Strippers

Do you want strippers at your bachelorette party? Do you care if there are strippers at your FH's bachelor party?

I absolutely DO NOT want strippers at MY party, just not my style. As for the bachelor party, I don't really care either way if FH has them... I'm not THRILLED with the idea, but I will be ok with it.

What are your thoughts?

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I'm not into male strippers, IMO they are kinda gross however I encourage FH to have strippers at his BP because they're only strippers....I know that's really not a reason but I don't really have a real reason...I just don't care.



ETA: Upon further reflection I know exactly why I don't care....several people I know are strippers and most of them are not trying to take your man they are just trying to make money and I'm fine with that....however you have to make your money, ya know.

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They are nasty and I skeeve them but I still want them if that makes any sense., lol...

As far as FH i dont care what happens...its his party.

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I am not big on the male stripper thing but I am pretty sure my crazy BM's will definitely have them. I know FH is going to have a ton of them in his Bachelor party and I dont really care.

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I dont want any at mine. As for FH, hes not really into it either but if they were there, I would deal with it

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i am exactly the same as you. i don't want male strippers, it's really not a turn-on at all for me. i just want to have a fun and crazy night out w my girlfriends.

as for him, we made a deal...i really don't like the idea of strippers coming to a hotel room. i am fine with him and the guys going to a strip club.

fh doesn't like strippers anyway (or so he says lol) so he said it's not a big deal to him either way.

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I definitely do not want strippers, luckily my MOH is going to respect that. As far as FH's bachelor party goes, he can have whatever he wants, it's his last night as a 'bachelor', I told him he can grab a booby too

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I dont want strippers...Fh will have them just because I know his friends and Im ok with that ..hes just not that type of guy and my brothers will be there!!

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i'd rather go to like a Chippendale's type show than have a stripper come to us.. it's more fun and you can keep as much or as little distance as you want. We are probably going to AC for my bachelorette party though so i doubt we will have time for any of that with everything else we are planning! I told FH that if he decided he wanted to do that to just keep in mind not to do anything he wouldn't be comfortable with me doing.. and he agreed. He says he doesn't want one.. but who knows what his groomsmen and BM are up too!!!!! He said years ago his BM got a stripper for his cousin who was pretty raunchy.. and that i'm not too thrilled with...

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Ive been to male strip clubs and honestly don't really care for them, just dont find most of them attractive. Although male strip clubs are different, its more of a party and even if you dont care for the guys you can have alot of fun just hanging with the girls so i wouldnt care if we did that

FH-i don't mind strippers at his bachelor party, i'd be surprised if his friends didn't do this lol

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not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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I HATE male strippers they are so gross

i WANT FH to have strippers believe it or not - i want him to have a typical Bach party and have a blast bc he NEVER goes out!

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Posted by MikeandJess

I definitely do not want strippers, luckily my MOH is going to respect that. As far as FH's bachelor party goes, he can have whatever he wants, it's his last night as a 'bachelor', I told him he can grab a booby too

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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Posted by ant n tilde

I HATE male strippers they are so gross

i WANT FH to have strippers believe it or not - i want him to have a typical Bach party and have a blast bc he NEVER goes out!

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its funny but im with you tilde...i'd feel bad if FH didn't have strippers hahahaha...they went this past weekend for his friends bachelor party to AC and no strippers and i was like HUH WHY NOT? i think his friend tried but they said the strippers in AC are uhmmm not that great lol

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I dont want them for my party- but it doesnt bother me if my fh wants them- he's been great about agreeing to whatever makes me happy for the wedding so if he wants strippers- i say let em enjoy... this could also be because i kno that he is so not into strippers and would rather pay beer pong and play poker lol

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don't want to discourage everybody but just bc its at the club and not at home doesn't always mean it will be better. At scores you can pay to sleep with the strippers, they have a room for this

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It's a big NO for me... for both sides. I just feel like it's not necessary for either one of us. I have found that it usally causes more problems then anything elses (for everyone involved) and is not worth the added stress a few weeks before the wedding. My best friend got married two weks ago and we had the BP's the week before and I think she said it best.... if you haven't gotten all that stuff out of your system and feel like you need to see someone else half naked a week before you are getting married, well then that's something to really think about. One of our friends got married a few months ago and there was soooo much drama around the bp's, it really took a toll on the wedding. The funny thing is that it wasn't even the bride and groom that had the problems. It was the other guys and their girlfriends. Eiither way, both FH and I both don't think it's a good idea or worth it. JMO

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Posted by JeanetteandSteve

i am exactly the same as you. i don't want male strippers, it's really not a turn-on at all for me. i just want to have a fun and crazy night out w my girlfriends.

as for him, we made a deal...i really don't like the idea of strippers coming to a hotel room. i am fine with him and the guys going to a strip club.

fh doesn't like strippers anyway (or so he says lol) so he said it's not a big deal to him either way.

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I completely agree, FH and I have talked about it because his friends are planning Vegas for his bachelor party and I said that same as you... none in the hotel room...

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we both don't want strippers .........I 'd rather bond with my girls at a spa or a weekend getaway. He feels the same way.