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Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Feb 14, 2003 01:59 PM

Re: Am I mean or what?

Steph..

There are those who I communicate with on this board daily.. I wanted to see what they would say..

Not the voice of those I stay clear of.. They know EXACTLY WHO THEY ARE!

Edited to also say they always find me when they have something to say that isn't nice NEVER around to give advice. Get off my back its annoying!

jennbaby Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:01 PM

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Theresa then you should have FM them.

wacky Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:02 PM

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why? Jenn.

MarcellaBella Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:03 PM

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I'm with wacky? why?

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:03 PM

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No I shouldn't....

I can ask a simple question like the rest....

I am sick of always the one being picked on when I was the one being called pathetic.Its so hysterical!

ddunne23 Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:04 PM

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And what does all of this have to do with wedding planning...'Brides Helping Brides'...oh thats right, nothing! Keep it where it belongs, IMO. I'm finished with this thread...moving right along.

jennbaby Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:04 PM

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why wacky? why because if she doesn't want people to comment she should FM them or specify their names in the title of the post to respond, so that others don't answer.

KarenK122 Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:05 PM

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I guess this is our weekly Friday drama post : ).

To answer the inital question though.....Theresa, even though your dislike your FMIL now you never know what the future will bring in your relationship. She is probably going through tons of emotions right now and mabye you should be the bigger person and show her your there if she needs it. If not for her sake....your FH's sake and your future childrens' sake.

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:05 PM

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I can do whatever I want to do its a public board...

wacky Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:06 PM

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Teresa, look I say what ever is on my mind many times.

I have told people to **** off, **** off and what ever else.

You can ask an opinion no problem.

Some people will agree and others will not.

If your FMIL ****ed you off she ****ed you off.

nrvbrd Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:07 PM

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Theresa I know how you feel about your FMIL and it is not all roses.

If you are not comfortable calling her to express your concern, then don't. A gesture like that requires genuine feelings of concern which you do not have for this lady.

I refuse to call you mean or heartless, as it is not my place to judge you.

I hope this answers your question.

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:07 PM

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Wacky....

I have nothing but RESPECT for you!!!!!!

Crisco718 Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:08 PM

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In an effor to keep the peace I am going to say why I think this shoudl have been asked via FM.

1. You know there are people who will have negative comments to make about you.
2. You specifically asked if you were being mean and when people responded you got upset.
3. If this was done via FM you will have gotten responses from those who you have a relationship with and whose opinions you value and you would avoid the negativity that will come with this type of post.

Let this die and lets get back to planning.

MarcellaBella Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:08 PM

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GREAT idea jennbaby...

jennbaby Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:09 PM

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Amen!

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Feb 14, 2003 02:09 PM

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Thanks for the words of wisdom..

BUT its always the SAME girls who have negative things to say but those who I interact with DAILY don't..

So funny..........