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Anyone else feel this way?--Updated!!

Original post by TJ22908

I have been on this site almost everyday for about a month now, but I feel like I'm an outsider. I read so many posts but I don't comment on many of them. I will explain...it seems like everyone on here has a good relationship with each other and I feel like I shouldn't comment because people don't know who I am and I don't want to step on toes (hope u know what I mean)..just wondering if anyone else feels this way? or has felt this way in the past? or I am I just a weirdo??

TJ22908 Posted:

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I just want to say thanks to all of you for not making me feel like I am just a weirdo!! I feel a lot better knowing that I am not the only person that has felt this way!! I actually posted some pics in my albums so you all can see. Ironically I realized that Jenise I know you from high school, kinda funny how I thought that I knew no one and I actually do!! Thanks for the warm welcome and hope to be talking to you all soon!!!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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don't feel that way!! you are more than welcome here!
missK Posted:

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I can see how you feel but the more I am on here and the more i get involved. The more comfortable it gets. I think it just takes time and everyone is really nice and helpful. We need each other especially when we areall going thru the same sort of thing. So happy posting.
chrispar Posted:

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Posted by TJ22908

I have been on this site almost everyday for about a month now, but I feel like I'm an outsider. I read so many posts but I don't comment on many of them. I will explain...it seems like everyone on here has a good relationship with each other and I feel like I shouldn't comment because people don't know who I am and I don't want to step on toes (hope u know what I mean)..just wondering if anyone else feels this way? or has felt this way in the past? or I am I just a weirdo??



Hey we are RH twins!!!!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by TJ22908

I have been on this site almost everyday for about a month now, but I feel like I'm an outsider. I read so many posts but I don't comment on many of them. I will explain...it seems like everyone on here has a good relationship with each other and I feel like I shouldn't comment because people don't know who I am and I don't want to step on toes (hope u know what I mean)..just wondering if anyone else feels this way? or has felt this way in the past? or I am I just a weirdo??



you shouldn't feel that way, i never look at a post and think ugh who is this and why are they posting...everyone was new at one point and we all had to go through this, don't feel this way, post away
cherish83 Posted:

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Don't feel that way. We were all new at one point. I've been on here since LAST January and at that point there werent many 08 brides, so it was easier to talk to the few that were here. I'm shy in 'real' life so this helps getting to know one another. The GTGs also REALLY help. You become friends with one another on here but once you meet its like you are real friends if that makes sense. The GTGs also help in associating with one another. We're having a GTG this month, why dont you try to come.

jennielovesbryan Posted:

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Posted by Luvbsb4eva

I feel that way at times... especially when I get busy with school or work and don't get on here much... but I try my best to help out and comment whenever I can... I know that I love when all of you help me out, so I try to help out as well!




i feel the same way...
missK Posted:

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When and where is the 08 GTG?

Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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i felt that way for a long time.... but once you get used to us you'll be just fine!!! we welcome everyone i havent been on as much as i used to and theres a ton of new people so its hard catching up! but we were all in your shoes at one time or another. just the majority of us have been on for qite some time so bonds have formed.. but dont worry you too will have them in no time!!! we're like our own little family!
jenlen Posted:

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Don't be shy! These girls are such a great resource. I would definitely post more except I'm not allowed to go online at work. But whenever I'm not sure of something, i ask these girls and they will give you their honest opinions...good or bad.

alymikewedding08 Posted:

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yea.. I totally know what you mean..

I still feel like a newbie sometimes.. but the more you talk to people the easier it gets.. and EVERYONE has been so nice and friendly!

Welcome
xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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i feel liek that every now and then.. but slowly im feeling liek we are one huge family

cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by missK

When and where is the 08 GTG?



We try to have one once a month. The location rotates. The first one was in Suffolk, the second one was in Nassua, and the third one was in the city. The next one ( some time this month, there is a thread somewhere) is going to be in Suffolk. We try to rotate it to make it fair.
I Love my bear Posted:

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I felt that way in the beginning mostly b/c I didn't know what certain abbreviations meant esp like GTG and I felt like an outsider asking...but you get used to it and the more you post the more you get to know the girls on here. Everyone is really helpful and esp w/the FM'ing whenever you have a question I have always gotten an answer back in less than 24hrs.

Fausha Posted:

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I know exactly what you mean. Because I'm not on here as much as I want to be. So, I sometimes feel out of the loop and I really don't know anyone. Maybe 2 or 3 people. But, everyone on here is really nice and helpful. So, try not to feel that way!

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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Posted by TJ22908

I just want to say thanks to all of you for not making me feel like I am just a weirdo!! I feel a lot better knowing that I am not the only person that has felt this way!! I actually posted some pics in my albums so you all can see. Ironically I realized that Jenise I know you from high school, kinda funny how I thought that I knew no one and I actually do!! Thanks for the warm welcome and hope to be talking to you all soon!!!



omg joann!!!!!! hahaha how funny! how are u? i havent heard from u in forever!!! and u and tom are getting married????? congrats!!! tell him i said so as well! i remember u moved to florida a looong time ago..are u back in NY?
TJ22908 Posted:

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008


Posted by TJ22908

I just want to say thanks to all of you for not making me feel like I am just a weirdo!! I feel a lot better knowing that I am not the only person that has felt this way!! I actually posted some pics in my albums so you all can see. Ironically I realized that Jenise I know you from high school, kinda funny how I thought that I knew no one and I actually do!! Thanks for the warm welcome and hope to be talking to you all soon!!!



omg joann!!!!!! hahaha how funny! how are u? i havent heard from u in forever!!! and u and tom are getting married????? congrats!!! tell him i said so as well! i remember u moved to florida a looong time ago..are u back in NY?



I'm good we have been back for almost 4 years, it seems so long ago that we were there!!! Yea we're finally getting married, ti's about time!! How are you? It's so funny that we meet up on here again, well I will talk to you soon!!
MrsD71208 Posted:

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Posted by TJ22908

I have been on this site almost everyday for about a month now, but I feel like I'm an outsider. I read so many posts but I don't comment on many of them. I will explain...it seems like everyone on here has a good relationship with each other and I feel like I shouldn't comment because people don't know who I am and I don't want to step on toes (hope u know what I mean)..just wondering if anyone else feels this way? or has felt this way in the past? or I am I just a weirdo??



Don't feel bad..I'm only a month old here and don't really know anyone personally either. AT times I can see what you are saying..sometimes the older members do chit chat back and forth and only respond to one another...but I'm sure they all got to know eachother by posting and becoming 'a regular'. At first I was offended noone responded or answer my posts....like, what is there one or two people on LIW that everyone is only able to talk to??? lol But I realized that just like in life, you usually talk to people you know. So, keep posting and they'll get to know you and me and any other newbie LOL
AS Posted:

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Awwww you shouldnt feel this way and you should post your opinions on here, and you wouldnt be 'stepping on anyones toes', lol.
ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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Posted by TJ22908

I just want to say thanks to all of you for not making me feel like I am just a weirdo!! I feel a lot better knowing that I am not the only person that has felt this way!! I actually posted some pics in my albums so you all can see. Ironically I realized that Jenise I know you from high school, kinda funny how I thought that I knew no one and I actually do!! Thanks for the warm welcome and hope to be talking to you all soon!!!



omg joann!!!!!! hahaha how funny! how are u? i havent heard from u in forever!!! and u and tom are getting married????? congrats!!! tell him i said so as well! i remember u moved to florida a looong time ago..are u back in NY?



I'm good we have been back for almost 4 years, it seems so long ago that we were there!!! Yea we're finally getting married, ti's about time!! How are you? It's so funny that we meet up on here again, well I will talk to you soon!!



lol thats how long its been since ive talked to u! hahaha..are u living in the same area (in suffolk) still? My brother says hi!

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