Would you be mad if...

Original post by ladybug78

May 12, 2005 07:18 PM

your maid-of-honor told you she was going to a U-2 concert 3 nights before your wedding and 1 night before your rehearsal dinner? I don't know how to feel.

lullabella Posted: May 13, 2005 10:00 AM

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Don't be upset, I am sure she will be with you the next 3 nights so that is plenty!

jersee3380 Posted: May 14, 2005 05:04 PM

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Posted by csorisi

I wouldn't be mad--she isn't missing anything for the wedding--then I would be mad

i agree

aidamarie Posted: May 14, 2005 05:26 PM

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Posted by piyopika

No, I would ask her to take me along!

Me too LOL

Boop2704 Posted: May 14, 2005 05:32 PM

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I wouldn't be mad, but I definitely understand where you are coming from. It's your big day three days later and you do not want to take any chances with anything happening. I would be upset if you had last minute things to do and you MOH planned to help you and then all of a sudden backed out to go to the concert. Don't let it bug you, everything will be fine!!

DrBeLLaRoSe Posted: May 14, 2005 07:41 PM

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try not to be upset! remember this is about you and your fiance and don't worry about other people. It's funny how many weird emotions this whole wedding thing brings out in us

we are here for you if you need to talk more about this

prncssrachel Posted: May 14, 2005 07:49 PM

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Um, not at all. My wedding is not as important to anyone else as it is to JT and I. I don't care if she was at a U2 concert the night before my wedding, as long as she shows up at the right time and place. And even then, if she didn't show up at all, it doesn't matter, as long as JT and I do, no one else really matters in the long run.

Jen_n_Dale Posted: May 14, 2005 08:49 PM

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Are you kidding??? I hope she would be taking me. That is my favorite group!

Preshy7 Posted: May 15, 2005 04:33 AM

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i think its a little selfish to be mad - i mean its not like shes going to the concert on your wedding day .... i'm just being honest.

ladybug78 Posted: May 15, 2005 09:50 AM

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Posted by DrBeLLaRoSe

try not to be upset! remember this is about you and your fiance and don't worry about other people. It's funny how many weird emotions this whole wedding thing brings out in us

we are here for you if you need to talk more about this

Thanks for the advice!! I guess I feel like she hasn't been a helpful, supportive maid-of-honor throughout our engagement so that's why I have been having these weird emotions about her.

BriBri529 Posted: May 15, 2005 09:52 AM

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What is there to be mad about?

bluesashbride Posted: May 15, 2005 10:22 AM

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no, she'll still be at the events right? can't help that U2 didn't plan the tour differently. i'd actually think she was rock'in--very cool she gets to go!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: May 15, 2005 10:29 AM

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I wouldn't be mad. I would be if it was the day of the rehearsal dinner or wedding. Otherwise I would be jealous that I wasn't going with her.

edsprincess Posted: May 15, 2005 10:32 AM

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i wouldnt be mad, as long as she understands how important those 2 days are to you. and shes there for them

junebride! Posted: May 15, 2005 11:58 PM

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I can't understand why you would even conside being mad...she's going to be there for your RD and wedding...bcasue she's your MOH doesn't mean her whole life goes on hold...perhaps, however, I'm mising something. Did you two have somwthing planned for that evenng and now she's leaving you 'flat?'