$$$$ anyone else totally worried??

Fh and I are paying for most of the wedding ourselves. we went through and made a list of everything we had to pay for. i am so scared. i dont know where we are going to get this moiney from. Im not having the best of everything. Anyone else in the same boat as me? any suggestions besides robbing a bank? im thinking that might not work so well.

TIA

if you rob a bank count me in!

I worry about money all the time. I wish I hit the lotto

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Posted by wo0shply

if you rob a bank count me in!

I worry about money all the time. I wish I hit the lotto

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me too! but you have to be in it to win it right? i dont play so i guess it wont happen for me. remember me if you win,

Girl, Im having panic attacks. I havent been able to sleep lately. Im usually a late sleeper but its been real bad. Im constantly worrying about money. We just have to stay positive that everything will work out. It has to at this point right??

I'm insanely rich and so I never worry.

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Posted by Songstress1212

Girl, Im having panic attacks. I havent been able to sleep lately. Im usually a late sleeper but its been real bad. Im constantly worrying about money. We just have to stay positive that everything will work out. It has to at this point right??

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im so scared..

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm insanely rich and so I never worry.

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HAHAHA thanks!

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Posted by SugaBeans

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Posted by Songstress1212

Girl, Im having panic attacks. I havent been able to sleep lately. Im usually a late sleeper but its been real bad. Im constantly worrying about money. We just have to stay positive that everything will work out. It has to at this point right??

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im so scared..

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Awww hon I know where youre coming from. I was on the verge of tears today. Shoot Im even talking about getting myself a fake ring! It will be okay.

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm insanely rich and so I never worry.

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God it must be great to be you! Since youre so rich why dont you pay for all our weddings dammit. Ill let you come on the honeymoon with us if you do

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Posted by SugaBeans

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Posted by Songstress1212

Girl, Im having panic attacks. I havent been able to sleep lately. Im usually a late sleeper but its been real bad. Im constantly worrying about money. We just have to stay positive that everything will work out. It has to at this point right??

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im so scared..

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Awww hon I know where youre coming from. I was on the verge of tears today. Shoot Im even talking about getting myself a fake ring! It will be okay.

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but honestly, where am i supposed to get this money? i have 1 year left and have to come up with a lot of money and pay my bills and try to find a house. i was never given anything growing up. we worked for everything. i never asked my parents for money. they are doing the best they can to help us but its hard bc my dad was laid off of work, goodness, im sitting here alone crying like a baby right now.

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Posted by Espo22

oh god i drive myself crazy sometimes...the worst part is i try not to tell fh when im stressed bc then he starts to stress and then he REALLy starts to worry and he gets bad which ends up stressing me out even more and driving me even more crazy lol.

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God Denise that is so us. He asks me, 'youre not stressing right' cause it makes him feel better if I say no. But if he knew this is what I felt like inside

He'd freak out.

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Posted by Espo22

oh god i drive myself crazy sometimes...the worst part is i try not to tell fh when im stressed bc then he starts to stress and then he REALLy starts to worry and he gets bad which ends up stressing me out even more and driving me even more crazy lol.

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God Denise that is so us. He asks me, 'youre not stressing right' cause it makes him feel better if I say no. But if he knew this is what I felt like inside

He'd freak out.

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where did you get that emote-icon???

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by SugaBeans

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Posted by Songstress1212

Girl, Im having panic attacks. I havent been able to sleep lately. Im usually a late sleeper but its been real bad. Im constantly worrying about money. We just have to stay positive that everything will work out. It has to at this point right??

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im so scared..

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Awww hon I know where youre coming from. I was on the verge of tears today. Shoot Im even talking about getting myself a fake ring! It will be okay.

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but honestly, where am i supposed to get this money? i have 1 year left and have to come up with a lot of money and pay my bills and try to find a house. i was never given anything growing up. we worked for everything. i never asked my parents for money. they are doing the best they can to help us but its hard bc my dad was laid off of work, goodness, im sitting here alone crying like a baby right now.

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I know it feels short for wedding time but a year is a long time. You'll be able to do it. Just save every little penny. Its gonna suck but dont go out to eat, cut out any extracurricular activities. FH and I would have so much more money saved if we just stopped eating out. We still indulge and its killing us. Im playing scratchy cards everyday, if I win, Ill send a few bucks your way!!

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Posted by Espo22

oh god i drive myself crazy sometimes...the worst part is i try not to tell fh when im stressed bc then he starts to stress and then he REALLy starts to worry and he gets bad which ends up stressing me out even more and driving me even more crazy lol.

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God Denise that is so us. He asks me, 'youre not stressing right' cause it makes him feel better if I say no. But if he knew this is what I felt like inside

He'd freak out.

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omg joe worries alot and not just about this but just things in general and he gets anxiety attacks badly and all that so i try not to do that to him lol...i made the mistake of doing that recently, and oh god did i regret it lol

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm insanely rich and so I never worry.

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God it must be great to be you! Since youre so rich why dont you pay for all our weddings dammit. Ill let you come on the honeymoon with us if you do

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Sometimes I hang out my window and toss out $50's

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by Mimacat

I'm insanely rich and so I never worry.

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God it must be great to be you! Since youre so rich why dont you pay for all our weddings dammit. Ill let you come on the honeymoon with us if you do

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Sometimes I hang out my window and toss out $50's

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wow thats GREAT im so jealous right now!! your wedding is going to be a platinum wedding isnt it???

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by SugaBeans

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Posted by Songstress1212

Girl, Im having panic attacks. I havent been able to sleep lately. Im usually a late sleeper but its been real bad. Im constantly worrying about money. We just have to stay positive that everything will work out. It has to at this point right??

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im so scared..

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Awww hon I know where youre coming from. I was on the verge of tears today. Shoot Im even talking about getting myself a fake ring! It will be okay.

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but honestly, where am i supposed to get this money? i have 1 year left and have to come up with a lot of money and pay my bills and try to find a house. i was never given anything growing up. we worked for everything. i never asked my parents for money. they are doing the best they can to help us but its hard bc my dad was laid off of work, goodness, im sitting here alone crying like a baby right now.

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If you really truely dont have the money why do you need to have a wedding you cant afford. I have been to 2 amazing weddings, no bridesmaids, small 20-30 people. Small dinner after the ceremony, and it was beautiful, it doesnt matter how much you spend, it matters the love you have for your FH.

Ive been to the 300 person wedding this year, and it was great, but the small weddings i have been to that had no bells and whistles were equally as wonderful.