Need help!!!!

I think the girls have made some great suggestions. You can have people bring their invitations or have a check-off list of all invited guests (so if someone said he/she is not coming and they do end up coming, his/her name will be on the list).

Maybe you could have the girl who told him about the wedding make herself useful and keep guard at the door... make her fix what she broke. That is only if you trust her to do this, which I am not sure you should.

Or you could always send him tickets to a football game or a concert that he would like, and call his parents and ask them to give it him as a Christmas present, so he can be busy that day. Might cost you some money, but it may be worth it.

Dont let it ruin your wedding day or your anticipation for your wedding day... he's not worth it.