Re: Strippers

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

Re: Strippers

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Posted by JTsGal829

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by ant n tilde

I HATE male strippers they are so gross

i WANT FH to have strippers believe it or not - i want him to have a typical Bach party and have a blast bc he NEVER goes out!

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its funny but im with you tilde...i'd feel bad if FH didn't have strippers hahahaha...they went this past weekend for his friends bachelor party to AC and no strippers and i was like HUH WHY NOT? i think his friend tried but they said the strippers in AC are uhmmm not that great lol

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yea i've heard that too.. a few of my guy friends had thier BP there and they were none to thrilled with some of the entertainment choices went as far as strippers..

i honestly don't care if he does it either..my only problem was that FH told me the last time he was at a BP for the same crew.. the BM (who is his as well) got a stripper who pretty much screwed the grooms face and then proceeded to try and cut his boxers off while he was blindfolded on the floor and it really embarrassed the groom more than him enjoying anything..and FH really doesn't like that sort of thing..he gets REALLY shy.. so that;s what i don't like..but if he just wants to look at a few boobies..thats ok with me..lol

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yeah see i def see FH being sort of embarassed because my brother is his best friend and to have him get a lap dance from a stripper and my brother be in the room haha well he knows he is marrying his sister- i think he might not like it especially since he mentioned it before. but also i dont care if he gets a lapdance or touches some boob whatever...but having a trashy stripper is like come on- why go that trashy and start screwig the face of the groom- have some class...thats what i told my brother if you get a stripper get one with some class so she isnt looking like a prostitute haha

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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Oh, I hope that no one took offense to what I said. I didn't mean that everyone that wants to have stippers has a bad relationship, even though I can see how what I wrote before can be seen like that. That was actually my friends opinion on it and it was pretty strong bc she DID have to worry about her FH (long story, but he use to be pretty wild and is not a good drunk). I am more worried about what happened to another friend that all the other guys and girls were fighting about it. And, the funny part is that it was more of the guys pissed off then the girls (can you say overprotective!!) Maybe I should have explained myself better... most of our friends and BP are older, married and have kids - that's way I don't think it's necessary.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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completely agree!!!! like its sad but FH's old roommate hwen he was stationed in San Diego cheated on well now his fiance (since they got engaged 2 weeks ago) with 3 different girls while in san diego since his fiance was in NJ. And I said omg what is going to happen at his bacholer party...

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Posted by Kris0703

Oh, I hope that no one took offense to what I said. I didn't mean that everyone that wants to have stippers has a bad relationship, even though I can see how what I wrote before can be seen like that. That was actually my friends opinion on it and it was pretty strong bc she DID have to worry about her FH (long story, but he use to be pretty wild and is not a good drunk). I am more worried about what happened to another friend that all the other guys and girls were fighting about it. And, the funny part is that it was more of the guys pissed off then the girls (can you say overprotective!!) Maybe I should have explained myself better... most of our friends and BP are older, married and have kids - that's way I don't think it's necessary.

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well honestly then its not just the bachelor party your friend would have to worry about her FH it would be anytime he went out...IF she doesn't trust him then that is something she really needs to think about. Guys who cheat dont just cheat at bachelor parties they do it whenever and wherever. If someone finds out their bf, FH, DH did something bad at a bachelor party i would hate to inform them that its most likely it wasn't his first time deceiving her.

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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completely agree!!!! like its sad but FH's old roommate hwen he was stationed in San Diego cheated on well now his fiance (since they got engaged 2 weeks ago) with 3 different girls while in san diego since his fiance was in NJ. And I said omg what is going to happen at his bacholer party...

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exactly, if a guy cheats at his BP then you're just finding out their true colors

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no way!!! lol i think they r icky!!!!!!!!!!!

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I dont want them at my party and I SURE AS HELL DONT WANT THEM AT MY FH PARTY

I know they are going to be there. I am dreading that day.... that has to be the must worst part of getting married.


I know his firends are going to get them for him

we have to have our parties the same day.

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Yeah, that is a huge problem. He never cheated on her but like I said he was very wild when they first met. Oh, did I mention that her last boyfriend (of 5 years) actually left her for a stripper!! So, it is more of her own insecurities then anything else. I don't think her DH would ever cheat on her. Yes he was very wild but he has completely changed since he met her. I guess for some girls they just can't get over the past experiences. But, I could see where she was coming from and all the guys knew where she stood and they did not have any stippers out of respect for her wishes. I believe that if both parties are ok with it.. awesome, but if even one of you is uncomfitable about it - then it's not worth it.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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completely agree!!!! like its sad but FH's old roommate hwen he was stationed in San Diego cheated on well now his fiance (since they got engaged 2 weeks ago) with 3 different girls while in san diego since his fiance was in NJ. And I said omg what is going to happen at his bacholer party...

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exactly, if a guy cheats at his BP then you're just finding out their true colors

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They only thing that bothers me about the whole theme of BP's is that famous saying, 'it's your last night being single'... you are not single, I am not single, we are engaged to be married... (I am not talking about me and my FH, I am talking about people who say this) I am lucky enough to have complete trust in FH and for him to have it in me, but when I hear people say that, it drives me nuts... It's a night to go out with your girlfriends/guy friends and just have a great time, not act like you are single!!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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I knew thought of it like that. What you said makes so much sense and it makes me feel better about it. A little bit

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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completely agree!!!! like its sad but FH's old roommate hwen he was stationed in San Diego cheated on well now his fiance (since they got engaged 2 weeks ago) with 3 different girls while in san diego since his fiance was in NJ. And I said omg what is going to happen at his bacholer party...

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exactly, if a guy cheats at his BP then you're just finding out their true colors

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They only thing that bothers me about the whole theme of BP's is that famous saying, 'it's your last night being single'... you are not single, I am not single, we are engaged to be married... (I am not talking about me and my FH, I am talking about people who say this) I am lucky enough to have complete trust in FH and for him to have it in me, but when I hear people say that, it drives me nuts... It's a night to go out with your girlfriends/guy friends and just have a great time, not act like you are single!!

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like i do see your point...hmmm i say that too but don't mean it in a way that i can act single i just mean i need to make sure and have fun...i always joke around and say OMG its my last summer im single

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Posted by Jasonsgirl

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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I knew thought of it like that. What you said makes so much sense and it makes me feel better about it. A little bit

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LOL im glad

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i told FH if they wanna go to a strip joint go for it....they wanna go away for the weekend go for it i really dont care what they do! As long as he doesnt spend any $$ and no body fluids are exchanged i am good lol!! but i dont want them at my party! we are taking a wine tasting tour for mine! and then bar hopping!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Super2star

It only causes drama for the wedding party if someone does a big No No and sleeps with a hooker/stripper...otherwise its all innocent fun...

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well if someone is gonna cheat then they would cheat regardless. Whether it was a bachelor party or a regular night out with the guys...A guy who NEVER cheats is not all of a sudden JUST gonna cheat for the bachelor party.

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completely agree!!!! like its sad but FH's old roommate hwen he was stationed in San Diego cheated on well now his fiance (since they got engaged 2 weeks ago) with 3 different girls while in san diego since his fiance was in NJ. And I said omg what is going to happen at his bacholer party...

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exactly, if a guy cheats at his BP then you're just finding out their true colors

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They only thing that bothers me about the whole theme of BP's is that famous saying, 'it's your last night being single'... you are not single, I am not single, we are engaged to be married... (I am not talking about me and my FH, I am talking about people who say this) I am lucky enough to have complete trust in FH and for him to have it in me, but when I hear people say that, it drives me nuts... It's a night to go out with your girlfriends/guy friends and just have a great time, not act like you are single!!

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like i do see your point...hmmm i say that too but don't mean it in a way that i can act single i just mean i need to make sure and have fun...i always joke around and say OMG its my last summer im single

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That is the ONLY thing about BP parties that gets under my skin... Have as much fun as you want, drink as much as you want, have as many lap dances as you want, but the minute someone tells me 'It's my last night of being single' i flip out... I just think of how I acted when I was single and, well, lets not go there ;)

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haha true, but the strippers bring it to a whole new level!!

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Posted by angl2001

i told FH if they wanna go to a strip joint go for it....they wanna go away for the weekend go for it i really dont care what they do! As long as he doesnt spend any $$ and no body fluids are exchanged i am good lol!! but i dont want them at my party! we are taking a wine tasting tour for mine! and then bar hopping!

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AMEN!!

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i hate male strippers, they actually make me laugh then turn me on. For my bachelorette party i would prefer to go for a weekend at a spa with my girls.
As for my FH, i am forcing him to go to Vegas with his friends. He hates strippers, but i do trust his judgement and know he wont f&ck up what he has for a one night stand. I mean his friends are crazy!!! But i do trust my man.

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its funny that i JUST had this talk with FH...
we used to joke about it.. but we just had a serious talk...

and i have mentioned this to his brother and cousin already.... matilde i have rules too!!!

no completly naked girls if they want girls...
and no forcing him to do anything

i heard from multiple people at FBIL's bach party they had BOTH of that, and fh and his best friend were shocked. they were both 19 or 18 and they were taken advantage of (im sure a part of fh didnt mind he was 19 with women all over him) but the idea that FBIL and his friends paid for this to happen was NOT something i want him to think he can do for FH now.

i hope that made sense.

fh is an A*s man... he woudl care less for naked girls anyway... loves the bootie... so im not concerned.. i just want clothes on, or at least panties!!!!


as for ME... i dont want ANY strippers... im really yuk about it.