ask your dad's permission? MY dad (who I'm not close with) is mad that FH didn't ask his permission, just wondering if any one still does that?
smurray
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FH asked my dad
Mrs. Powell
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My DH asked my mother which I think was so beautiful.
ZuzusPetals
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My FH asked my father. But - don't worry about your situation. Hopefully, you dad will realize that it wasnt a personal snub or anything. Your FH most liikely dindt feel comfortable asking your father because like you said - you're not very close with him. I don't blame you FH for his decision.
JazzyT
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Mine did, he spoke with both my parents before to tell them he was going to propose.
espresso
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nope
prinses777
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My Father Passed away when I was 11, but My mother and I are very close...
He actaully asked my mother for permission... and she said...
'Ummm obviously... You guys are alreday married in my mind... there is no way that you two cannot be together... there is just no way'
I thought it was so cute that he thought of even asking her...
PaddysGirl15
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ame here, I lost my dad almost 4 years ago. FH asked my mom instead. We are very close.
wematched
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FI asked my dad after my baby sister's hs graduation. He said something like 'I know this is probably a tough day already, seeing your baby graduate, but I would like to ask for your other daughter's hand.'
lisaslove
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no mine didnt... but my dad was telling him to marry me already!!
Nic and Ant
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My fh asked my dad for his blessing. My mom told me when we first started dating seriously that if and when it was going to happen he would have to ask my dad. My dad is very old school italian and also thought if it was going to happen that he would have to ask. So i basically made sure he would ask. Now a days it isn't so traditional to ask the parents. I wouldn't worry. For now, I say just enjoy your engagement and planning. In time i'm sure he'll forget and be there for you.
Mel329
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My FH asked my dad's permission. It is actually funny. He went to where my dad works and he asked my dad and my dad said to him very seriously, 'Mike, we don't believe in divorce...but it's Melissa we are talking about here, so I would understand.'
toddlerteacher
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Yes my FH did..i was sooo happy when i found out that he did
SoonToBeMrs.L
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My FH asked my Dad, but only b/c I told him too
mtdr1106
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mine did. i dunno - i guess it is tradition - but i would just tell your dad to get over it. ask him if it really would have made a difference??
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Posted by Mel329
My FH asked my dad's permission. It is actually funny. He went to where my dad works and he asked my dad and my dad said to him very seriously, 'Mike, we don't believe in divorce...but it's Melissa we are talking about here, so I would understand.'
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my fh asked for my parents' blessing, not for their permission.
Same here!
diluvchu
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MY FH asked my Mom's permission first then he asked my Dad's.
kris15198
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Nope
PegaLega
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Mine did-but FH and my dad really get along so he kind of felt like he had too-plus FILs told him he should and he is VERY traditional!
CrescentBride606
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mine would be dead if he didn't...thats the first thing i asked him aftere he asked me...'will you marry me?' me: did you ask my dad? than a YES oh and my dad also said to fh: if you touch her or make her cry your dead...