XOXO

Stavia Posted: May 29, 2003 03:53 PM

Re: Do you feel like,,,Why Bother, no one really cares or notices...

All the little touches are important to me! I am doing them for myself more then my guests, I want my wedding to feel a certain way, so I am doing things I feel necessary to achieve the atmosphere I want for my wedding day. As far as FH, he wants me to be happy, so he supports anything I want to do.

WithThisRing Posted: May 29, 2003 04:43 PM

Re: Do you feel like,,,Why Bother, no one really cares or notices...

princess99 Posted: May 29, 2003 04:50 PM

Re: Do you feel like,,,Why Bother, no one really cares or notices...

I know how u feel. We are trying to do things that are unique and not cost too much. Then I soemtimes wonder do people really notice. ..... We are having nice flower centerpieces, scattered mini choclate bars on the table with custom wrappers, and custom made,handmade table # frames. We are even going to reuse the frames for the bridal party's pics. It seems like all these details are never ending, and cost way too much!

jenny2penny Posted: May 29, 2003 08:35 PM

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lilmrs Posted: May 30, 2003 12:35 AM

Re: Do you feel like,,,Why Bother, no one really cares or notices...

at times during planning I thought that same thing. Then my wedding happened....I can't believe how many poeple noticed the little things, it really made it worth it. I am glad for every single little thing that I did.

yabbobay Posted: May 30, 2003 01:27 AM

Re: Do you feel like,,,Why Bother, no one really cares or notices...

people notice...everybody doesn't notice everything...but everyone notices something...

**a coworker mentioned to a new cowroker, who was getting married, that she should come see me, b/c of all the little details that I had planned!!

**my second cousin told DH he got choked up during the dinner when he heard led zepplin playing - who notices dinenr music...well I don't think people expected our montage of led zepplin, pink floyd, and the doors - that we handpicked so that DH could have his music played at the wedding...and the older guests didn't notice...b/c we picked low-key songs

**we got pictures from the table cameras of the most peculiar things...our wedding program with centerpiece and favor - I guess they liked them enough to take a picture...we also got many pictures of the food!!!

so yes...little things mean alot...especially if you do them b/c they mean something to you and DH