My co-worker got an invite to her friend's wedding in June. On a separate card included with the invite, the bride has requested that no female guests can attend wearing black because the bridal party is wearing black. I mean c'mon...everyone wears the little black dress to a wedding. Now she is asking all her female guests to go out and buy a new dress on top of all the other money they are spending?
Am I crazy for thinking this is totally rude?
scocaj
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wow that takes alot of balls.. why didnt she pick a different color..
chesca
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WOW Okay - she said no black, then all the girls should wear white.
DandS
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Posted by Kris516
One word: Bridezilla.
I think that is very wrong to ask of your guests especially sine that is a color a lot of people wear!
MattsBride
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Unbelieveable! I have never heard of anyone doing that before. That bride is out of control!
lisad117
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Very, Very Rude. If I had to go buy a new dress because I couldn't wear the black one I already had, I would deduct it from the gift. My BM's are wearing black and it never even entered my mind to care.
CIV578
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So funny!
msnora
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Maybe she has hiredthe fashion police to come and and escort every guest out that wears black??!!
I have never heard of anyone doing that!
AlliNMatt06
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I would never say something like this. IMO a lot of people take weddings way to seriously. A wedding is two people who love each other joining in marriage and sharing it with friends and family. People get to wrapped up in the little details, they forget to just enjoy the day.
To tell you the truth, if I got this invitation, I would not go.
Goldi1021
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Posted by Goldi1021
I dont even know what to say about this and I ALWAYS have something to say!
I am still thinking of something to say.
missgwife
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Posted by sr081906
I guess she does not want that many guests
I guess not. I think it's rude to tell your guest what color to wear to your wedding. I understand if she asked not to wear white, but black, that's crazy.
VadersBride2006
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First of all, it is incredibly rude to tell your guests what NOT to wear (isn't that Stacy and Clinton's job, anyway? lol)! Secondly, and ONLY in my opinion, why do brides put their girls in black, especially in June? It's a wedding, not a funeral! And again, before everyone gets mad at me and jumps down my throat, this is ONLY my opinion and the reason why my girls are wearing red!!
edited for spelling
chloeme2
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That's beyond rude.....it's ANAL RETENTIVE!!!!!!
ChrissynRicky
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I wouldn't go...plain and simple.
eroxgirl
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WOW! I always try to find out what color the BP is in so I don't wear the same color but that's of my own volition.. This bride is out of her flippin' mind. I think I'd have to go out and find a nice, bright WHITE dress - no, make that a gown - to wear instead.
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Posted by ChrissynRicky
I wouldn't go...plain and simple.
I don't know... for someone that bridezilla, it might make for an interesting wedding to attend.
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Posted by Goldi1021
I dont even know what to say about this and I ALWAYS have something to say!
I am still thinking of something to say.
Omg, I don't know if I want to get mad at this bridezilla or laugh out loud at all of these responses!!!!!!!
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Posted by Goldi1021
I dont even know what to say about this and I ALWAYS have something to say!
I am still thinking of something to say.
I'm with you. I am speechless!!!!
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Posted by MikesBride2006
I don't know if I would say that it's rude but it's definitely ballsy... I have never heard of a bride & groom stating what color a guest can not wear. Does that mean since my girls are wearing navy that I should send every female guest a note sayin that they shouldn't wear navy?? That's just CRAZY!!
wow i guess people can do whatever they want... i agree with the above quote
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I think it's funny, my girls are wearing black, and one of the reason's I picked it was because I thought they could wear them again (like maybe to another wedding!!!!)
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Posted by VadersBride2006
First of all, it is incredibly rude to tell your guests what NOT to wear (isn't that Stacy and Clinton's job, anyway? lol)! Secondly, and ONLY in my opinion, why do brides put their girls in black, especially in June? It's a wedding, not a funeral! And again, before everyone gets mad at me and jumps down my throat, this is ONLY my opinion and the reason why my girls are wearing red!!
