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did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
janwinterbridejoy
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:32 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:32 PM
did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
i would have to say mine was about as i expected it to be its takes a lot of adjustment
swags1016
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:39 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:39 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
definitely easier than planning the wedding.
MrsERod
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:40 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:40 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Posted by swags1016
definitely easier than planning the wedding.
OMG...I was going to say the exact same thing!!
Moehick
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:53 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:53 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Easier then I thought it would be
mrswask
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:55 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 08:55 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Harder than I thought it would be!!
LisaT
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:00 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:00 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
EASIER! not that I thought it'd be difficult but after hearing 'first year is the hardest...' I was VERY pleasantly surprised by just how awesome it is to be married.
btrflygrl
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:05 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:05 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Posted by swags1016
definitely easier than planning the wedding.
agreed...but there have been so many things for us to deal with that I thought we would handle differently or thought we wouldn't have to deal with at all.....but we are getting through it together!
Monkeybride
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:05 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:05 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
So far so good. We lived together before so it's not that different for us but we have had our share of adjustments and we're doing well through them.
Sunny
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:07 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:07 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Easier, all though I wasn't expecting it to be hard.
julz33
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:13 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:13 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
I have only been married for about 3 months so I can't say yet... but so far things are great
I expected it to be like this!
lilmrs
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:19 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:19 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
first year was easier...second hear has been a bit tougher than anticipated.
VickiC
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:33 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:33 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
The first 6-8 months were a little harder than expected. But since then, it's been smooth sailing! Our second year was definitely easier.
rrdm782004
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:35 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 09:35 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
you have to be willing to listen and communicate alot. Also be able to know each other differences.
J.Lo24
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 10:06 PM+
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 10:06 PM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Posted by LisaT
EASIER! not that I thought it'd be difficult but after hearing 'first year is the hardest...' I was VERY pleasantly surprised by just how awesome it is to be married.
We feel the same way! We really enjoy just being together. Married life has been smooth sailing for us!!
cocoa
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 06:06 AM+
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 06:06 AM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
harder. but we both had a lot of issues shortly after we came back from our honeymoon. not horrible issues, but we didn't have a tv for a month...not terrible, but we didn't have money either, so we read a lot, but we were constantly around each other. then we both got new jobs that just took EVERYTHING out of us and our jobs realllllly got in between us for a month or two. but we have been really working with each other and that helps so much!
dandj
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 07:07 AM+
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 07:07 AM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Easier... I kept waiting for that adjustment/fighting period to happen and it never did. It felt like we had lived together forever...
wc0143
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 08:28 AM+
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 08:28 AM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
I didn't expect it to be 'hard' ... we'd already lived together for a while, so it's really exactly the same.
tracyg
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 08:30 AM+
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 08:30 AM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Easier, since we lived together for two years before we got married. So we already had that period of adjustment.
tracyg
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 08:31 AM+
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 08:31 AM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Posted by wc0143
I didn't expect it to be 'hard' ... we'd already lived together for a while, so it's really exactly the same.
exactly, i really didn't expect anything to change. It's only changed for the better.
Irishbride
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 09:14 AM+
Posted: Dec 23, 2004 09:14 AM
Re: did you think your first year of marriage was easier or harder then you expected
Much harder than I expected and we lived together b/4 we got married.
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