Thanks to Fullersbride.. we need a DEAR ??? thread.. i know there

---

Posted by eelharas4700

Dear FH,
Please stop asking me why I am stressed out. I don't find it helpful that you tell me we have 'plenty of time' and 'we' are just about done with everything. Just a small reminder, I have taken care of just about everything. There isn't a wedding fairy who goes around taking care of everything. When I get upset and tell you we still have a lot to do, please don't act surprised and when you ask me to 'make a list' fyi I did and I read it over with you just 4 short days ago. But I love you more than anything and I am willing to put up with your memory loss!
Your loving wife to be!

---

I agree. What is with this 'we' business

Dear FMIL....Stop asking me what I am cooking for dinner. You baby boy will eat. (Something):

---

Posted by BRIDE2K7

Dear FMIL....Stop asking me what I am cooking for dinner. You baby boy will eat. (Something):

---

add mother to that too!

Dear Family,

As you know I am very anti-bridezilla and have been trying my best to ensure I do not act in such a way, but every so often I would like to be treated like a soon-to-be-bride. It seems like every time the wedding is brought up nobody fusses at all. HELLO - I am getting married in less than 5 months, is anyone excited other than me?!?

---

Posted by Summer07Bride

Dear Family,

As you know I am very anti-bridezilla and have been trying my best to ensure I do not act in such a way, but every so often I would like to be treated like a soon-to-be-bride. It seems like every time the wedding is brought up nobody fusses at all. HELLO - I am getting married in less than 5 months, is anyone excited other than me?!?

---

I agree! Thank God for this board, at least there are wonderful people who care to treat you like the bride-to-be should be treated.

Dear LIW.. You ladies are the best bridal friends anyone could ever ask for .. When no one else understands.. u do .. when everyone else is asleep..someone here is awake..when no one else wants to hear everything that u have talked about for a yr .. someone here wants to .. I love you all ................

Dear Immediate Family of Mine;
As you all know I am very anti-bridezilla. I sat back and watched the shower and wedding of my older brother is 2005 (it wasn't my turn yet) and then watched the shower and wedding of my younger brother in 2006 (just approaching 'my time'-as everyone called it) and NOW ITS HERE!! Well, now I had to sit back and watch a baby shower and birth of my nephew (who I love) and just as I thought it was MY TIME AGAIN--I now have to sit back and have a christening. IS it EVER going to be MY TIME? I would love a little attention being that I made a big deal over everyone else and made sure they were happy. Maybe that sounds a little BRIDEZILLA to you, but if that's what you think, then you ain't even seen it yet!

ps-MOM-there are more things to life then your precious grandson and the other newlyweds...your only daughter is getting married-remember her?
Love,
Your Daughter and Sister


Ok, Vent over. Sorry. I just want someone to remember me! LOL

couldn't help myself with another ;)

Dear God,

Thank you so much for FH. He is the most wonderful man in the world. But, forgive me when i question your ability to bundle a wonderful man with an equally wonderful and normal family that comes with him? Now I know you are almighty, all wonderful and all knowing, but somewhere along the lines you seemed to mess up a bit when it comes to inlaws. Getting a husband is like buying a new car...you want the sunroof, but unfortunately to get that you must buy all of these options you really don't want. God, perhaps in your infinite wisdom you could create families of all normal people and bundle them together with other like normal people, and keep the annoying pain in the butt ones all grouped together in one family as well. This would save us alot of trouble down the line in living long and happy lives without in-laws that will drive us nuts for the next 20 years or so. Now i know they say you marry the man, and not the family...but come on God, you know that one's not true. Thanks for listening!

P.S. If you could create world peace that would be great!

Love ya, me

Dear FSIL,

It's funny how things turn out...I didn't want you in my wedding to begin with and now you've put yourself in a place where you can't get out of. I will have someone who really cares about me standing next to me on my wedding day so thank you for doing this to me, it turned out great for me!
Your FSIL

Dear God-

In my next lifetime I would really appreciate coming back as a Groom!

-The Bride

---

Posted by EastEndBride

Dear God-

In my next lifetime I would really appreciate coming back as a Groom!

-The Bride

---

---

Dear LIW.. You ladies are the best bridal friends anyone could ever ask for .. When no one else understands.. u do .. when everyone else is asleep..someone here is awake..when no one else wants to hear everything that u have talked about for a yr .. someone here wants to .. I love you all ................

Posted by mhermanns

Dear Immediate Family of Mine;
As you all know I am very anti-bridezilla. I sat back and watched the shower and wedding of my older brother is 2005 (it wasn't my turn yet) and then watched the shower and wedding of my younger brother in 2006 (just approaching 'my time'-as everyone called it) and NOW ITS HERE!! Well, now I had to sit back and watch a baby shower and birth of my nephew (who I love) and just as I thought it was MY TIME AGAIN--I now have to sit back and have a christening. IS it EVER going to be MY TIME? I would love a little attention being that I made a big deal over everyone else and made sure they were happy. Maybe that sounds a little BRIDEZILLA to you, but if that's what you think, then you ain't even seen it yet!

ps-MOM-there are more things to life then your precious grandson and the other newlyweds...your only daughter is getting married-remember her?
Love,
Your Daughter and Sister


Ok, Vent over. Sorry. I just want someone to remember me! LOL

---

I agree with both of these posts.

---

Posted by HamptonsBride

couldn't help myself with another ;)

Dear God,

Thank you so much for FH. He is the most wonderful man in the world. But, forgive me when i question your ability to bundle a wonderful man with an equally wonderful and normal family that comes with him? Now I know you are almighty, all wonderful and all knowing, but somewhere along the lines you seemed to mess up a bit when it comes to inlaws. Getting a husband is like buying a new car...you want the sunroof, but unfortunately to get that you must buy all of these options you really don't want. God, perhaps in your infinite wisdom you could create families of all normal people and bundle them together with other like normal people, and keep the annoying pain in the butt ones all grouped together in one family as well. This would save us alot of trouble down the line in living long and happy lives without in-laws that will drive us nuts for the next 20 years or so. Now i know they say you marry the man, and not the family...but come on God, you know that one's not true. Thanks for listening!

P.S. If you could create world peace that would be great!

Love ya, me

---

I'll add my name to the bottom of that one!

---

Posted by shelby34

---

Posted by HamptonsBride

couldn't help myself with another ;)

Dear God,

Thank you so much for FH. He is the most wonderful man in the world. But, forgive me when i question your ability to bundle a wonderful man with an equally wonderful and normal family that comes with him? Now I know you are almighty, all wonderful and all knowing, but somewhere along the lines you seemed to mess up a bit when it comes to inlaws. Getting a husband is like buying a new car...you want the sunroof, but unfortunately to get that you must buy all of these options you really don't want. God, perhaps in your infinite wisdom you could create families of all normal people and bundle them together with other like normal people, and keep the annoying pain in the butt ones all grouped together in one family as well. This would save us alot of trouble down the line in living long and happy lives without in-laws that will drive us nuts for the next 20 years or so. Now i know they say you marry the man, and not the family...but come on God, you know that one's not true. Thanks for listening!

P.S. If you could create world peace that would be great!

Love ya, me

---

I'll add my name to the bottom of that one!

---

me as well

This is the best thread ever.

Dear MOM,
Please add all you co-workers to the list. Please don't leave out anyone!!!!!!!!!

---

Posted by EastEndBride

Dear God-

In my next lifetime I would really appreciate coming back as a Groom!

-The Bride

---

---

Posted by EastEndBride

Dear God-

In my next lifetime I would really appreciate coming back as a Groom!

-The Bride

---

Touche`!

---

Posted by HamptonsBride

---

Posted by eelharas4700

Dear FH,
Please stop asking me why I am stressed out. I don't find it helpful that you tell me we have 'plenty of time' and 'we' are just about done with everything. Just a small reminder, I have taken care of just about everything. There isn't a wedding fairy who goes around taking care of everything. When I get upset and tell you we still have a lot to do, please don't act surprised and when you ask me to 'make a list' fyi I did and I read it over with you just 4 short days ago. But I love you more than anything and I am willing to put up with your memory loss!
Your loving wife to be!

---

Can you CC: my FH with this letter too please! hahaha

---

mine too

Dear Mom,
I am super stressed with work, wedding and moving... I need support not negativity. Not sure why you're being so negative about FH & I buying a home but I'd love it if you were more excited for us. I've never asked for money and don't plan on starting so stop saying that you're not giving it to me...

Love,
Your stressed out, bill paying, house hunting, wedding planning daughter