she is a 1000 miles away? how far of a drive is it? does she drive long distances? my bf lives in fla and i am thrilled that she is going to be a bm. I don't expect anything from her, except to be at my wedding. I know she can't get here and I am alright with that. I can't wait till I see her. we have been friends since we were teenagers almost 25 years ago. that is more than enought for me.
irishgrl1017
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Hmm...I would prob tell her it is botherinf you. If she drops out...so be it! Just think she is going to be in all your pics, and if she doesnt want to share in this wonderful time in your life...let her go...sometimes it takes things like this to see who your true friends are
kat124
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Hey,
I know how you feel. My MOH keeps doing somethign similar to me. Have a talk with her, if she keeps doing it, my advice is to ask her to step down from her duties. I know you probably dont want to loose her friendship, but this is very important and there are a lot of things that is her duty to get done and she isnt doing them. Good luck.
bluegreen08
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AndRecKy
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i replied earlier but i feel like just adding this...sometimes people really do suck and it hurts when they just dont come around for you...im so hurt by some of my bm's....
larsgirl98
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im sorry you are going thru this! I think people dont realize the commitment they are making and have to realize they have to give themselves to certain things pertaining to the wedding. i feel that people dont realize that they are given an honor and they have to do things for the bride. Im starting to learn who my 'sisters' are and who are 'friends'
Espo22
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how about asking her straight up. See if she even wants to be involved. Say to her that she missed your e-party which ok fine happens, but then out of the 7 weeks you will be in NY she says MAYBE we can meet for dinner once that is BS. Now your MOH gives her a bunch of dates for your bach party and she says she cant make any of them, how about saying a date that is good for her. I understand ppl are busy but give me a break
