I told my FH that he could have one...I dont care, but thats not his things so I think they are passing on that.
I said no stripper in the hotel room they do some nasty sh*t... I said if they must go to strip club then so be it, but Fh hates being touches by random strangers and would never let a lapdance do out of control...
Posted by jilliibabii
I don't 'allow' FH to do anything. He's an adult, he does what he wants. I trust him implicitly.
Also, I've been to a strip club with him and his brother.In fact it was the night before his brother proposed to his g/f. I'm a bad FSIL.
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Posted by BellaBride27
I hate them and are completely against them as well.. so i completely understand how you feel.
Well I think me & you have different opinions from everyone else. Whatever. Whether he has one or not, I'm still going to marry him & I trust him.. but he knows how I feel about them so he should respect me and not have one.. and that goes for his groomsmen as well.. they all know my feelings toward a stripper! lol
I am not thrilled about it, but it is okay as long as it is not a private stripper and they go to the club. Only looking and no touching haha.
Posted by Soon2BeMrsP
Posted by BellaBride27
Posted by Soon2BeMrsP
Posted by BellaBride27
I hate them and are completely against them as well.. so i completely understand how you feel.
Well I think me & you have different opinions from everyone else. Whatever. Whether he has one or not, I'm still going to marry him & I trust him.. but he knows how I feel about them so he should respect me and not have one.. and that goes for his groomsmen as well.. they all know my feelings toward a stripper! lol
i could not agree more....if he doesn't go to strip clubs now i really don't understand why before marrying me it would be so essential to go! Is it really that horrible to get married that you need to go see naked girls. He would flip a sh$t if it was the reverse situation and some man was all over me. Of course i will still marry My FH as well and trust him 100% but still don't feel the need for him to even be around something like that. JMO but i feel your stress![]()
EXACTLY! ITA!
I mean he has never gone since I met him, so why this one night? I honestly rather have a joint Bachelorette/Bachelor party since we have most of the same mutual friends. But at least one person agrees with me, so I feel better now! lol![]()
I really don't care if he has one. Lap dance and whatever. It really doesn't make a difference to me. It's a part of the course, I've gone with him to a bachelor party (girls and guys) and he could care less. I trust him with those girls that are 'putting themselves through college.'
Touchy subject for some but I hope my FH has a blast at his Bachelor Party. Whether it includes a stripper, strip club or none of the above. I actually took my FH to his first strip club ever. I trust him not to cross any major lines as he does with me. I in no way feel threathened by a stripper not when he has ME for a fiance...lol. He can have his fun on his one-time last night as a bachelor. I wouldn't censor or limit HIS night in any way. I know I am going to have a blast. We both know what we are coming home to for a life time.
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Posted by Soon2BeMrsP
Posted by BellaBride27
Posted by Soon2BeMrsP
Posted by BellaBride27
I hate them and are completely against them as well.. so i completely understand how you feel.
Well I think me & you have different opinions from everyone else. Whatever. Whether he has one or not, I'm still going to marry him & I trust him.. but he knows how I feel about them so he should respect me and not have one.. and that goes for his groomsmen as well.. they all know my feelings toward a stripper! lol
i could not agree more....if he doesn't go to strip clubs now i really don't understand why before marrying me it would be so essential to go! Is it really that horrible to get married that you need to go see naked girls. He would flip a sh$t if it was the reverse situation and some man was all over me. Of course i will still marry My FH as well and trust him 100% but still don't feel the need for him to even be around something like that. JMO but i feel your stress![]()
EXACTLY! ITA!
I mean he has never gone since I met him, so why this one night? I honestly rather have a joint Bachelorette/Bachelor party since we have most of the same mutual friends. But at least one person agrees with me, so I feel better now! lol![]()
Yes thank you too..a little less stress to know someone else out there agrees with me![]()
Posted by Soon2BeMrsP
Did you or are you allowing him to have a stripper?
I am totally against it!!
FH's best man told me I have nothing to worry about because he refuses to have one,
but the whole thought of it still makes me mad!![]()
I just want to see everyone else's opinions!
Am I nuts for not letting him have one?
We haven't even talked about this...but I really could care less if he has a stripper. He can do whatever he wants, I trust him 150% and I trust his friends not to let him do anything stupid.
If FH wants strippers at his bparty thats fine with me. I 110% trust him and he is a grown man who can make his own decisions. I told him I would be fine with it as long as going to strip clubs didn't become a regular occurence.
Posted by Kimbalina
Dh did not have a stripper.. they never made it to the strip club that they were going to!
However it was not a concern to me. A stripper is one thing, a woman giving massages or some kind of physical touching,... etc... is another thing and DH agreed with me on that.
Don't worry yourself with it. Especially if they are saying it isn't happening. Trust them and remember if they do have some naked Boobs in their face then they can see it at a beach, or on True Blood (Hbo show) just the same.
He is marrying you and that should be a very satisfying feeling.
Best wishes!
