strip clubs... vent

Original post by aliwnec10

Apr 23, 2006 09:26 PM

Okay so my FH was in Atlantic City this past weekend for his friends bachelor party. And the last stop they made was to a strip club. Now there's nothing i can do about it. It was his friends bachelor party and i certainly don't expect my FH to sit anything out. But i had a few thoughts on the topic...

-lots of people say that it's their last chance to see some boobs or naked bodies. Now correct me if i'm wrong, but didn't the guys think of this before they put the damn ring on your finger? I mean when you give the girl a ring... it sort of means that she's it, doesn't it? And that she's the last person you're ever going to sleep with? So if you want to see more boobs or a*ses... shouldn't you wait to give her the ring or at least visit the strip club before you propose to get it out of your system? I mean how romantic is it that your FH has to go to a strip club right before he marries you? Wow that says romance to me!!!

-Okay so say your FH is at a bar and him and a group of people leave. Then he realizes he has to pee and this girl in the group says oh i'm right around the corner, you can use my bathroom (i know its far fetched, but keep with me). When your FH comes out of the bathroom, she all of a sudden comes out of the room naked.... shouldn't your FH feel awkward and that he shouldn't be seeing this, much less be there? That's its very inappropriate? So why is it okay to see someone naked as long as you PAY for it?

I know i'm rambling and all, but it just aggravates me. I mean just because some people say it's acceptable to pay to see naked women, doesn't mean that it's okay. If you're single, that's one thing. But especially when you're engaged... how is it appropriate or acceptable to see other naked women!?!?!?! My FH definitely wouldn't like me showing my goods to other people, so why would it be okay for him to see someone else's goods?

June12007bride Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:32 PM

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To me a strip club is definitely NOT a deal breaker. And if that's what FH and his GM's decide to do I will not stand in their way or cause a dramatic fight over it. But I will say that having a brother who has been to four bachelor parties this year ...some of the pics I 've seen and stories I've heard(whether it took place in a strip club/hotel room ect.) give me a knot in the pit of my stomach.

Sunrise813 Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:32 PM

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My FH actually was the one that introduced me to this site, and has taken perhaps more initiative than me in planning our wedding. However, he's never created a name nor has he posted to it under mine, let alone allow himself to engage in an online cat fight with a bunch of girls. I think if he did that, as he says it, he would have to 'kick his own a$$!'

In DJ's case he wouldn't be able to 'kick his own a$$!' maybe B*tch slap himself

stephanief Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:35 PM

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Posted by Sunrise813

My FH actually was the one that introduced me to this site, and has taken perhaps more initiative than me in planning our wedding. However, he's never created a name nor has he posted to it under mine, let alone allow himself to engage in an online cat fight with a bunch of girls. I think if he did that, as he says it, he would have to 'kick his own a$$!'

In DJ's case he wouldn't be able to 'kick his own a$$!' maybe B*tch slap himself

I have been trying to stay off this post but seriously, some of you girls are sounding very silly (I was going to use another word but decided against it). He is a married man so he cannot be on this site? That is the silliest thing I have heard. Let it go.

DjPiLL Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:35 PM

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Posted by Sunrise813

In DJ's case he wouldn't be able to 'kick his own a$$!' maybe B*tch slap himself

I'll partially agree with you.

I'd ***** slap myself if I ended up marrying someone that shared the same views that some women on here do.

DjPiLL Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:37 PM

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Posted by stephanief

I have been trying to stay off this post but seriously, some of you girls are sounding very silly (I was going to use another word but decided against it). He is a married man so he cannot be on this site? That is the silliest thing I have heard. Let it go.

Thanks stephanief... but don't worry about it.

Some women on here... just get so defensive when they get slapped with a dose of common sense.

BHW Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:38 PM

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stephanief Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:38 PM

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Posted by DjPiLL

Posted by stephanief

I have been trying to stay off this post but seriously, some of you girls are sounding very silly (I was going to use another word but decided against it). He is a married man so he cannot be on this site? That is the silliest thing I have heard. Let it go.

Thanks stephanief... but don't worry about it.

Some women on here... just get so defensive when they get slapped with a dose of common sense.

I hope I was not acting like that, planning a wedding can do crazy things to you. I'm glad mine is over and I am back to my old, charming self

stephanief Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:39 PM

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Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Sunrise813 Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:40 PM

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Posted by stephanief

Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.

milerose Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:41 PM

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Posted by laural2979

I guess I'm in the minority here. I have absolutely no problem with FH going to a strip club. In fact, I've gone to a few of them with him and his friends. It's really just harmless fun and if it makes him happy then who am I to complain. Plus, when he gets home he's always in the mood.

I am totally with you!!!!!!

DjPiLL Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:41 PM

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Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity?

Because they can't say anything else, so they have to resort to personal attacks. But thats ok... the more people do that... the more I know I am getting to them.

Like I said... a slap of common sense does strange things to people.

stephanief Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:41 PM

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Posted by Sunrise813

Posted by stephanief

Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.

grow up, for real...........you are getting married

MrsWmson2be Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:42 PM

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Posted by Sunrise813

Posted by stephanief

Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.

Yeah I know. I want my t-shirt!

AmyMarie Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:43 PM

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Posted by DjPiLL

Posted by Sunrise813

In DJ's case he wouldn't be able to 'kick his own a$$!' maybe B*tch slap himself

I'll partially agree with you.

I'd ***** slap myself if I ended up marrying someone that shared the same views that some women on here do.

I'm sure some would brides on here would be second guessing there decision if they came home one day to find their husband engaged with some discussion on long island weddings..but seriously I still HONESTLY BELIEVE you have gone to a strip club....lol. At this point, I think you protest too much.
We get it..guys should have wives/girlfriends who let there husbands be gropped by naked ladies and whatever..throw in a blow job here and there, GOD FORBID I tell him what to do.
Here's my honest opnion. It's disgusting, but it's your life.

Amy

Sunrise813 Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:43 PM

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Posted by MrsWmson2be

Posted by Sunrise813

Posted by stephanief

Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.

Yeah I know. I want my t-shirt!

Hey I made 1,000 post today, I wanted to reach it befpre my wedding. THANK GOD for this thread, cause the boards were kinda slow today, and I am home sick

Sunrise813 Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:44 PM

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Posted by stephanief

Posted by Sunrise813

Posted by stephanief

Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.

grow up, for real...........you are getting married

I know, only 23 days to go.YAY me!!

stephanief Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:45 PM

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Posted by AmyMarie

Posted by DjPiLL

Posted by Sunrise813

In DJ's case he wouldn't be able to 'kick his own a$$!' maybe B*tch slap himself

I'll partially agree with you.

I'd ***** slap myself if I ended up marrying someone that shared the same views that some women on here do.

I'm sure some would brides on here would be second guessing there decision if they came home one day to find their husband engaged with some discussion on long island weddings..but seriously I still HONESTLY BELIEVE you have gone to a strip club....lol. At this point, I think you protest too much.
We get it..guys should have wives/girlfriends who let there husbands be gropped by naked ladies and whatever..throw in a blow job here and there, GOD FORBID I tell him what to do.
Here's my honest opnion. It's disgusting, but it's your life.

Amy

Yes, you got it, I would love for my DH to get a BJ from a scanky stripper, you are so smart

AmyMarie Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:45 PM

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Posted by stephanief

Posted by Sunrise813

Posted by stephanief

Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.

grow up, for real...........you are getting married[/QUOTE

Stephanie...who are you kidding. You LOVE the drama...you always do.

DjPiLL Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:46 PM

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Posted by stephanief

Yes, you got it, I would love for my DH to get a BJ from a scanky stripper, you are so smart

Posted by AmyMarie

Here's my honest opnion. It's disgusting, but it's your life.

Amy

And if its your life to control everything your FH does... knock yourself out.

He will love you for it. Trust me.

stephanief Posted: Apr 25, 2006 04:46 PM

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Posted by Sunrise813

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Sunrise813

Posted by stephanief

Posted by BHW

What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?

sign of maturity...or lack thereof.

Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.

grow up, for real...........you are getting married

I know, only 23 days to go.YAY me!!

Hopefully you will realize that making fun of people and acting a fool is not the best thing to do. Have you done your seating chart yet? Just an idea of other things to keep you occupied