do you live with your FH?

Original post by mariedsgn

Mar 30, 2009 12:47 PM

Just wondering. . . . . . I am thinking about moving in!

any advise?!

TIA

StaceYums81 Posted: Mar 30, 2009 07:24 PM

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Yes - we have for 3 years, my only advice is all the little things he will do that will urk you just try to ignore...

Nichole2010 Posted: Mar 30, 2009 09:03 PM

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we live together..

advice.. have some alone time for yourself & dont nit-pick at stupid little things..learn to live with each others flaws

mariedsgn Posted: Mar 30, 2009 09:05 PM

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Thanks girls!!!! We decided tonight that we are going to make the move!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wish me luck - I have about 100 pairs of shoes

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Mar 30, 2009 09:39 PM

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Posted by MikesBride2B

I will live with him once he finds a job here, but I've lived with a boyfriend before.

My advice is to make sure you give yourself some alone time. Living with someone can tempt you to spend every waking moment with them and you can forget about yourself...you need to take time to do things just for you so you don't feel smothered/stifled.

Then again I broke up with that guy so that might only be a symptom of my bad relationship.

no you are right ITA!

fh has an apt I am there mostly but stay home 2 nights a week at my parents where allll my stuff is.
I cook and clean and like I said pretty much live there but I get my nights alone and with my family wich I LOVE.
Also makes me appreciate FH more when I spend a night away from him.
Also gives him his alone time even tho he doesnt seem to need it I know its good.

Def move in you will get a real feel of married life!

cateydee Posted: Mar 30, 2009 09:48 PM

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Posted by Nichole2010

we live together..

advice.. have some alone time for yourself & dont nit-pick at stupid little things..learn to live with each others flaws

and dont move into a studio together lol

jesca Posted: Mar 30, 2009 09:48 PM

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yes, for almost six months now. FH was out on his own for two years but i was still at home, besides being closer with FH i've got a better relationship with my mom now since we arent at each others throats anymore.

Angel06 Posted: Mar 31, 2009 08:08 AM

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We both still live at home, i'm really trying to save money. FH wants to move out, yesterday/now we have begun looking at condos and apt but i'm more nervous about bills then living with him. I work long hours and we have one day off togeather and one day off when the other is working so i will have some alone time. I do feel like FH is in a rush and me not so much i have lived with roommates before, but FH has never lived away from home.

christine2010 Posted: Mar 31, 2009 09:17 AM

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we live together. have for the past 3 years. it was very important to FH that we lived together before getting engaged or married.

asg450 Posted: Mar 31, 2009 03:47 PM

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Posted by tHEBRide2010

Nope... we both live at home and can't wait to live with eachother<3 <3 I wouldn't want to live with him before we got married... I want something to look forward to- JMO

Same here, but it does feel like we already live together sometimes. I'm always over at his place.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Mar 31, 2009 03:55 PM

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we did, but not anymore, we moved back home. We needed to save money for the wedding somehow!!

Yankees2323 Posted: Mar 31, 2009 05:54 PM

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we do.. and i love it

DWKSwed Posted: Mar 31, 2009 06:19 PM

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Yes we live together, for about a year and a half now, we love it, it brought us a lot closer.

frannygirl75 Posted: Mar 31, 2009 06:33 PM

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yes we do live together and one big piece of advice i can give is give eachother space when needed

MC127 Posted: Mar 31, 2009 06:47 PM

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I moved to Maryland last year for one year. FH moved in with me and we both worked. On March 4th 2008, FH left Md (too slow of a pace for him) because he did not like it but LOVED living with me. I ended up moving back for separate reasons other than FH. Long story short, we only lived together for one month and will not live together until we get married.