if you asked a close friend to be in your bridal party and then they didnt ask you to be in theirs?
kBr
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yeah i would be..
DCLM726
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I think I might but it depended on the circumstances such as if they were keeping the BP family only or very small.
Kimbalina
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Depending on the situation.... but most likely yes
Mrs.C 102608
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so what do you consider really small? just a maid of honor and best man? what if it was 3 or so?
DCLM726
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so what do you consider really small? just a maid of honor and best man? what if it was 3 or so?
umm..MOH and BM and maybe 1 other on each side
drpepper318
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Yes probably. Unless I knew we weren't as good friends as we used to be.
Mrs.C 102608
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i just wanted to see if i was overreacting
MikeandJess
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I would be and I'd try very hard to not be but then I know I would constantly think about it 24/7 because it bothered me so much and I was trying so hard to pretend it didn't.
megzzie
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Probably
Mrs.C 102608
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Posted by MikeandJess
I would be and I'd try very hard to not be but then I know I would constantly think about it 24/7 because it bothered me so much and I was trying so hard to pretend it didn't.
yea its hard to pretend and get past it. Its almost like I want to say something but I its not my place. I guess you really cant say anything because its the other persons wedding.
jgl
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onlyif it was my MOH that didnt include me as a BM because if i felt she was so close to me to be my MOH then i would be to her too.
ant n tilde
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i did it
my FSIL had me in her wedding and I wanted to keep my wedding small.
It started out as: MOH, BM, Bridesmaid, GM, 2 Jr BM, 2 FG
but NOW I added my brother and sister so it is 2 BM and 2 GM
I consider that small. . . BUT I also have two of her kids AND her husband in the wedding so I use that as an excuse
I think everyone is mad at me about it but I think they will get over it.
LIprincess
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yes probably, unless she was doing a MOH and BM
JimmysPants
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yea I would be BUT if they had a big family like alot of sisters then no.
Mrs.C 102608
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at first i thought it was to keep the numbers the same..... MOH, 2 BM, Best Man, 2 GM but then I thought that it really doesnt have to be even because one guy can walk in with 2 girls or whatever. My BP was uneven at one point but I didnt care because everyone in it were special to me.
PEPE10
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I might be a little upset How good of a friend is she? can you talk to her about how you feel?
Mrs.C 102608
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Posted by PEPE10
I might be a little upset How good of a friend is she? can you talk to her about how you feel?
I dont know how she feels but I feel like we are close. I thought about talking to her but I dont want her to be guilted into asking me.
JTsGal829
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i probably would be depending on the situation..
kellyannebrennan
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A small part of me would be resentful- unless like others say she was keeping it to family or had to meet a certain number of groomsmen. I would hold a grudge silently though.
