BOB UPDATE

dont think the worst yet..maybe hes gonna tell dave about the problems with his wife

keep us posted

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

dont think the worst yet..maybe hes gonna tell dave about the problems with his wife

keep us posted

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you are right, but i'm a pessimist by nature....i always prefer to think negatively and be surprised by good news than the reverse..

i also think badly about this situation because of that taste i got in my mouth - that gut reaction thing...

ok so now that i'm up to speed on the great bob debacle of 2007 - this is how i feel -

i'm totally disgusted by that evil woman. bob has issues. i'm not a fan, they shouldn't be treating you like this. seeing as you're one of the nicest people EVER and i don't even know you.

i pity bob and his biotch on wheels if they ever cross one of us 08 brides!!!

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Posted by kristi313

ok so now that i'm up to speed on the great bob debacle of 2007 - this is how i feel -

i'm totally disgusted by that evil woman. bob has issues. i'm not a fan, they shouldn't be treating you like this. seeing as you're one of the nicest people EVER and i don't even know you.

i pity bob and his biotch on wheels if they ever cross one of us 08 brides!!!

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Well I think Kristi summed it up for all of us on that matter!!!!
Now we just need to know what Bob is talking to Dave about.

Whoa!~
I hope he apologizes to your Fh for causing you 2 a headache. I also hope he does not drop out!

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Posted by davenjess

he's out

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WHAT???????????

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Posted by kellybean

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Posted by davenjess

he's out

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WHAT???????????

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ARE YOU SERIOUS?!

You're better off. His loss!

I'm so sorry...


Better off anyway. You dont want people like that to ruin your day. I wouldn't want that B*tch there to begin with

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Posted by davenjess

he's out

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OMG! Wow. I am so sorry.

Are they coming to the wedding still? What reason did he give?

I want to know what Dave said back to him. I hope he told him exactly how rude and awful his wife is!

Keep us updated!!!

i'm crying girls.....sorry i haven't written...just hung up with dave.

he & bob spoke for almost an hour - bob telling him all about how he can't possibly stand up there with dave saying nice things about us and our future when he doesn't believe them.

dave said he didn't want to tell me what he said - but it's because of me. bob feels that i control dave's life & i don't let him do anything. he didn't like that I tried to make my bachelorette party be on the same day as his and the fact that i'm asking him to be fitted by a certain date....I'M NOT KIDDING.

he even called the OTHER best man & told him that he dropped out & he (the other one, mike) called Dave like, i've never heard bob sound like that....what is going on??

dave said it was like talking to someone he didn't even know...and bob even said he hopes they can still be friends....

dave told him that's going to be very hard to do...because somehow, being the controlling witch that i am, i'm friends with EVERYONE else in the group of friends they have...and that EVERYONE thinks his wife is a psycho witch....incredible..

this is beyond me - dave is so hurt....he said he felt better after he spoke to mike...but he's so hurt....and i'm crying because of it...

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Posted by davenjess

i'm crying girls.....sorry i haven't written...just hung up with dave.

he & bob spoke for almost an hour - bob telling him all about how he can't possibly stand up there with dave saying nice things about us and our future when he doesn't believe them.

dave said he didn't want to tell me what he said - but it's because of me. bob feels that i control dave's life & i don't let him do anything. he didn't like that I tried to make my bachelorette party be on the same day as his and the fact that i'm asking him to be fitted by a certain date....I'M NOT KIDDING.

he even called the OTHER best man & told him that he dropped out & he (the other one, mike) called Dave like, i've never heard bob sound like that....what is going on??

dave said it was like talking to someone he didn't even know...and bob even said he hopes they can still be friends....

dave told him that's going to be very hard to do...because somehow, being the controlling witch that i am, i'm friends with EVERYONE else in the group of friends they have...and that EVERYONE thinks his wife is a psycho witch....incredible..

this is beyond me - dave is so hurt....he said he felt better after he spoke to mike...but he's so hurt....and i'm crying because of it...

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OMG!!!!
You are definitely better off without him. I can't believe it. It definitely sounds like it all came from the wife.

wow so sorry Jess sometimes peoples true colors really do come out when it comes to events like these and unfortunately at times they are not for the better- it sounds as though he is going through his own drama and using you & Dave as an excuse as much as it hurts you both you are better off not to have such a negative person in your BP- as always we are all here for you. Many sent your way.

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Posted by davenjess

i'm crying girls.....sorry i haven't written...just hung up with dave.

he & bob spoke for almost an hour - bob telling him all about how he can't possibly stand up there with dave saying nice things about us and our future when he doesn't believe them.

dave said he didn't want to tell me what he said - but it's because of me. bob feels that i control dave's life & i don't let him do anything. he didn't like that I tried to make my bachelorette party be on the same day as his and the fact that i'm asking him to be fitted by a certain date....I'M NOT KIDDING.

he even called the OTHER best man & told him that he dropped out & he (the other one, mike) called Dave like, i've never heard bob sound like that....what is going on??

dave said it was like talking to someone he didn't even know...and bob even said he hopes they can still be friends....

dave told him that's going to be very hard to do...because somehow, being the controlling witch that i am, i'm friends with EVERYONE else in the group of friends they have...and that EVERYONE thinks his wife is a psycho witch....incredible..

this is beyond me - dave is so hurt....he said he felt better after he spoke to mike...but he's so hurt....and i'm crying because of it...

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I feel so bad for you. I really don't know what to say...

Just remember that this probably isn't really about u. Maybe Bob feels like he is losing a friend? Maybe he's jealous that U and Dave are happy together and he is married to an evil ogre?

Don't let this get you down!

I agree. This is clearly about his wife controlling him and he just wants to take it out on someone else.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this so close to the wedding.

It doesnt seem like thats really coming from Bob. Thats the wife talking!!!
Don't stress, those are not the type of people you want to associate yourself with. And how dare he tell Dave that he wouldnt be able to stand up there saying nice things about you guys when he doesnt believe them. EWwwwwwwwww