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eh i don't care if fh has a stripper bc he thinks they're gross anyway
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I didn't care and he didn't have a stripper nor go out anywhere. He stayed at home with his bestman playing Guitar hero and getting drunk lol
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I honestly could care less if there is a stripper or not.
FI has already said numerous times that he doesn't even wanna go out for his b-party. He wants to get the guys together in his parents backyard with a keg of beer and they are not allowed to leave the house until it's finished. I already said I predict they'll end up at Vixens![]()
FI has already said numerous times that he doesn't even wanna go out for his b-party. He wants to get the guys together in his parents backyard with a keg of beer and they are not allowed to leave the house until it's finished. I already said I predict they'll end up at Vixens
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its not really something im going to work myself up over... i know hes been to strip clubs, hes been to a dozen other bachelor parties... like someone in the 2011 board said the other day most guys think strippers are nasty... i know FH does.... but I also know that there will be strippers at his bachelor party... im not going to tell him that he cant have them or anything like that...
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They went to the Hustler club for a few hours… it kind of grossed me out and I made him wash all of his clothes right away. ![]()
I wasn’t a huge fan of it but I got over it in like a day. It did make me feel better that they went to a club though… strippers that would like go to someone’s house scare me a little more.
I wasn’t a huge fan of it but I got over it in like a day. It did make me feel better that they went to a club though… strippers that would like go to someone’s house scare me a little more.
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DH went to Vegas and the guys went to strip clubs....it's part of life and it's not a big deal to me.
I've gone to strip clubs in the past and most of the girls are into girls anyway! I wouldn't worry about it! OH!.....though, I would say....I would much rather prefer my DH go to a strip club than to have strippers over at someone's house. That's a no-no to me....things get very raunchy in private and while I trust DH it's just not proper environment for a married man.
I've gone to strip clubs in the past and most of the girls are into girls anyway! I wouldn't worry about it! OH!.....though, I would say....I would much rather prefer my DH go to a strip club than to have strippers over at someone's house. That's a no-no to me....things get very raunchy in private and while I trust DH it's just not proper environment for a married man.
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I tend to think what's going to happen is going to happen whether you give 'permission' or not. I'll be the first to agree that it's gross, nauseating, etc BUT this whole thing comes down to trusting your FH. I've read about guys all having their 'story' of what happened that night (we had dinner and went to a few dive bars) to cover the truth (they were really at some strip club doing whatever).
I think a lot of guys are pressured into going the strip club route and don't want to look lame to their friends, even if they'd prefer guitar hero. I also think (and hope) it's usually harmless. While I don't want to know any details, I'm not going to make a big deal about it. I look at it like this is the person I'm going to marry, I wouldn't be doing that if I didn't trust him.
I think a lot of guys are pressured into going the strip club route and don't want to look lame to their friends, even if they'd prefer guitar hero. I also think (and hope) it's usually harmless. While I don't want to know any details, I'm not going to make a big deal about it. I look at it like this is the person I'm going to marry, I wouldn't be doing that if I didn't trust him.
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Honestly, I wouldn't care. I know he diesn't want one, but I also know his best man... and even if he did want one, or if one winds up here, I really don't mind. It's not something he's doing with the intention of deceiving or cheating on me. I know he's coming home to me and I trust and know he would never touch another woman, I don't even have to threaten him. It's fine.
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I know FH is going to have a stripper at his party just because his uncle is helping plan it and his cousin already told me that he saw some stripper website up on the screen lol so I know it's coming... I'm not pleased about it but at the same time, I know my FH very well and I trust him 100%.. so while I'm not happy that some gross girl is gonna be all over him, I know that it doesn't mean anything to him and I know he would rather not even have a stripper... its more for his friends and family.
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I never gave it a thought. FH thinks that strippers are nasty so I'm not worried about it - but he's a guy and guys like looking. It's not like he's going to take her home!!!
His b-party is 11/7 - they are going to A/C. I don't really care what he does as long as he doesn't lose too much money and he's home on Sunday the 8th to finish work in the house!
His b-party is 11/7 - they are going to A/C. I don't really care what he does as long as he doesn't lose too much money and he's home on Sunday the 8th to finish work in the house!
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I didnt care one way or the other. they ended up not getting one b/c personally it didnt matter to me
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I hate them and are completely against them as well.. so i completely understand how you feel.
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My fh also thinks they are gross ...like someone said I think most decent guys do. I know he doesn't want to have strippers at his b party (he wants to do paint ball or something And then go out) haha but you never know with those groomsmen! I agree with everyone if they go to a club it is way cleaner than a house or rented place, although I would still make him shower and wash his cloths asap haha. he went to a b party with strippers at some rented out dive bar and he said it was so raunchy and discusting and what he saw can't be unseen haha apparently the girls were really gross!! Anyway I got over the fact that he was at this raunch party and I know that he didn't touch these chicks let alone want to look at some of them ! Just make sure you go out with your girls the same night and that will take your mind off of it!
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I told him to do what we wanted....it is there one night to have fun and as long as you trust him not to do anything more than look what is the problem? It is like a right of passage or something...LOL Let him have fun...he is marrying you and loves you that is all that matters
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I don't 'allow' FH to do anything. He's an adult, he does what he wants. I trust him implicitly.
Also, I've been to a strip club with him and his brother.![]()
In fact it was the night before his brother proposed to his g/f. I'm a bad FSIL. ![]()
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Also, I've been to a strip club with him and his brother.
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Do I think you are nuts for not wanted your FH to have one....no. But I do think you should let him make his own decision. I have found in my 36 years that the more restrictions you put one men the more they want to do something. I told my DH to do what he wants.....he went golfing.....If I had said NO STRIPPERS he might have done it anyway and then not told me....but by saying do what you want...even if he does have one he will probably tell you about it and you have to trust he will handle himself in a respectful way. A stripper cannot make a guy do something they do not want to do....the guy has to be ok with it for it to get out of hand. ANd there are plenty of skanky women in regular bars that will do way more than a stripper will do and it will be for free.
