Re: Strippers

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Posted by Espo22

don't want to discourage everybody but just bc its at the club and not at home doesn't always mean it will be better. At scores you can pay to sleep with the strippers, they have a room for this

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yeah i had to have a serious talk with my brother bc he likes to throw his money around and stuff

so i was like strippers please no prostitutes or prostitutes posing as strippers lol

it is so bad i had to have the convo with my bro, my BIL and my cousins

poor FH

eta my two rules were no prostitutes and before january ( the first weekend is the RD and the second is the wedding) so i think i am being pretty reasonable!

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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I don't want them male strippers in their tight lil bikini bottoms with there bulge in my face just doesn't excite me lol it kind of grosses me out. I have gone to female strip clubs with friends before and with him and as long as it isn't in a hotel I don't mind. That I don't trust my hubby but I have heard stories of realllllly bad things going on in hotels with strippers.

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Posted by Espo22

Ive been to male strip clubs and honestly don't really care for them, just dont find most of them attractive. Although male strip clubs are different, its more of a party and even if you dont care for the guys you can have alot of fun just hanging with the girls so i wouldnt care if we did that

FH-i don't mind strippers at his bachelor party, i'd be surprised if his friends didn't do this lol

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I hear you on the atmosphere -- it's more of like a crazy party, but I don't want a random guy shaking his ding dong in my face...

Re: Strippers

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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EWWWWWW *** thats nasty.

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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that is MUCH better than what i was thinking

i have a dirty mind - thats an interesting game!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by ant n tilde

I HATE male strippers they are so gross

i WANT FH to have strippers believe it or not - i want him to have a typical Bach party and have a blast bc he NEVER goes out!

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its funny but im with you tilde...i'd feel bad if FH didn't have strippers hahahaha...they went this past weekend for his friends bachelor party to AC and no strippers and i was like HUH WHY NOT? i think his friend tried but they said the strippers in AC are uhmmm not that great lol

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yea i've heard that too.. a few of my guy friends had thier BP there and they were none to thrilled with some of the entertainment choices went as far as strippers..

i honestly don't care if he does it either..my only problem was that FH told me the last time he was at a BP for the same crew.. the BM (who is his as well) got a stripper who pretty much screwed the grooms face and then proceeded to try and cut his boxers off while he was blindfolded on the floor and it really embarrassed the groom more than him enjoying anything..and FH really doesn't like that sort of thing..he gets REALLY shy.. so that;s what i don't like..but if he just wants to look at a few boobies..thats ok with me..lol

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Posted by kellybean

I dont want strippers...Fh will have them just because I know his friends and Im ok with that ..hes just not that type of guy and my brothers will be there!!

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I agree, I don't want them and I don't care WHEN he has them and my brother will be there anyway, LOL

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Posted by Espo22

don't want to discourage everybody but just bc its at the club and not at home doesn't always mean it will be better. At scores you can pay to sleep with the strippers, they have a room for this

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That is just -- ugh... makes me sick to my stomach

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Posted by Cntthinkofone

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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EWWWWWW *** thats nasty.

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hahaha yeah I know...and the funny/sick part was how EXCITED they were to throw rings at this chicks butt...so gross!!

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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that is MUCH better than what i was thinking

i have a dirty mind - thats an interesting game!

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WOW..lmaooooo

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by Cntthinkofone

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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EWWWWWW *** thats nasty.

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hahaha yeah I know...and the funny/sick part was how EXCITED they were to throw rings at this chicks butt...so gross!!

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yeh the simplicity of the male brain lol. If only such silly things could get us excited

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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that is MUCH better than what i was thinking

i have a dirty mind - thats an interesting game!

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WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?!?!?!?!?

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yeahhhh i am not at all into male strippers. i don`t know what it is but i don`t like the idea of them shaking their junk in my face or anywhere near me lol as for FH i`m not thrilled with the idea but i know his uncles already have this all planned out. he will be at a strip club i just know it! FH isn`t too into it so he`ll probably just sit back and do whatever.

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Posted by Super2star

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Super2star

not a fan of strippers either...I rather FH go to a stip club than have a private 'anal toss' show like he had at his friends bach party!!!!

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WHAT the EFF is that?!

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lol...YEAH....they gave him a shirt after of a naked chick bending over...
they shove a stick up her a$$ and you throw rings around it....fun times!

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O M G .... I can't believe I just read that... lol

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I am not into stripper and no way would i want them to come to the hotel or house we stayed at haha i mean i wouldnt mind going to a male strip club though cause like Denise said its more about the atmosphere you are still going to have fun even if yuo dont find them attractive

as for FH i said i dont mind if they are there. we have a very trusting and understanding relationship (one good thing about the military and seperatation haha). but i would feel more comfortable with them going to a strip club rather than having it at the hotel- since his cousins are psychos and would prob do alot more than just watch her strip.... I know he wouldnt but he would def feel uncomfortable...

but nah i dont mind if he has them but also he says he is not really into them and doesnt even know if he wants to have strippers

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Posted by Kris0703

It's a big NO for me... for both sides. I just feel like it's not necessary for either one of us. I have found that it usally causes more problems then anything elses (for everyone involved) and is not worth the added stress a few weeks before the wedding. My best friend got married two weks ago and we had the BP's the week before and I think she said it best.... if you haven't gotten all that stuff out of your system and feel like you need to see someone else half naked a week before you are getting married, well then that's something to really think about. One of our friends got married a few months ago and there was soooo much drama around the bp's, it really took a toll on the wedding. The funny thing is that it wasn't even the bride and groom that had the problems. It was the other guys and their girlfriends. Eiither way, both FH and I both don't think it's a good idea or worth it. JMO

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i don't think its something we need to think about regarding the relationship ... first of all we're not planning our own bachelor and bachelorette parties so not like we pick it ourselves and 2nd-some of us just want to go out and have fun with our friends and thats whatever we do, i don't care about the male strippers like i said ive been to them and never found them attractive, i do remember going with friends dancing at our tables, all the girls are always up dancing and just having fun together. Its not something i want or dont want, ill just make the best of whatever situation i am in.

Also-i am secure that our relationship can take a night of going out. I know myself and what i would do and know FH can have fun and hey he gets a lap dance he gets one-i always offer to buy him one lol, i know as far as sealing the deal then that is a different story for him

I understand and respect you for your thoughts on this and if you dont want to then that is fine but don't think that now we should question our relationships

See exactly like you said, many of us have been there done that and got it out of our system...T*TS in Fh's face aren't like OMG boobies WOO HOO this is awesome now i have to go crazy, its really not a big deal for him, hes been to strip clubs tons of times and even when he was single the strippers would hit on him and he wouldn't go for it. I just know my FH can handle T&A

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yea i agree... so not into strippers.. neither is my FH so it works out- i would totally rather go to a spa all day and martini bar at night w/ my girls.
strippers are super cheesy-- im embarrased for them!

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Posted by yelley77

Do you want strippers at your bachelorette party? Do you care if there are strippers at your FH's bachelor party?

I absolutely DO NOT want strippers at MY party, just not my style. As for the bachelor party, I don't really care either way if FH has them... I'm not THRILLED with the idea, but I will be ok with it.

What are your thoughts?

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Those ARE my exact thoughts lol

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Posted by ElizA823

yea i agree... so not into strippers.. neither is my FH so it works out- i would totally rather go to a spa all day and martini bar at night w/ my girls.
strippers are super cheesy-- im embarrased for them!

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bachelorette parties are all about the cheese, we walk around in a veil for godsakes