Public Service Announcement for brides from a wedding party member:
Paying for your 'maids hair & make up is NOT a gift to them. it is a gift to YOU. it puts them out and benefits only you, therefore doo not refer to it as a gift to them, it will only annoy them.
If your wedding is at 4:00 pm, your wedding party is not obligated to be anywhere, etc before 2:00 pm earliest. Anything earlier you need to say please & thank you and be grateful for inconveniencing them.
Splitting up couples is rude. Splitting up married couples is hateful. In order to properly belss your own marriege, you should bless hte concept of marriage. karma will come back & bite you.
If fyou want to do a bouqet toss/garder toss fine. but if you call out your friends after they discreetly & politely decline, you are not a good friend. Hunilation is NOT a bridesmaid requirement! (and yes, many people find it humilating, just cause you don't doesn't mean you get to choose their values)
If you gave a crappy cheap gift to your friends last year, don't complain if you get the same $$ amount back. it doesn't matter that your wedding cost more - daa if you can afford more you NEED less.
brooklynbridezilla
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So you won't back out, b/c you don't want to stress the bride.
Instead you post here, KNOWING she will see it? How is that any better?
brooklynbridezilla
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And now that she has seen it, has it helped the situation at all?
SeptBride70
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Posted by brooklynbridezilla
So you won't back out, b/c you don't want to stress the bride.
Instead you post here, KNOWING she will see it? How is that any better?
Posted by brooklynbridezilla
And now that she has seen it, has it helped the situation at all?
amen!!!
angnick
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i would love to kick the ever loving shi*** ouf of wp 2006 right now... would love to meet you!!!!!!!!
Summer101
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Posted by angnick
i would love to kick the ever loving shi*** ouf of wp 2006 right now... would love to meet you!!!!!!!!
lol
RadioLau
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It has come to violence!!
BJandDan
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As an open forum, she has all rights to say anything she wants. Just because we don't agree with some of the things doesn't mean she is wrong. If she knew the bride was an LIWer, than this was obviously an attempt at an anonymous HEY BRIDEZILLA comment. Well done, no. Still important to her, maybe. Do you really think the bride will change if she is as bad as this person is making her out to be? Probably not. Does it really matter in the scheme of things, not at all.
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Can someone PLEASE tell me who you are (the bride that is that supposedly saw this thread) I am just curious..
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angnick
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Posted by RadioLau
It has come to violence!!
I had to make people laugh, right??
This is hilarious to me.. this girl is a hypocrite..
sr081906
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Posted by RadioLau
It has come to violence!!
That is the first I've heard of in a thread!!!
Summer101
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Posted by BJandDan . Do you really think the bride will change if she is as bad as this person is making her out to be? Probably not. Does it really matter in the scheme of things, not at all.
Or maybe the bride is not as bad as she makes her out to be??
SeptBride70
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Posted by BellaEyes
Can someone PLEASE tell me who you are (the bride that is that supposedly saw this thread) I am just curious..
you have FM, just call me sherlock holmes
RadioLau
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It's hilarious to me too. Boy has today gone fast. Maybe I should thank bridesmaidzilla for that.
melbalalala
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Posted by itslaurie.
Although your delivery isn't so great, I think you provide an interesting perspective.
I have to agree.. obviously it was written in anger, but I like hearing from BP members and what they are thinking!
Summer101
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Posted by angnick
Posted by RadioLau
It has come to violence!!
I had to make people laugh, right??
This is hilarious to me.. this girl is a hypocrite..
I agree!!!
Summer101
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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella
Posted by BellaEyes
Can someone PLEASE tell me who you are (the bride that is that supposedly saw this thread) I am just curious..
you have FM, just call me sherlock holmes
Hey I figured it out and told you!! Credit please- I am not 100 percent sure either
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Posted by JennandPhil827
Posted by BJandDan . Do you really think the bride will change if she is as bad as this person is making her out to be? Probably not. Does it really matter in the scheme of things, not at all.
Or maybe the bride is not as bad as she makes her out to be??
Ok, so I should have made the if in that sentence bold
Mrs. dleeny
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Posted by wp2006
'Wow....believe me the hair and make up is a GIFT....we are paying alot of money for it and the girls really appreciate it. If they dont want it done, thats up to them.'
It's not up to me. i was told I AM to show up at 8 am for a 4:00 pm wedding. i was told I MUST get my hair & make up done. These were not 'oh if you'd like I'll pay for...' no this was 'this is the timeline, this is where you will be, this is what you are having done to you. Deal with it.'
So it IS putting me out. And it is NOT a gift.
I would have said 'thanks, but I can't be in your wedding party'
end of story
SeptBride70
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Posted by JennandPhil827
Posted by BJandDan . Do you really think the bride will change if she is as bad as this person is making her out to be? Probably not. Does it really matter in the scheme of things, not at all.
Or maybe the bride is not as bad as she makes her out to be??
YES the poster seems to be MINUS a few buttons if you know what i mean-- so who knows? she could be having 'delusions' about the bride.
I dont know if we should be believing everything that is being said
