Im sure its different whether you are or are not living together..but...with all t he planning and preparing to be married..is your relationship changing? Do you notice a difference?
for ex: My FH and I talked about it and his mostly single friends are all like...well never see you again. bla bla.. it kinda hurt!
The difference in dating v. getting married...your responsibilites to each other...do they change since youve gotten engaged?
Are other things changing?
SoontobeMrsH
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thanks
madseason
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and hes marrying the girl next door...its like out of a movie!
cindy104
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I definitely do think that things change a bit when you move in together, but in my case, FH and I have been living together for over 4 years now, so I don't see much changing after we get married!! And the past few years have been the same....it's only really the first few months to a year (of moving in together) that things change a bit.
madseason
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I cant wait to live with FH....but again im soooooo nervous!
JeanetteandSteve
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I cant wait to live with FH....but again im soooooo nervous!
i bet when you live together you won't care as much if he goes out w his friends b/c you'll see him ALLLLL the time!!
that's what happened with us. i'm sure it will make you feel much better and more secure about how much time you get with him.
madseason
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Good Point...
lol sometimes he makes me feel like... 'Ive gotta get everything in before you chain me to the wall!!!'
Autumn08
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I've personally changed and as a result the relationship had to change. I started a new job in a new field, went back to school for nursing, and got engaged within a few months. I was so busy and adjusting to an overnight schedule that I didn't get to see my friends that often. I was really stressed for awhile. You are always going to be changing. Every now and then we have discussions about children. Once that happens everything changes. As husband and wife you can still go out with friends to dinner or movies etc... but it's not so easy with kids.
