My wedding is off....

Hi Girls,

I just wanted to let everyone know that my fi & I called our engagement off. It ended about a month ago, but I didn't want to say anything incase - we ended up working things out, ya know? Unfortunately, he has not matured - so, getting back is highly unlikely. From my past posts... a lot of the stress and BS came from meddling MIL and INLAWS in general and exFI constantly taking their sides.
I've been trying to go out with my friends to get him off my mind, but I miss him a lot!!! But, it's a double-edged sword - I either miss not being with him or be with him and be miserable, not ever being allowed to make my own decisions.
I wanted to take a moment and thank you girls for all the great advice you've given me (especially T!). You girls are the best!!!

I love ya C....

so sorry to hear this. You sound like you're comfortable with your decision which is a great thing.

Good luck to you

I am so sorry

I luv ya too T!

I wish you all the best. You are a woman that I admire, b/c a lot of women stay in abusive or degrading relationships just to be with someone. Is your happiness really worth all that sacrifice. I wish you all the best. You know you deserve the best and from your post you were not willing to settle for BS. All the best sweetie. Take care

I am sorry that you had to go through all this stress. You have made a very difficult decision and it took a lot of guts. I wish you the best of luck and much happiness in your life!

I am so sorry to hear this...but best of luck!

I am so sorry that you are going through this

I wish you all the best. You will realize soon that it was probably for the best!!

Sending you

As hard as the decision was, it was for the best. Stay tough!!

I am sorry to hear, but as tough as it is now, you'll reralize that you made the right decision.

Good luck. I'm sure your friends will see you through this,

I am so sorry. Stay strong and believe in yourself that this decision was for the best. Many to you.

I'm so sorry to hear this You need to do what is right for you, I'm sure you are making the right decision. Good Luck to you

I am sorry sweetheart, but just know that you are lucky to have realized this now rather than later.. I commend you on your courage to get yourself out of an unhappy situation and turning things around for you..

Remember, only time heals all wounds, keep busy, stay strong.. take care!

So sorry to hear this....
I wish you all the best

Posts like this are so hard to respond to...

Part of me wants to say that I'm sorry you are going through this, but part is happy to hear that you are doing what you feel is best.

Surround yourself with positive and loving people, stay strong, and remind yourself that there is only a rainbow after the rain.

Best wishes

so sorry. Try to be strong. You even said that you were miserable with him, so if you feel it in your heart that this is the right thing. Lots of Hugs and Kisses.