XOXO

FH can do whatever he wants. i went to a strip club for my friends bachelorette party & he was fully aware. afterward i said i would never, ever go again because i don't see the enjoyment. i thought it was gross & disgusting.

but if he & the guys want to go they can go. i fully trust him & he is an adult who can make his own decisions.

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

ok I understand everyone's opinions.. I NEVER said I don't trust the FH! so everyone who keeps replying with 'I trust my FH', that's not it.

I just feel if you don't do that now, why that one night?!

If he goes, he goes.. I'm not going to not marry him or get into a big fight over it.

I just think it's disrespectful. But everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

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Not to kick up but I highly doubt your man has never been to a strip club. As previous posters said, it's a rite of passage and as long as you trust him, it's harmless.

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

ok I understand everyone's opinions.. I NEVER said I don't trust the FH! so everyone who keeps replying with 'I trust my FH', that's not it.

I just feel if you don't do that now, why that one night?!

If he goes, he goes.. I'm not going to not marry him or get into a big fight over it.

I just think it's disrespectful. But everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

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Not to kick up but I highly doubt your man has never been to a strip club. As previous posters said, it's a rite of passage and as long as you trust him, it's harmless.

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In the 5 years we have been together, no he hasn't.. and before me, I don't care if he did or not but he was 18 when we first started dating so he couldnt even get into one.

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You've been with him every evening for 5 years?

I'm not attacking. I do think you're being extremely silly though. And like previous posters said this is what you're worrying about 3 YEARS until the wedding?

And also, I would kill my FH if he didn't have a life of his own.

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

ok I understand everyone's opinions.. I NEVER said I don't trust the FH! so everyone who keeps replying with 'I trust my FH', that's not it.

I just feel if you don't do that now, why that one night?!

If he goes, he goes.. I'm not going to not marry him or get into a big fight over it.

I just think it's disrespectful. But everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

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Why that one night? Because its a tradition. FH does not ever go, but if he wanted to go for his bparty there's no way I'd say no...I wouldn't want him telling me what to do for mine, so why should I tell him what to do for his?

The only stipulation is 'Don't do anything stupid' and I know he won't because he's got truthful tourettes and tells me everything anyway.

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

ok I understand everyone's opinions.. I NEVER said I don't trust the FH! so everyone who keeps replying with 'I trust my FH', that's not it.

I just feel if you don't do that now, why that one night?!

If he goes, he goes.. I'm not going to not marry him or get into a big fight over it.

I just think it's disrespectful. But everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

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Not to kick up but I highly doubt your man has never been to a strip club. As previous posters said, it's a rite of passage and as long as you trust him, it's harmless.

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In the 5 years we have been together, no he hasn't.. and before me, I don't care if he did or not but he was 18 when we first started dating so he couldnt even get into one.

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You've been with him every evening for 5 years?

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Yes Mam! And the nights I go out with the ladies dancing, he is at my house in my bed waiting for me! I have a good man :0)

and it was a simple question that I was wondering everyone's opinion.. why you are attacking me, I have no idea.

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so if i go out & my FH goes out with the guys, hes not good??

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

ok I understand everyone's opinions.. I NEVER said I don't trust the FH! so everyone who keeps replying with 'I trust my FH', that's not it.

I just feel if you don't do that now, why that one night?!

If he goes, he goes.. I'm not going to not marry him or get into a big fight over it.

I just think it's disrespectful. But everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

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Not to kick up but I highly doubt your man has never been to a strip club. As previous posters said, it's a rite of passage and as long as you trust him, it's harmless.

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In the 5 years we have been together, no he hasn't.. and before me, I don't care if he did or not but he was 18 when we first started dating so he couldnt even get into one.

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You've been with him every evening for 5 years?

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Yes Mam! And the nights I go out with the ladies dancing, he is at my house in my bed waiting for me! I have a good man :0)

and it was a simple question that I was wondering everyone's opinion.. why you are attacking me, I have no idea.

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so if i go out & my FH goes out with the guys, hes not good??

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Thank you Christine- I thought it was just me. I know this is going to sound wrong, but a companion who stays at home all day and waits for you to come home sounds more like a pet than a significant other. I'm so glad that FH and I have our own interests/friends/lives.

Let the begin!

WOW! Next post. I'm done replying to this one because everyone is taking what I am saying out of proportion.

Thank you to the ladies who responded with their opinions.

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Posted by christine2010

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP

ok I understand everyone's opinions.. I NEVER said I don't trust the FH! so everyone who keeps replying with 'I trust my FH', that's not it.

I just feel if you don't do that now, why that one night?!

If he goes, he goes.. I'm not going to not marry him or get into a big fight over it.

I just think it's disrespectful. But everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

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Not to kick up but I highly doubt your man has never been to a strip club. As previous posters said, it's a rite of passage and as long as you trust him, it's harmless.

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In the 5 years we have been together, no he hasn't.. and before me, I don't care if he did or not but he was 18 when we first started dating so he couldnt even get into one.

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You've been with him every evening for 5 years?

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Yes Mam! And the nights I go out with the ladies dancing, he is at my house in my bed waiting for me! I have a good man :0)

and it was a simple question that I was wondering everyone's opinion.. why you are attacking me, I have no idea.

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so if i go out & my FH goes out with the guys, hes not good??

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Thank you Christine- I thought it was just me. I know this is going to sound wrong, but a companion who stays at home all day and waits for you to come home sounds more like a pet than a significant other. I'm so glad that FH and I have our own interests/friends/lives.

Let the begin!

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i am not usually one to start with the but that comment bugged me.

i have been with my FH for 9.5 years. if we didn't do our own separate thing on occasion i would loose my mind. to say that he sits & waits for you at home in your bed is something i heard from a 16 year old, not someone planning a wedding.