since this is a wedding website - what is your opinion on same sex marriage?

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Posted by peeweesgirl

Thank you Ciminok This is what I am talking about .If you read through the thread in it's entirety you will see there is hostility and I am only responding back to what is brought to me. This has not been the first time that the same people have been mean

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Please give us one instance of where hostility has been brought to you??

Can we move on.
Nobody is even talking about the topic anymore!

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Posted by shelzyp

Please give us one instance of where hostility has been brought to you??

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It's moot at this point. From my experience, people can't explain what they don't understand.

Moving on...your story was sweet.

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Posted by oct.2004bride

Can we move on.
Nobody is even talking about the topic anymore!

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I did, and got laughed at

Someone, quick, find the dead horse icon!


Beating a Dead Horse

Dakota tribal wisdom says that when you discover you are riding a dead horse, the best strategy is to dismount. However, in business we often try other strategies with dead horses, including the following:

1. Buying a stronger whip.
2. Changing riders.
3. Say things like, 'This is the way we have always ridden this horse.'
4. Appointing a committee to study the horse.
5. Arranging to visit other sites to see how they ride dead horses.
6. Increasing the standards to ride dead horses.
7. Appointing a tiger team to revive the dead horse.
8. Creating a training session to increase our riding ability.
9. Comparing the state of dead horses in todays environment.
10. Change the requirements declaring that 'This horse is not dead.'
11. Hire contractors to ride the dead horse.
12. Harnessing several dead horses together for increased speed.
13. Declaring that 'No horse is too dead to beat.'
14. Providing additional funding to increase the horse's performance.
15. Do a Cost Analysis study to see if contractors can ride it cheaper.
16. Purchase a product to make dead horses run faster.
17. Declare the horse is 'better, faster and cheaper' dead.
18. Form a quality circle to find uses for dead horses.
19. Revisit the performance requirements for horses.
20. Say this horse was procured with cost as an independent variable.
21. Promote the dead horse to a supervisory position.

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Posted by cp0329

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Posted by shelzyp

Please give us one instance of where hostility has been brought to you??

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It's moot at this point. From my experience, people can't explain what they don't understand.

Moving on...your story was sweet.

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The only contact I have with gay individauls are our client's and we have several that are in committed realtionships, and it is so sad to see they can't be married in the legal sense.

LOL MISTY I LIKE THAT POST

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Posted by peeweesgirl

Read

Peewee, I don't think that your response to Erica was called for. You have kept this post going, and injected more drama than necessary, all in the name of people attacking your viewpoint. But you just attacked Erica for stating that this country has had some bad laws in the past. Your implication that she wants some liberal president to throw the country in upheaval is unfair. I am a liberal and your statement is, I think, offensive and also somewhat ignorant of the political process. Whenever a new president is elected, especially if we are talking about a new political party, that president repeals old laws, passes new ones and brings in a new cabinet to implement his policies. Bush did, as do all presidents.

If you want to engage in intelligent debate, then I applaud you. But your unpunctuated ramblings seem to be geared towards no more than creating hostility when there is none.

I can understand and respect that you do not want to be made to feel that you have to defend your position. But please extend the same curtesy to the rest of the ladies and stop demanding that they defend theirs.

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IMHO I personally don't see this an attack, but you have said you were attacked long before this post. I don't see how your point's hold any validity.

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Posted by Misty

Someone, quick, find the dead horse icon!


Beating a Dead Horse

Dakota tribal wisdom says that when you discover you are riding a dead horse, the best strategy is to dismount. However, in business we often try other strategies with dead horses, including the following:

1. Buying a stronger whip.
2. Changing riders.
3. Say things like, 'This is the way we have always ridden this horse.'
4. Appointing a committee to study the horse.
5. Arranging to visit other sites to see how they ride dead horses.
6. Increasing the standards to ride dead horses.
7. Appointing a tiger team to revive the dead horse.
8. Creating a training session to increase our riding ability.
9. Comparing the state of dead horses in todays environment.
10. Change the requirements declaring that 'This horse is not dead.'
11. Hire contractors to ride the dead horse.
12. Harnessing several dead horses together for increased speed.
13. Declaring that 'No horse is too dead to beat.'
14. Providing additional funding to increase the horse's performance.
15. Do a Cost Analysis study to see if contractors can ride it cheaper.
16. Purchase a product to make dead horses run faster.
17. Declare the horse is 'better, faster and cheaper' dead.
18. Form a quality circle to find uses for dead horses.
19. Revisit the performance requirements for horses.
20. Say this horse was procured with cost as an independent variable.
21. Promote the dead horse to a supervisory position.

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I don't mean to be a *****, but how do posts like this help??

Just trying to break up the seriousness Shel......and it's obviously not working.

Hmm...those words look familiar to me, so I will respond.

That's not an attack, thats an opnion. The fact that you don't like it, does not make it an attack. Explain to me the attack. I didn't call you a name, I didn't attack your belief or the reason for it. I didn't even use particularly strong language.

I took issue with something you said that I thought was out of line and I pointed out that your posts, without punctuation are difficult to understand. Has anyone ever told you that when you type in all caps it is the same as yelling? Well, typing in one long run on sentance without punctuation sounds the same. Like you are so worked up that you can't take a breath.

Show me the verbal assault, yes the VERBAL ASSAULT.

Bush is just jealous because he is in a 'no-sex' marriage



I just love when he speaks for the entire population..... makes me feel so good to have him as president

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Posted by HearzBellz

Bush is just jealous because he is in a 'no-sex' marriage

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I wouldn't pump HER either! LOL!

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Posted by HearzBellz

Bush is just jealous because he is in a 'no-sex' marriage



I just love when he speaks for the entire population..... makes me feel so good to have him as president

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Too perfect!

CIMINOK, since you were looking for a reply from me before, here it is :

I do not know what kind of discrimination you face, nor do you know mine.

My point was, that unless you're gay, and I'm guessing you're not, you do not know what it's like. Period. Y

ou have the option of marrying the person you love. Gay people DO NOT have the option I, in no way, said that people who voted 'no' do not face some sort of discrimination. I think that all of us, as women, have face some sort of discrimination in our lives.

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Posted by MarcellaBella

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Posted by HearzBellz

Bush is just jealous because he is in a 'no-sex' marriage

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I wouldn't pump HER either! LOL!

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Marcella, you couldn't legally marry her either!!!

Its a pleasure to serve you!

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Posted by shelzyp

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Posted by MarcellaBella

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Posted by HearzBellz

Bush is just jealous because he is in a 'no-sex' marriage

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I wouldn't pump HER either! LOL!

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Marcella, you couldn't legally marry her either!!!

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LMAO!!!!