Okay so my FH was in Atlantic City this past weekend for his friends bachelor party. And the last stop they made was to a strip club. Now there's nothing i can do about it. It was his friends bachelor party and i certainly don't expect my FH to sit anything out. But i had a few thoughts on the topic...
-lots of people say that it's their last chance to see some boobs or naked bodies. Now correct me if i'm wrong, but didn't the guys think of this before they put the damn ring on your finger? I mean when you give the girl a ring... it sort of means that she's it, doesn't it? And that she's the last person you're ever going to sleep with? So if you want to see more boobs or a*ses... shouldn't you wait to give her the ring or at least visit the strip club before you propose to get it out of your system? I mean how romantic is it that your FH has to go to a strip club right before he marries you? Wow that says romance to me!!!
-Okay so say your FH is at a bar and him and a group of people leave. Then he realizes he has to pee and this girl in the group says oh i'm right around the corner, you can use my bathroom (i know its far fetched, but keep with me). When your FH comes out of the bathroom, she all of a sudden comes out of the room naked.... shouldn't your FH feel awkward and that he shouldn't be seeing this, much less be there? That's its very inappropriate? So why is it okay to see someone naked as long as you PAY for it?
I know i'm rambling and all, but it just aggravates me. I mean just because some people say it's acceptable to pay to see naked women, doesn't mean that it's okay. If you're single, that's one thing. But especially when you're engaged... how is it appropriate or acceptable to see other naked women!?!?!?! My FH definitely wouldn't like me showing my goods to other people, so why would it be okay for him to see someone else's goods?
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What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?
sign of maturity...or lack thereof.
Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.
grow up, for real...........you are getting married[/QUOTE
Stephanie...who are you kidding. You LOVE the drama...you always do.
I know my first day on the boards you were getting called out by a Christine.
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Stephanie...who are you kidding. You LOVE the drama...you always do.
Yet... you are participating in this thread? I guess you love the drama just as much.
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I have been trying to stay off this post but seriously, some of you girls are sounding very silly (I was going to use another word but decided against it). He is a married man so he cannot be on this site? That is the silliest thing I have heard. Let it go.
Thanks stephanief... but don't worry about it.
Some women on here... just get so defensive when they get slapped with a dose of common sense.
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Stephanie...who are you kidding. You LOVE the drama...you always do.
Yet... you are participating in this thread? I guess you love the drama just as much.
HEY haven't you heard ...we all want our T-shirts.
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In DJ's case he wouldn't be able to 'kick his own a$$!' maybe B*tch slap himself
I'll partially agree with you.
I'd ***** slap myself if I ended up marrying someone that shared the same views that some women on here do.
I'm sure some would brides on here would be second guessing there decision if they came home one day to find their husband engaged with some discussion on long island weddings..but seriously I still HONESTLY BELIEVE you have gone to a strip club....lol. At this point, I think you protest too much. We get it..guys should have wives/girlfriends who let there husbands be gropped by naked ladies and whatever..throw in a blow job here and there, GOD FORBID I tell him what to do. Here's my honest opnion. It's disgusting, but it's your life.
Amy
Yes, you got it, I would love for my DH to get a BJ from a scanky stripper, you are so smart
why does it matter?.... You are sooo cool with it. man...you DH is sooooooooooooo lucky to have you.
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What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?
sign of maturity...or lack thereof.
Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.
grow up, for real...........you are getting married
I know, only 23 days to go.YAY me!!
Hopefully you will realize that making fun of people and acting a fool is not the best thing to do. Have you done your seating chart yet? Just an idea of other things to keep you occupied
Nope want to do it for me??? Come on you got time !!
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Stephanie...who are you kidding. You LOVE the drama...you always do.
Yet... you are participating in this thread? I guess you love the drama just as much.
I never said I didn't. Let's stick with the common sense DJ
Amy
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What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?
sign of maturity...or lack thereof.
Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.
W T F are you talking about. You don't even know me. How long have you been on this website?
grow up, for real...........you are getting married[/QUOTE
Stephanie...who are you kidding. You LOVE the drama...you always do.
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Yes, you got it, I would love for my DH to get a BJ from a scanky stripper, you are so smart
Posted by AmyMarie
Here's my honest opnion. It's disgusting, but it's your life.
Amy
And if its your life to control everything your FH does... knock yourself out.
He will love you for it. Trust me.
OK DJ..somehow we go from me saying that I find it disgusting too me controlling my FI life...it is impossible to argue ( or rather purposely get a rise out of them) if you are not going to make sense. COMMON SENSE DJ...COMMON SENSE. You may want to look it up if you are going to toss it around.
Amy
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What's with the need to personally attack DJPill's masculinity? He doesn't agree with you so you question how manly he is? Can't you agree to disagree without resorting to name calling?
sign of maturity...or lack thereof.
Nope just having way too much fun to stop now. And just glad you guys are responding so we can keep this going.
grow up, for real...........you are getting married[/QUOTE
Stephanie...who are you kidding. You LOVE the drama...you always do.
I know my first day on the boards you were getting called out by a Christine.
me and Chris are cool. Get over yourself, why are you so concerned with me, god you have no life
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me and Chris are cool. Get over yourself, why are you so concerned with me, god you have no life
Hey alls I know is your name stuck in my mind as the girl getting her A$$ handed to her my first day on the boards.
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me and Chris are cool. Get over yourself, why are you so concerned with me, god you have no life
Hey alls I know is your name stuck in my mind as the girl getting her A$$ handed to her my first day on the boards.
No one handed me my ***, you know sometimes we put our foot in our mouths and we get called on it, no biggie. You are acting like a b!tch now and it is unnecessary. Go bother someone else, maybe your FH. I'm sure he loves listening to you ***** all day, poor guy
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me and Chris are cool. Get over yourself, why are you so concerned with me, god you have no life
Hey alls I know is your name stuck in my mind as the girl getting her A$$ handed to her my first day on the boards.
No one handed me my ***, you know sometimes we put our foot in our mouths and we get called on it, no biggie. You are acting like a b!tch now and it is unnecessary. Go bother someone else, maybe your FH. I'm sure he loves listening to you ***** all day, poor guy
oh come on we are having so much fun,.
okay your turn.
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Where's that picture of beating a dead horse when you need it?????
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me and Chris are cool. Get over yourself, why are you so concerned with me, god you have no life
Hey alls I know is your name stuck in my mind as the girl getting her A$$ handed to her my first day on the boards.
No one handed me my ***, you know sometimes we put our foot in our mouths and we get called on it, no biggie. You are acting like a b!tch now and it is unnecessary. Go bother someone else, maybe your FH. I'm sure he loves listening to you ***** all day, poor guy
oh come on we are having so much fun,.
okay your turn.
this is all I can say to you
Sunrise813
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me and Chris are cool. Get over yourself, why are you so concerned with me, god you have no life
Hey alls I know is your name stuck in my mind as the girl getting her A$$ handed to her my first day on the boards.
No one handed me my ***, you know sometimes we put our foot in our mouths and we get called on it, no biggie. You are acting like a b!tch now and it is unnecessary. Go bother someone else, maybe your FH. I'm sure he loves listening to you ***** all day, poor guy
oh come on we are having so much fun,.
okay your turn.
this is all I can say to you
okay now me.
stephanief
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Posted by stephanief
Posted by Sunrise813
Posted by stephanief
Posted by Sunrise813
me and Chris are cool. Get over yourself, why are you so concerned with me, god you have no life
Hey alls I know is your name stuck in my mind as the girl getting her A$$ handed to her my first day on the boards.
No one handed me my ***, you know sometimes we put our foot in our mouths and we get called on it, no biggie. You are acting like a b!tch now and it is unnecessary. Go bother someone else, maybe your FH. I'm sure he loves listening to you ***** all day, poor guy
oh come on we are having so much fun,.
okay your turn.
this is all I can say to you
okay now me.
OMFG you are unreal girl. Do you act like this all the time?
I've never seen that picture before but it's hilarious. PETA will be all over that.
DjPiLL
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No one handed me my ***, you know sometimes we put our foot in our mouths and we get called on it, no biggie. You are acting like a b!tch now and it is unnecessary. Go bother someone else, maybe your FH. I'm sure he loves listening to you ***** all day, poor guy
Poor guy is right.
And you know... looking back... while Sunrise is running her mouth now... she offered absolutely NOTHING in this thread. She didn't even first offer her opinion on the topic.
Her first post in this thread was to call me an a$$ and try to get under my skin.
And she couldn't even get that right. Talk about a loose cannon.
