I am really upset and dont know if i should be but, my fiance sister just got engaged this past week and she already going to book a hall this weekend. She is planning a wedding right before mine 2 months. I feel since I got engaged first, we should be married first. His family does not fell the same way. I feel she is rushing on purpose just to be married before us. She knew what the date was why did she need to jump right in front ughhh???
kslmbuggie
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i can understand your frustration, but dont be upset with her. most people get married 1-1/2 yrs after getting engaged, sometimes sooner, so she is right on track. just dont tell her any ideas you have for your wedding so that she doesnt have the opportunity to use them first, & def dont tell her about LIW, although she will probably find it eventually.
dont let this bother you, you have much more important things to worry about.
gl
Julybride08
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I totally understand. When FH and I got engaged it was the greates thing. we got engaged in april 06 and then my sister got engaged in june 07. She didn't wan to wait long so she booked for September 08. Which is 2 months right after us. I was very upset that she was taking away from me anf Fh's time. I felt like we would be slighted and people wouldn't be able to come to both weddings. But the thing is it all worked out fine. Just focus on your wedding. don't give them any ideas!!! Trust me. Every idea or every vendor we picked my siste copied. But she will look stupid using all the same stuff. But jsut keep your ideas and info to your self. And you will be fine!! Your wedding will be perfect. Some people just don't take into consideration of how other people will feel. there very selfish and only think of themselves. if you need any other help or advice you can FM me.
ITALIANBELLA
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I dont mind it anymore I have to get over it because it will all work out in the end. But I feel she is doing it in a rush for whatever reason. She is going to the hall this weekend its memorial day weekend, she just got engaged last week I dont see why she is in such a big rush so thats what bothered me more and the fact that she didnt even talk about it, and when I asked her when she would like to get married she said she wouldnt do it anytime near mine its too much and then she goes and does and sets a date close to mine thats the real problem just be honest and I wouldn't mind as much!
