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Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?

scocaj Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:22 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:22 PM

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wow that takes alot of balls.. why didnt she pick a different color..

chesca Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:40 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:40 PM

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WOW

Okay - she said no black, then all the girls should wear white.

DandS Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:44 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:44 PM

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Posted by Kris516

One word: Bridezilla.

I think that is very wrong to ask of your guests especially sine that is a color a lot of people wear!

MattsBride Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:50 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:50 PM

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Unbelieveable! I have never heard of anyone doing that before. That bride is out of control!

lisad117 Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:56 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:56 PM

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Very, Very Rude. If I had to go buy a new dress because I couldn't wear the black one I already had, I would deduct it from the gift. My BM's are wearing black and it never even entered my mind to care.

CIV578 Posted: Apr 11, 2006 12:28 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 12:28 AM

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So funny!

msnora Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:22 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:22 AM

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Maybe she has hiredthe fashion police to come and and escort every guest out that wears black??!!

I have never heard of anyone doing that!

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:51 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:51 AM

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I would never say something like this. IMO a lot of people take weddings way to seriously. A wedding is two people who love each other joining in marriage and sharing it with friends and family. People get to wrapped up in the little details, they forget to just enjoy the day.

To tell you the truth, if I got this invitation, I would not go.

Goldi1021 Posted: Apr 11, 2006 08:03 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 08:03 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

I dont even know what to say about this and I ALWAYS have something to say!

I am still thinking of something to say.

missgwife Posted: Apr 11, 2006 08:48 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 08:48 AM

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Posted by sr081906

I guess she does not want that many guests

I guess not.

I think it's rude to tell your guest what color to wear to your wedding. I understand if she asked not to wear white, but black, that's crazy.

VadersBride2006 Posted: Apr 11, 2006 09:06 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 09:06 AM

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First of all, it is incredibly rude to tell your guests what NOT to wear (isn't that Stacy and Clinton's job, anyway? lol)! Secondly, and ONLY in my opinion, why do brides put their girls in black, especially in June? It's a wedding, not a funeral! And again, before everyone gets mad at me and jumps down my throat, this is ONLY my opinion and the reason why my girls are wearing red!!

edited for spelling

chloeme2 Posted: Apr 11, 2006 09:12 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 09:12 AM

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That's beyond rude.....it's ANAL RETENTIVE!!!!!!

ChrissynRicky Posted: Apr 11, 2006 09:13 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 09:13 AM

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I wouldn't go...plain and simple.

eroxgirl Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:01 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:01 AM

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WOW! I always try to find out what color the BP is in so I don't wear the same color but that's of my own volition.. This bride is out of her flippin' mind. I think I'd have to go out and find a nice, bright WHITE dress - no, make that a gown - to wear instead.

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:02 AM+

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

I wouldn't go...plain and simple.

I don't know... for someone that bridezilla, it might make for an interesting wedding to attend.

cindyandkevin Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:11 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:11 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

Posted by Goldi1021

I dont even know what to say about this and I ALWAYS have something to say!

I am still thinking of something to say.

Omg, I don't know if I want to get mad at this bridezilla or laugh out loud at all of these responses!!!!!!!

MrsFelix Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:16 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:16 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

Posted by Goldi1021

I dont even know what to say about this and I ALWAYS have something to say!

I am still thinking of something to say.

I'm with you. I am speechless!!!!

DUCKS2001 Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:43 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:43 AM

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Posted by MikesBride2006

I don't know if I would say that it's rude but it's definitely ballsy... I have never heard of a bride & groom stating what color a guest can not wear. Does that mean since my girls are wearing navy that I should send every female guest a note sayin that they shouldn't wear navy?? That's just CRAZY!!

wow i guess people can do whatever they want... i agree with the above quote

tbtmickey Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:49 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:49 AM

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I think it's funny, my girls are wearing black, and one of the reason's I picked it was because I thought they could wear them again (like maybe to another wedding!!!!)

sarahthegreat Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:57 AM+

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Posted: Apr 11, 2006 10:57 AM

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Posted by VadersBride2006

First of all, it is incredibly rude to tell your guests what NOT to wear (isn't that Stacy and Clinton's job, anyway? lol)! Secondly, and ONLY in my opinion, why do brides put their girls in black, especially in June? It's a wedding, not a funeral! And again, before everyone gets mad at me and jumps down my throat, this is ONLY my opinion and the reason why my girls are wearing red!!

edited for spelling

lovvvvvvvvve stacey and clinton!!