it's been 2 years now and I'm very happy we live together before the wedding.

gina&ken Posted: Jan 23, 2005 09:26 PM

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we've lived together for a year and a half.

trnity44 Posted: Jan 23, 2005 09:43 PM

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We've lived together pretty much ever since we got engaged. We bought a house pretty soon after we got engaged. Its wonderful. I love living with him!

marc_rai Posted: Jan 23, 2005 09:50 PM

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we lived together since Oct. 2002. I was also opposed to it at first, but FH came all the way to Chicago to be with me... and actually it was the best thing that could have happened. The couple of months of us living together was sort of hard. We're been going out since highschool, but I tell ya, that you don't REALLY know someone until you live with them. We had to learn to share each others space and time. NOT AN EASY THING. We had to decide on cooking and cleaning schedules. Balance school and our relationships. It's only us in Chicago so we really had to get used to not really having friends and family around. I'm really happy that we did decide to live together now.