This RSVP thing is freaking me out

that *****!!! but you will get them back...but i know how it is to ask someone are you coming or not....there is a guy i work with whose wife is pregnant so he keeps telling me well i have to see how my wife is going to be feeling so i cant give you an answer yet HOW THE HECK DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW THEY WILL BE FEELING IN A MONTH

Hey Laura, totally understand what you are going through!! Our cutoff is January 10th and one of my bridesmaids still hasn't sent back the card...which is fine, obviously she is coming, but I invited her with a date...so w t f? Just send it back, like everyone said...it already has a friggin stamp!! Hopefully whoever hasn't sent it back is a no!

its just the holidays, you'll get alot more soon probably...good luck

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

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Posted by Snowflake08

Totally causing me more stress than I have had my whole engagement!!!!!

Why can't people send them back???

The due date is in 10 days and I am missing 43 response cards, thats over 80 people!!!!!

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When did you send them out and when is the RSVP date?

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i sent them out the day after thanksgiving - the RSVP date is Jan 5th

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Snowflake08

not to mention THERE IS ALREADY A STAMP ON IT!!!!!

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lol yea! so they don't have to spend a dime either! im really dreading this part of the wedding..i have no tolerance for it

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I agree....I'm dreading that part...its frustrating!!

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Posted by SugaBeans

i guess some people like to wait last minute. are they mostly people you know will? or might not come?

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actually, MANY of them are people that i really was unsure about
and then some that i know are coming but still have not sent it back

it's the ones that i wasnt sure about that i want to know!!!