UPDATED!o boy.....i think we're going to postpone our wedding

Original post by PapayaChic

Apr 04, 2007 05:26 PM

My parents are really not doing well with my lil stupid sis leaving and 'disowning' my family.

I think i should be here for them

so, i dont think im going to post for a while

UPDATE
thanks girls for all your kind words
i talked to my parents and they want me to get married in October.

I just dont know about not living here anymore and 'making sure everything is okay'

and it ***** bc the only person i ever envisioned being my MOH ever was my sis

So, wedding planning had been so lonesome and bittersweet for me.

yes i know i shouldnt 'parent' my parents I just feel bad bc they've given me everything. I want to be there for them in a way. i cant explain it

vmystique33 Posted: Apr 05, 2007 02:40 AM

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Im so sorry!! I really hope everything works out for you!!

PapayaChic Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:17 PM

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thanks girls for all your kind words
i talked to my parent sand they want me to get married in October.

I just dont know about not living here anymore and 'making sure everything is okay'

yes i know i shouldnt 'parent' my parents

cherilicious16 Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:18 PM

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you are in our thoughts-

chrissyandvin Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:21 PM

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Hey Jess... I understand what you are saying but you have to live for yourself too sweetie! You can still be there for them even though you wont be living there. This is something amazing that is happening in your life and its sad that something happens that can ruin it.. don't let it. You're a great daughter.. u will be there whenever they need you married or not!!

PapayaChic Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:23 PM

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Posted by chrissyandvin

Hey Jess... I understand what you are saying but you have to live for yourself too sweetie! You can still be there for them even though you wont be living there. This is something amazing that is happening in your life and its sad that something happens that can ruin it.. don't let it. You're a great daughter.. u will be there whenever they need you married or not!!

i heart you chrissy

we need to one day meet up for a drink

milana Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:23 PM

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Im glad youre not changing your date

bettybcafe Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:23 PM

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Im really glad that your parents didnt want you to cancel the wedding..however, I do understand that the problem with ur sis is not going to go away..so just try your best to continue your wedding plans..and at the same time make time for your parents...

Aug07OFCbride Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:24 PM

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im glad it looks like it will work out! youre not 'parenting' them, its called caring about your family! nothing wrong with that. best of luck

ggcopying Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:24 PM

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Posted by milana

Im glad youre not changing your date

me too
Be strong!! We are here if you need

SeptBride70 Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:24 PM

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Oh I'm so glad you are not changing your date Jess!!

KRISTYRUSSELL Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:25 PM

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so sorry : hope all works out for you....

chrissyandvin Posted: Apr 05, 2007 10:27 PM

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Posted by Jess5790

Posted by chrissyandvin

Hey Jess... I understand what you are saying but you have to live for yourself too sweetie! You can still be there for them even though you wont be living there. This is something amazing that is happening in your life and its sad that something happens that can ruin it.. don't let it. You're a great daughter.. u will be there whenever they need you married or not!!

i heart you chrissy

we need to one day meet up for a drink

Yes we have to!! and not at a loud LIW event hahahaha U know I am here to vent if u need me!