My Grandma...

Original post by BellaChandella

Mar 11, 2008 11:27 AM

So we had been hopeful since we almost lost her on Valentine's Day, that we'd be able to bring her home. But we just got a phone call saying that she will not be coming home at all. And basically that she'll end up passing away in the hospital. Which, my grandfather does NOT want, but he understands where the hospital is coming from.

It really suxx. Because the past few times I went to see her, it wasn't my Grandma. It was just someone who was staring at me blankly, asking who I was, and where I came from. And it hurts because I'm the oldest, and I'm the closest with her. And her arm is so swollen and puffy, it don't even look real!! It looks like a blow up doll!! I can't stand to see her like that. It breaks my heart...

Keep praying girls, we need it!!

Also, keep praying for Brandi's momma too!! I haven't heard anything, but the last time I called, she was talking and they made her say hi to me!! I keep talking to my Dad up in Heaven, but we need some more favors up there, so talk to your loved ones up there too!!!

TIA girls!! I love ya all.....

BellaChandella Posted: Mar 11, 2008 11:53 AM

Re: My Grandma...

Posted by ant n tilde

hey i can barely type this but you will have FM once i get myself together

i went through the same thing with my grandmother and i am so sorry that you have to experience it too- she is in my prayers and i will ask Nonna to watch over her for you

In the end, she didn't remember us but I have to share a story that will make you smile. She tapped me on the shoulder and made me lean down to her level. . . she NEVER admitted that she didnt remember stuff, until the end SHE WAS SO STUBBORN. . .but on this day she said 'sometimes i get confused, can you tell me if i am related to that boy over there?' and she was pointing to DH (BF at the time) and i said 'No, Nonna you are not related' and she said 'Oh thank goodness because he is SO cute - it would be a shame to be related to him!'

and for you!

Tilde you just made me laugh!!

Thank you so much!!

BellaChandella Posted: Mar 11, 2008 11:54 AM

Re: My Grandma...

Posted by jeffamanda080808

Posted by BellaChandella

Posted by jeffamanda080808

Sweetie you are in my thoughts and prayers.....

Thanks hun!! You may think I'm nuts, but Dave is really helping me get through this. Put on a CD and just let it all out!

Oh believe me I know!!! He's gotten me though a lot of stuff. Listen away honey!!!