I am going to scream
So let me give you a baby backstory
FH's BM has a 2 month old. He will be 4 months at the wedding. We spoke with the BM in February (he is FH's brother) and he said no worries, the baby is staying with his MIL in MD.
They have since RSVPd with the baby to everything (the RD, reception, etc).
I am pissed beyond belief. Not only did we say no children, they told us they weren't bringing the baby....and I HATE children.
so here is a clip of an email to FH today from him...this was after FH and I came up with a few solutions to the issue.
'I'm considering not even coming to the wedding with these
types of restrictions for my son. This is ridiculous. So now not
only is he not welcome in the church, but he is not welcome at the
reception either?!?! This is getting out of hand. I am not leaving
___ with ____ or anyone in MD/VA, This is MY family as well as
YOUR family. If that's not going to work, you can throw away our
RSVP. This is really starting to piss me off.'
'My reslolution is that you tell Ali that this is your family and ____
is part of your family. If you want ___other son___ and I to be a part of your
day, then you need to get this through your head. I am not dumping my
son off, my flesh and blood, for Ali to be happy. If you cannot
handle this, then you can find another best man and ring bearer. Its
that simple. Dad has even offered to sit in the crying room with
___. All in all, ____ is coming or we are not. Now you can relay
that to Ali.
Your ONLY brother,'
Now, FH and I agree that we did not want the baby. I am ready to punch FBIL in the face.
This is a FOUR MONTH OLD.
And they keep pretending that they are responsible parents....their older son is obese because they do not feed him properly, and he was actually taken away from their home a few years ago by Child Protective Services.
Honestly, I want to say fine. Just stay home.
I'm just really upset beyond belief
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FH's BM has a 2 month old. He will be 4 months at the wedding. We spoke with the BM in February (he is FH's brother) and he said no worries, the baby is staying with his MIL in MD.
They have since RSVPd with the baby to everything (the RD, reception, etc).
I am pissed beyond belief. Not only did we say no children, they told us they weren't bringing the baby....and I HATE children.
so here is a clip of an email to FH today from him...this was after FH and I came up with a few solutions to the issue.
'I'm considering not even coming to the wedding with these
types of restrictions for my son. This is ridiculous. So now not
only is he not welcome in the church, but he is not welcome at the
reception either?!?! This is getting out of hand. I am not leaving
___ with ____ or anyone in MD/VA, This is MY family as well as
YOUR family. If that's not going to work, you can throw away our
RSVP. This is really starting to piss me off.'
'My reslolution is that you tell Ali that this is your family and ____
is part of your family. If you want ___other son___ and I to be a part of your
day, then you need to get this through your head. I am not dumping my
son off, my flesh and blood, for Ali to be happy. If you cannot
handle this, then you can find another best man and ring bearer. Its
that simple. Dad has even offered to sit in the crying room with
___. All in all, ____ is coming or we are not. Now you can relay
that to Ali.
Your ONLY brother,'
Now, FH and I agree that we did not want the baby. I am ready to punch FBIL in the face.
This is a FOUR MONTH OLD.
And they keep pretending that they are responsible parents....their older son is obese because they do not feed him properly, and he was actually taken away from their home a few years ago by Child Protective Services.
Honestly, I want to say fine. Just stay home.
I'm just really upset beyond belief
