Re: Strippers

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Kris0703

I think this is a dangerous topic because almost everyone is going to have pretty strong feelings one way or the other. It has to come done to what both people are ok with. I know I don't want them at mine and don't want them at my FH's, (lucky for me FH is very shy and doesn't want them either). It has nothing to do with how much I trust him bc that is NOT an issue. It's a personal choice. Even if I thought the girl was the uglist thing the world, I still would not want her flashing herself to him. And FH feels the same way about male strippers with me. I don't think anyone should be judged for it.

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OH yeah this isn't the first time its happened lol it always happens

i agree see i am ok with it, and if someone is not then i respect them for it ok fine...and no this isn't towards you so don't take it wrong

but its when ppl knock those of us who dont mind when it gets heated lol...i dont mind just having an open discussion, i can voice my opinion and not get all mad about this

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i definitely agree Denise. I dont mind strippers being at FH's BP. I dont mind him even getting a lapdance- just nothing crazy like forcing people to do things. But i know Fh wouldnt let it get that far...

anyway haha some topics that we post definitely get sensitive due to the opinions people have. but i def dont mind having an open discussion and i dont want to knock anyones opinions down but others should be respectful as well and not knock people who ahve different opinions then them...like that whole DOG POST a couple days ago thankfully this post we are all adults and respectful

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you have to be able to be respectful of what other people think and feel... there is no way we would all ever feel the same way about ANY topic.

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Posted by cbcf

Just a side note-

I feel us 08ers are very respectful of each other and let everyone voice their opinion without getting crazy...I love it on this board!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by cbcf

Just a side note-

I feel us 08ers are very respectful of each other and let everyone voice their opinion without getting crazy...I love it on this board!!!!!!!!!!!

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agreed!

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I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Kris0703

I think this is a dangerous topic because almost everyone is going to have pretty strong feelings one way or the other. It has to come done to what both people are ok with. I know I don't want them at mine and don't want them at my FH's, (lucky for me FH is very shy and doesn't want them either). It has nothing to do with how much I trust him bc that is NOT an issue. It's a personal choice. Even if I thought the girl was the uglist thing the world, I still would not want her flashing herself to him. And FH feels the same way about male strippers with me. I don't think anyone should be judged for it.

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OH yeah this isn't the first time its happened lol it always happens

i agree see i am ok with it, and if someone is not then i respect them for it ok fine...and no this isn't towards you so don't take it wrong

but its when ppl knock those of us who dont mind when it gets heated lol...i dont mind just having an open discussion, i can voice my opinion and not get all mad about this

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PS, everytime I see your headline, I start singing that song :)

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Posted by Espo22

I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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LOL!

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Kris0703

I think this is a dangerous topic because almost everyone is going to have pretty strong feelings one way or the other. It has to come done to what both people are ok with. I know I don't want them at mine and don't want them at my FH's, (lucky for me FH is very shy and doesn't want them either). It has nothing to do with how much I trust him bc that is NOT an issue. It's a personal choice. Even if I thought the girl was the uglist thing the world, I still would not want her flashing herself to him. And FH feels the same way about male strippers with me. I don't think anyone should be judged for it.

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OH yeah this isn't the first time its happened lol it always happens

i agree see i am ok with it, and if someone is not then i respect them for it ok fine...and no this isn't towards you so don't take it wrong

but its when ppl knock those of us who dont mind when it gets heated lol...i dont mind just having an open discussion, i can voice my opinion and not get all mad about this

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i definitely agree Denise. I dont mind strippers being at FH's BP. I dont mind him even getting a lapdance- just nothing crazy like forcing people to do things. But i know Fh wouldnt let it get that far...

anyway haha some topics that we post definitely get sensitive due to the opinions people have. but i def dont mind having an open discussion and i dont want to knock anyones opinions down but others should be respectful as well and not knock people who ahve different opinions then them...like that whole DOG POST a couple days ago thankfully this post we are all adults and respectful

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you have to be able to be respectful of what other people think and feel... there is no way we would all ever feel the same way about ANY topic.

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oh of course that is definitely true. i completely agree that we can all agree to disagree on topics....it reminds me of my old roommate in school. i am republican and hse was hard core democratic and when we spoke about politics it got crazy cause seh didnt want to be respectful of how i felt about certain things and i never put her down for believing in something different then me but she def did and it got heated at times....

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Kris0703

I think this is a dangerous topic because almost everyone is going to have pretty strong feelings one way or the other. It has to come done to what both people are ok with. I know I don't want them at mine and don't want them at my FH's, (lucky for me FH is very shy and doesn't want them either). It has nothing to do with how much I trust him bc that is NOT an issue. It's a personal choice. Even if I thought the girl was the uglist thing the world, I still would not want her flashing herself to him. And FH feels the same way about male strippers with me. I don't think anyone should be judged for it.

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OH yeah this isn't the first time its happened lol it always happens

i agree see i am ok with it, and if someone is not then i respect them for it ok fine...and no this isn't towards you so don't take it wrong

but its when ppl knock those of us who dont mind when it gets heated lol...i dont mind just having an open discussion, i can voice my opinion and not get all mad about this

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i definitely agree Denise. I dont mind strippers being at FH's BP. I dont mind him even getting a lapdance- just nothing crazy like forcing people to do things. But i know Fh wouldnt let it get that far...

anyway haha some topics that we post definitely get sensitive due to the opinions people have. but i def dont mind having an open discussion and i dont want to knock anyones opinions down but others should be respectful as well and not knock people who ahve different opinions then them...like that whole DOG POST a couple days ago thankfully this post we are all adults and respectful

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yeah we have to realize that we won't all agree, ESPECIALLY with this topic.

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Male strippers skeeeeeve me. I told the girls if they want to get strippers they can but they better make sure they dont touch me! Ive been to a stripper show once and didnt enjoy one bit of it. As far as FH having strippers, thats fine.

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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LOL!

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hahaha good im spreading the partying mood

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Posted by Espo22

I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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LOL!

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you don't understand he is dead serious too. He was out recently and all the guys were sweating some girl at a club and she stood by FH and smiled at him so he just looked at her and laughed at her then walked away. Then there was some other chick, i think real tall, blonde, implants and every guy was drooling and when she walked by right in front of her face he said 'i dont think shes hott, her friend looks better than her' the blonde looked at him and was like what OMG hes like its true youre not hott and the girl with her was the small petite girl that everyone kept pushing aside to get to the friend and he said she got so shocked when he said that and put her head down to say thank you. When he is out FH is an A**Hole

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Posted by angl2001

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by angl2001

i told FH if they wanna go to a strip joint go for it....they wanna go away for the weekend go for it i really dont care what they do! As long as he doesnt spend any $$ and no body fluids are exchanged i am good lol!! but i dont want them at my party! we are taking a wine tasting tour for mine! and then bar hopping!

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AMEN!!

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i just dont get why some girls get upset that their FH wants to go away for the weekend or see strippers . I just dont see the big deal and i know his BM wont pick anything that would be inappropriate. he is very respectful. So i am not worried. I trush FH and his friends so im not worried

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me either. I paid for my FH to get a lapdance. it doesnt bother me.

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Ive been telling FH we should go and ill buy him a lapdance but he doesn't want to its weird but im just curious to see like his facial expressions and all that

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lol thats what i wanted to see. the best part was she took off his belt, tied it around his neck and walked him. i was ROTFL

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lol thats what i wanted to see. the best part was she took off his belt, tied it around his neck and walked him. i was ROTFL

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i can picture him too lol, but i can see why it would be weird bc he knows ill be watching for facial expressions and all that and then he'll get self-conscious, i know if ppl were staring at me to see my reactions i would be the same.

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I've been avoiding getting into this conversation but whatever.......I respect everyones opinion absolutely and people can do whatever they are comfortable with and all that but honestly, maybe it's because FH worked in a sex shop and was constantly surrounded by them or because I have a family member in the 'industry' (in Vegas) but I seem to be more de-sensitized to the whole stripper situation. My FH can pretty much do anything he wants outside of have sex because I know that strippers will only go as far as your money and we don't have all that much money And yes, there will ALWAYS be horror stories etc, etc but seriously it all comes down to cash. I think of them like used-car salesmen....they can smell how much money you have, if you have alot, they'll go far to get it, because money is the only thing that makes up for the relative shittyness that these girls have to put up with. So yeah....

That's my 2 cents.

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

I've been avoiding getting into this conversation but whatever.......I respect everyones opinion absolutely and people can do whatever they are comfortable with and all that but honestly, maybe it's because FH worked in a sex shop and was constantly surrounded by them or because I have a family member in the 'industry' (in Vegas) but I seem to be more de-sensitized to the whole stripper situation. My FH can pretty much do anything he wants outside of have sex because I know that strippers will only go as far as your money and we don't have all that much money And yes, there will ALWAYS be horror stories etc, etc but seriously it all comes down to cash. I think of them like used-car salesmen....they can smell how much money you have, if you have alot, they'll go far to get it, because money is the only thing that makes up for the relative shittyness that these girls have to put up with. So yeah....

That's my 2 cents.

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AND that is exactly why i had the talk with my bother about strippers

he isnt rich but he pretends he is ( which is worse) and he will blow thousands of dollars just to have a good time. . . lol i should give him a set allowance for the bach party - everone else is broke so they cant get TOO crazy

btw - one thing we can all agree on ( so far)
male strippers are

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Posted by ant n tilde


btw - one thing we can all agree on ( so far)
male strippers are

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indeed. most of them are gay anyway.

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

I've been avoiding getting into this conversation but whatever.......I respect everyones opinion absolutely and people can do whatever they are comfortable with and all that but honestly, maybe it's because FH worked in a sex shop and was constantly surrounded by them or because I have a family member in the 'industry' (in Vegas) but I seem to be more de-sensitized to the whole stripper situation. My FH can pretty much do anything he wants outside of have sex because I know that strippers will only go as far as your money and we don't have all that much money And yes, there will ALWAYS be horror stories etc, etc but seriously it all comes down to cash. I think of them like used-car salesmen....they can smell how much money you have, if you have alot, they'll go far to get it, because money is the only thing that makes up for the relative shittyness that these girls have to put up with. So yeah....

That's my 2 cents.

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AND that is exactly why i had the talk with my bother about strippers

he isnt rich but he pretends he is ( which is worse) and he will blow thousands of dollars just to have a good time. . . lol i should give him a set allowance for the bach party - everone else is broke so they cant get TOO crazy

btw - one thing we can all agree on ( so far)
male strippers are

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AMEN to that, tilde!!!! there is just something about hot, sweaty dong and greasy bodies all up in my grill that DOESN'T do it for me

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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LOL!

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you don't understand he is dead serious too. He was out recently and all the guys were sweating some girl at a club and she stood by FH and smiled at him so he just looked at her and laughed at her then walked away. Then there was some other chick, i think real tall, blonde, implants and every guy was drooling and when she walked by right in front of her face he said 'i dont think shes hott, her friend looks better than her' the blonde looked at him and was like what OMG hes like its true youre not hott and the girl with her was the small petite girl that everyone kept pushing aside to get to the friend and he said she got so shocked when he said that and put her head down to say thank you. When he is out FH is an A**Hole

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OMG Denise! That is hilarious! Fh is like that too! The funniest part is that, since he's engaged and usually goes out with single guys, the girls migrate towards him since he's usually standing by himself cuz his friends are out girl searching so they 'feel bad for him'. Last time he went out one girl was like 'Aww I feel bad for you, youre all alone' And he shot her down quick. I bet she didnt feel too bad for him after that. I like when theyre A-HOLES. He also comes home like, 'They were sweating this chick and she wasnt even hot' Your FH and mine should go out together, they'd probably make girls cry

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Either way ick....