PERSONAL..BUT NEED ADVICE (long)

I feel like there is something wrong with me. Lately I have been stressed. Some is wedding related..and some is work related. At work I have to deal with the most immature people and it drives me crazy. I have a girl that seems to thrive off of gossip and her personal drama, and is always either depressed, sad, complaining or crying. After repeatedly telling her I don't want to know anything about anyone in the office, she continued to do it. Aside from that..she is always in some kind of mood. I finally lost it..and blew up and told her, this a happy time for me and you are KILLING IT for me...you are so so friggin depressing...seriously, stop involving me in your need to gossip about people in this office., and just leave me alone. I don't want t know anything!!!! She was shocked..but still continues to come to me. It's unreal!! My point is..all of this is taking a toll on me. I am DYING for her to leave our office. She's very clingy and THRIVES on drama. I'll never understand it...but what I hate is that aside from me stressing about the wedding...I feel as if I have lost all of my sexual energy. FH and I had a talk over the weekend because I just have not been 'in the mood' lately. It has absolutely nothing to do with him...but I just have not even so much as thought about it. I know it bothers him...but what can I do? Is anyone else having the same issue?

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I was having that feeling for a lot of the planning---since we were also looking for a home at the same time...that really stressed me out,...so much fighting and arguing---I became very irritable and stressed out....finally as things started coming together about a month and a half ago---i wasn't as b-tchy as before...he started helping me more...so things will get better....that girl really needs to get a life and stop bothering the sh-t out of you...what a real pain!!!!1

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FH is so good...he really is. He's so understanding, patient and thoughtful. I love the fact that he constantly reminds me of how he feels about me, how I make him feel. I just can't help but feel bad...I'm sure it will pass. It has to..I have to make it...because we still have 3-1/2 months left until our wedding day...and the last thing I want is him upset with me. We've never really fought...so this is hard..to see him bothered...all because I'm stressed.

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thats great-- how supportive he's been for you......you really need to hear that from him...just focus on how great it will be---thats what I've been doing--we're both getting go excited for this----all the planning and waiting.....you'll feel better

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thanks

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see this is the STUPIDITY I have to deal with from the CHILD at work:

the trio just went into the conference room...can you believe that??? UNREAL! It's 9:55...let's see how long it takes them to get out.

WHO CARES!! MY GOD SHE IS SO NOSEY!!!

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She needs to get a life!!!!!!! and some time out for her b--chiness

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seriously...I cannot wait until she is gone. I like to keep to myself at work unless I have to speak to someone re: work. I've been called everything from 'conceited, to unfriendly'..and honestly I'd rather be known as that...then get involved w/the 'little girls' I work with. They are SO petty!! It's unbelievable. Why is it that there is so much gossip in an office of 14 people?

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Posted by Mitabtrfly

see this is the STUPIDITY I have to deal with from the CHILD at work:

the trio just went into the conference room...can you believe that??? UNREAL! It's 9:55...let's see how long it takes them to get out.

WHO CARES!! MY GOD SHE IS SO NOSEY!!!

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The next time she comes anywhere near you tell her to stay the F*** away from you before she gets close. If she continues toward you - yell - 'how many times do I have to tell you to stay away from me?!?!' - and then when she persists and tells you whatever piece of gossip she feels the need to share tell her you don't give a flying F*** and to go the he11 away. Just keep it up - if nothing else you will have vented right at the little biatch!!

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thanks girls!!

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I've been there - you'll have your ups and downs - the best advice a friend told me - just let it go - you don't need it - half the stuff people act towards you is never about you anyway...

as for the sexual issue - I thought for sure my libido left for good - and now - 4 days til the wedding, sorry for the TMI, but we are already enjoying our HM - now that the stress is off us and everything is done...

screw everyone - you don't need their crap!!!!

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So glad to hear you guys say what I have been going thru too.....I hope once all the planning is done, I'll feel 'up to it' again. Damn stress.

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I contemplated posting this..but I needed someone to talk to that can give their opinion who wouldn't be bias.