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Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
TheBigDay
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 11:06 AM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 11:06 AM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
heehee.. she didnt say dont wear white.. so is that one ok?
ali120206
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 11:14 AM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 11:14 AM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
I'm interested to see what people will wear (if they show up).
kmkelly
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:48 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:48 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
I just think it's idiotic.
Kerrycec
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:49 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:49 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
very strange, but I understand but don't agree with it. Kinda tacky
Maybride519
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:51 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 01:51 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
I don't know if it is rude, but I surely wouldn't do this!
Shiv
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:32 PM+
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
I can't believe someone actually put this I an invite. It goes against every etiquette rule for invites.This girl is obviously a bit obsessive to tell people not to wear black. She could have done it a different way, like said, we are having a blue or red theme- so wear your favorite to make the theme.
I'm surprised no one stopped her before she totally embarrassed herself.
MissingTheBGene
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:35 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:35 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by Goldi1021
I dont even know what to say about this and I ALWAYS have something to say!
I am still thinking of something to say.![]()
I think the word bridezilla is an understatement! That is insane and an absolutely ludicrous request.
PrincessConsuela
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:36 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:36 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
then i would get all of my girls who are also going to the wedding and wear white then!!!!!
MissingTheBGene
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:40 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:40 PM
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Posted by PrincessConsuela
then i would get all of my girls who are also going to the wedding and wear white then!!!!!
OMG, that would be classic! 'Well, you did say not to wear black!'
SillyBeans
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:48 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:48 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
RUDE, get out of here, everyone wears black. She needs a reality check here!
smara
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:58 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 02:58 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
I dont think this is a strange request, I am asking my guest to not wear white, ivory, off white, any kind of blue or silver since these are my colors. And the men cant wear black suits because GM are wearing black tuxes.
Just kidding... this requests takes guts and is very Bridezilla. My family and friends would tear me up if I did this.
sarahthegreat
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:02 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:02 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
Posted by smara
I dont think this is a strange request, I am asking my guest to not wear white, ivory, off white, any kind of blue or silver since these are my colors. And the men cant wear black suits because GM are wearing black tuxes.![]()
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Just kidding... this requests takes guts and is very Bridezilla. My family and friends would tear me up if I did this.
i thought you were serious and was thinking to myself - this girl is nuts!
smara
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:11 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:11 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
Posted by sarahthegreat
Posted by smara
I dont think this is a strange request, I am asking my guest to not wear white, ivory, off white, any kind of blue or silver since these are my colors. And the men cant wear black suits because GM are wearing black tuxes.![]()
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Just kidding... this requests takes guts and is very Bridezilla. My family and friends would tear me up if I did this.
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i thought you were serious and was thinking to myself - this girl is nuts!
Gotchya...
SIBride06
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:14 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:14 PM
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I would wear black anyway
Then tell her either she gets an envelope, or I buy a new dress... I choose to give her an envelope. That will shut her mouth!
sarahthegreat
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:15 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:15 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
Posted by smara
Posted by sarahthegreat
Posted by smara
I dont think this is a strange request, I am asking my guest to not wear white, ivory, off white, any kind of blue or silver since these are my colors. And the men cant wear black suits because GM are wearing black tuxes.![]()
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Just kidding... this requests takes guts and is very Bridezilla. My family and friends would tear me up if I did this.
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i thought you were serious and was thinking to myself - this girl is nuts!
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Gotchya...
FallBride05
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:39 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 03:39 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
Chances are she won't even notice what others are wearing. I mean, that was the last thing from my mind on my wedding day.We didn't do the matching tux route for the GM's. We only had 4 of them and 3 out of the 4 owned their one tuxes. I never even noticed that our best man was wearing a regular black suit!! I only noticed it two weeks ago when we watched our video.
afrodyt2000
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:20 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:20 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
my FSIL told us this, I don't think she put it on the invites. It was more of a superstition/bad luck thing though. I wore something else even though I would have worn a black dress otherwise.
kam0813
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:21 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:21 PM
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wow that bride has a HUGE set of balls on her...she definitely has some nerve..and guts...because she's taking a chance with that..i know i like wearing black to formal occasions and if i can't...i feel uncomfortable and would just rather not go
Missladybug15
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:25 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:25 PM
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that to me is ridiculous
CTarantino
Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:26 PM+

Posted: Apr 11, 2006 04:26 PM
Re: Do you think this is rude? Is anyone doing this?
Posted by Soon2bMrsERH
I think it's rude. They buy you a gift and they attend...you should not tell them what to wear. NO WAY!
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