Unreal

JennNicole Posted: Jul 08, 2008 11:44 AM

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Posted by BeLissa

Posted by gemmifer

that is bazarro I honestly never got an invite that said that.
The only thing I am thinking is they don't want to have boxes at the wedding b/c it is too much to deal with ...
I guess I am stretching it a bit

I would not go and than send a 'boxed' gift

I thought that too - but i texted her and asked her whats the no boxed gifts about? is that your way of asking ppl for cash? i threw an 'lol' in there to make it sound less harsh and she wrote 'yeah, i dont need ppl giving me cheap regifted picture frames for my wedding'

poaweur skngoiehytlskngoiseutslkngoisrt!!!!!!!!!!!!

OMYGOSH! This story gets better.... - seriously she will now know the reason if you don't go.. and if you give her a boxed gift.. maybe give her exactly what she doesn't want by sticking some cash in a re gifted cheesy frame.

Kimbalina Posted: Jul 08, 2008 12:16 PM

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i would just not go.

stinenandy2010 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 12:18 PM

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Wow how tacky and just trashy! They should be grateful for whatever they get! I mean we all want the $$$$ but I know I can't just say that!!!

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Jul 08, 2008 12:24 PM

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I wouldnt go,period the end. it seems to me that she is just inviting people to get money or something, being that you guys arent as close as you used to be?

mf2009 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 12:57 PM

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I would not go just for the simple fact you feel obligated. You should want to go to the wedding because you WANT to not cause you HAVE to but that is JMO.
Also this girl needs a reality check. Although I would not want boxed gift at my wedding I would think people would know to bring that to the bridal shower and not need a reminder on the wedding invitation. But once again JMO!

EsquireBride Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:03 PM

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That is horrible!

I am going to be happy to get any gifts, cash or otherwise. I know not everyone can afford to give a check!

LeeLee111 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:07 PM

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I wouldnt go to the wedding....or send a gift for that matter just to prove a point.

MikeandJess Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:11 PM

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that is a pretty ballsy thing to put on the invitation. I would never, I'm actually hoping for some of my china!

MJDoc12 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:14 PM

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omg that txt msg!!

seriously---you shouldn't go to a person's wedding cause you feel 'obligated' to go---go because you want to share in their special day.

sounds to me like you both are just inviting each other at this point, out of obligation. this chick isn't worth your effort

aaaand i could probably bet the farm on the fact that when YOUR wedding comes around---she won't bother attending yours, even if you come to hers cause she'll just not feel like it. i dunno why, but thats what i'm feeling!

NickandTara426 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:19 PM

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OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe it!

Tori9299 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:36 PM

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I love that idea bring, a tv box. Or go away for the weekend, and don't go. S c r e w her.

fdny3113 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:48 PM

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If you go or maybe just drop off 20 boxes, wrap them in christmas paper!!

FutureMrsG Posted: Jul 08, 2008 01:57 PM

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How Rude!!

LoriBeth2728 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 02:13 PM

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ah, then go to the 99 cent store, get the tackiest picture frame you can find, put in a big ole box and tell her to f off. Man!!!!!

BeLissa Posted: Jul 08, 2008 02:18 PM

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you girls are cracking me uppppp. so many good ideas, so little boxes!!!!!!!!!

Liana Posted: Jul 08, 2008 03:19 PM

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Posted by SusiBtoM

Posted by MJDoc12

honestly---i wouldn't get upset over it or anything. she's obviously rude and classless and not worth it

RSVP 'No' and just don't go. why would you even BOTHER attending a wedding of someone you don't like and your FH can't stand? just move on

Melissa - you beat me to this answer.

I am right there with you too!
How rude and obnoxious!

fashiondiva Posted: Jul 08, 2008 03:53 PM

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I'm not trying to sound rude, so pls don't read this that way... but if you intend on putting something in a big box just to piss her off on her wedding day.. then why are you bothering to go at all? Clearly she will be so pissed off at you for deliberately going against her 'bizarre (and rude)' request that you'll probably never speak after that. I say cut your losses now and rsvp No. I'm not saying that she doesn't deserve to have 100 big boxes at her reception .. but what will you look like when you walk in with a box?

Celeste617 Posted: Jul 08, 2008 04:08 PM

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I agree with the other ladies...if you don't even have a friendship with this rude person anymore, don't waste your time! She's obv just trying to get more in gifts. And as much as I'd love if people only gave me money money money and lots of it (), I'd NEVER in a million years have the audacity to say that on my invites!

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Jul 08, 2008 04:26 PM

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You think that's tacky? listen to this one...

My sister in law's parents were invited to a wedding a few years ago and the invitation said $250 per person minimum....can you imagine the balls some people have