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The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

shamma Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:23 PM+

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Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:23 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

I guess you are not going...oh tacky from beginning to end

If you cannot invite everyone from the job, then send it to the person's home. How dare her invite you w/o your hubby

shamma Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:24 PM+

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Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:24 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

Drop it off on her desk, did she provide you with a stamp, if not send her a no in an email

lilmrs Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:53 PM+

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Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:53 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

I like that I will drop it off at her desk...maybe I will just drop by her office and verbally say no.

lilmrs Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:54 PM+

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Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:54 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

hey Shamma, what do you think of the ty? I know you are all about pictures!!

michele31 Posted: Oct 14, 2003 08:11 AM+

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Posted: Oct 14, 2003 08:11 AM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

I don't even know what to say to this post. This co-worker is not only RUDE but she is also totally full of herself. Sending out a 'I want a gift' e-mail is a first in my book. I will probably tell this story to a few friends and we will all laugh at it. I would NEVER give someone like that a gift. I would probably also NOT attend the wedding. I would not send a gift either. I just cannot deal with people like this.
No RSVP card? I would e-mail her and say 'I got your invite to the wedding but it did not include a response card. How should I let you know whether I am coming or not?'
The VERY funny thing is that in very high society type weddings a response card is not included in an invite set. You are suppose to write a handwritten response on your personal stationary. I HIGHLY doubt she even knew that.......

Fran M Posted: Oct 14, 2003 12:38 PM+

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Posted: Oct 14, 2003 12:38 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

There is no response card! Did she provide any sort of RSVP info? If she didnt I would probably ignore the entire thing - I would be that put off by it.

Nora101004 Posted: Oct 14, 2003 01:31 PM+

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Posted: Oct 14, 2003 01:31 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

You could send back the invite- RETURN TO SENDER.

michele31 Posted: Oct 14, 2003 01:59 PM+

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Posted: Oct 14, 2003 01:59 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

Nora

Return to Sender in her work mailbox

since she didn't put a stamp on it.

Sassy Posted: Oct 14, 2003 02:08 PM+

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Posted: Oct 14, 2003 02:08 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

WOW - TACKY TACKY TACKY and RUDE !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those comments were not called for. What nerve

shamma Posted: Oct 14, 2003 02:45 PM+

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Posted: Oct 14, 2003 02:45 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

Nora, I like that option, put it in inter-office and send it back to her

Misty Posted: Oct 14, 2003 03:05 PM+

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Posted: Oct 14, 2003 03:05 PM

Re: The rules of wedding planning...out the window!

I don't know about anyone else, but I am itching to see this email.

It reminds me of the invite my DH got to a party celebrating his friends marriage 4 months prior. She told everyone in the email to bring his/her own meat to the barbeque (yes, BYOM...that's how it was said) and that they'd only provide a few drinks and condiments because they blew their wad on the wedding none of us were invited too.

People just amaze me.