Who has been your biggest wedding planning assistant / helper? Your MOH, your mom, your long-lost cousin who resurfaced just in time to help you with your stuff?
twoifbysea
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my mom has definitely been my biggest help -- not that she's gone to book every vendor with me, but she's objective. I've been calling and emailing her a lot at work (!) but she's the only person I trust, aside from FH, who will be 100% honest with me. She'll tell me no holds barred if she hates or loves something.
MirabellaNYC
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I would have to say FH!! We make a great team.
He's so great I haven't needed to call for any back up. I feel very lucky
MrsCM
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FH is helpful with phone calls when I don't want to deal with vendors. My MOH is helpful when I need artistic input and one of my BMs has been unemployed for most of my engagement so whenever I need someone to tag along she's usually on board but it's a toss up between FH & my MOH.
EDA: I want to change my answer...I think that collectively it's been all of you on LIW.
Tracey1979
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My mother and one of my BM's.
geegee827
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My younger sister has been amazing! She's just been great from the get-go!
mlcvln129
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Actually, FH has been very helpful in keeping me sane and in making sure I don't do anything super tacky.
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fh has come to all the vendors with me but i would have to say my mom bc fh says its up to me lol. my fam gives more specific feedback lol.
kristentinnelly
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My mom, MOH (sister) and one of my BM.....they are the best
coldasice217
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My younger sister, one of my MOHs, she's been my own personal graphic designer/ribbon wand assembler lol.
springsandra
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Posted by twoifbysea
Who has been your biggest wedding planning assistant / helper? Your MOH, your mom, your long-lost cousin who resurfaced just in time to help you with your stuff?
Honestly... it's been you guys.
I guess with FH in North Carolina, my mom awaiting her kidney transplant, and everyone else so far away, I really have turned to you all more than anyone else.
In 'real life' it's been my MOH who I email and text ideas with from time to time. FH has been helpful too, but I don't ask him about everything or he'd kill me for too much wedding talk. My dad has been supportive, but I don't ask him questions too often.
There's also been some AMAZING support at work, even from people not coming to the wedding. One of the girls at work just gave us a present from our registry even though she's not invited to the wedding! So sweet!!
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Posted by twoifbysea
Who has been your biggest wedding planning assistant / helper? Your MOH, your mom, your long-lost cousin who resurfaced just in time to help you with your stuff?
Honestly... it's been you guys.
I guess with FH in North Carolina, my mom awaiting her kidney transplant, and everyone else so far away, I really have turned to you all more than anyone else.
In 'real life' it's been my MOH who I email and text ideas with from time to time. FH has been helpful too, but I don't ask him about everything or he'd kill me for too much wedding talk. My dad has been supportive, but I don't ask him questions too often.
There's also been some AMAZING support at work, even from people not coming to the wedding. One of the girls at work just gave us a present from our registry even though she's not invited to the wedding! So sweet!!
You took mine just as I edited!!!
dazies1011
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In ALL honest I have been . Yup thats right but, whatever atleast I know everything is getting done.
little34
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I would say FH actually....he is great with making decisions!!! And my MOH has been a huge help too!!! LOL
DomesticDeeva
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Me, myself and I.
I turn to my mother for input, but in the end, I decide. DH just goes with whatever.
Once we start with DIY stuff, my cousin (MOH) and my little sister from my sorority will help, but still, most of the ideas come from me (and LIW) lol.
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in the beginning it was my dad, but it took a while for my mom to come to terms with her baby getting married. Now it would without a doubt be my mom.
MoochsWifey
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FH by a long shot. He's the only person who has helped me with anything!
LadyDuda81509
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my SIL!! def not my MOH!! she hasnt been much a MOH at all! but my SIL has taken charge and been with me for all the shopping and planning!! she just got married actually a year ago yesterday and she knows the tricks of the trade! lol i swear she prob should have been a wedding planner instead of a teacher!
altho she just had a baby too so these last few weeks its been pretty much just me and the FH!
chicky724
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I would def say FH... I think he's actually made more phone calls about things than I have! (after I give him a list of things to do of course.)
PROBM
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def fh... no one close to me has ever planned a big wedding so we are doing it all by ourselves .. its awesome no outside opinions just us what we want and no one else!! (excpet the guestlist oh well )
