Some already married (or divorced) that already know you are planning a wedding & have a reception hall & everything proceed to say that it is stupid to have a wedding, to not spend the money & just not to bother. That is a waste. HELLO!!! I already am planning a wedding, what am I supposed to do cancel the invites just because it is your opinion that wedding suck. Or how about I just do not invite you since it is such you consider it such a waste. UGHH it just irks me to no end. Now I can appreciate advice as much as anyone, but when this advice is an unsolicited advice that end purpose just seems like a way to make me feel bad about money already spent. I am not even trying to be extravagant with the wedding anyway.
Sorry I had to get this out. Does anyone else get this from people? Does it get on anyone else nerves after a while?
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Yes and yes it gets on my nerves...I feel the same way, ok then since you said this ill just cancel everything
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Yes and yes it gets on my nerves...I feel the same way, ok then since you said this ill just cancel everything
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I also know ppl who never had a wedding, just went to city hall or something and YEARS after say they wish they had a wedding and got to put a wedding dress on and do all of that.
Next time say OMG you are right, im gonna call and cancel everything tomorrow thank you, and see what they say
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Posted by Celest76
Some already married (or divorced) that already know you are planning a wedding & have a reception hall & everything proceed to say that it is stupid to have a wedding, to not spend the money & just not to bother. That is a waste. HELLO!!! I already am planning a wedding, what am I supposed to do cancel the invites just because it is your opinion that wedding suck. Or how about I just do not invite you since it is such you consider it such a waste. UGHH it just irks me to no end. Now I can appreciate advice as much as anyone, but when this advice is an unsolicited advice that end purpose just seems like a way to make me feel bad about money already spent. I am not even trying to be extravagant with the wedding anyway.
Sorry I had to get this out. Does anyone else get this from people? Does it get on anyone else nerves after a while?
luckily no one has done this to us, but that would be annoying, i might have to punch them in the face if they did
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oh good I am not the only one. I thought I was going to go out of my mind, I was thinking maybe I am sensitive but that Sh*t is annoying.
THey are not helping me, just stressing me out already about cost!!! If they really want to help, give money, not stress, since they already know how expensive it is.
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i get that and 'why are you getting married, your life is going to end, men are evil' etc etc. mostly from my coworkers who have all been divorced before.
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It gets on my nerves so much. Its like just because your marriage didn't work out doesn't mean I shouldn't have the wedding I want. I totally know what you are saying and yes I get so annoyed. I just smile when they say it to me. I don't even answer.
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I also know ppl who never had a wedding, just went to city hall or something and YEARS after say they wish they had a wedding and got to put a wedding dress on and do all of that.
It's totally personal. if i didn't want a big wedding, I wouldnt have one, if i didn't want to get married, i wouldn'thave said yes. We are adults. We should know what we want. Who are you to throw in your 2 cents
ETA, I'm agreeing with you, Denise. It looked like i was yelling at you after i read the post.
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It really bothers me when one particular person says it... and it someone that should have NEVER married that individual in the first place.. I think one of these days they may here those words right from me.
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i HATE that....seriously everyone at works always says to elope !
I i really cant stand when my mom asks how much something is and then says ...WHAT??? HOW MUCH IS IT??? sorry mom its not 1981 anymore!
Celest
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That s*cks @ss too.
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Ohhhhhhhhh man, I just want to punch people in the face when they tell me something is expensive (wedding wise) and I shouldnt have it. I'm paying for it, I will have whatever I want!!!!!!!!. Its a waste, they are stupid BLAH BLAH BLAH, just shut the fudge up
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opinion are like asssholes, eveyrone has them and they all STINK!
don't let others bring you down....those are just ppl who are a)unhappy and bitter or b)jealous cause they wish they were the again
tell them to suuuuuck it
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opinion are like asssholes, eveyrone has them and they all STINK!
don't let others bring you down....those are just ppl who are a)unhappy and bitter or b)jealous cause they wish they were the again
tell them to suuuuuck it
that is hysterical!
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and yet their the same ones who complain if their not invited or critique how the whole wedding was
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I hate that too! Sometimes I wonder why they even bother saying anything, do they think that will change your mind? Stupid..
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Posted by Celest76
Some already married (or divorced) that already know you are planning a wedding & have a reception hall & everything proceed to say that it is stupid to have a wedding, to not spend the money & just not to bother. That is a waste. HELLO!!! I already am planning a wedding, what am I supposed to do cancel the invites just because it is your opinion that wedding suck. Or how about I just do not invite you since it is such you consider it such a waste. UGHH it just irks me to no end. Now I can appreciate advice as much as anyone, but when this advice is an unsolicited advice that end purpose just seems like a way to make me feel bad about money already spent. I am not even trying to be extravagant with the wedding anyway.
Sorry I had to get this out. Does anyone else get this from people? Does it get on anyone else nerves after a while?
Sweetie, you just keep planning, and be EXTRAVAGANT if you want!!!!!!!!!!!! I've had people offering me their two cents on Debi and Fred's wedding, and guess what?? They're not invited!! I don't want people like that at our Daughter's wedding!! Only people who love her!!!! Mary MOB
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I agree with all of you!.
My mom only just now realizes that stufff is just more expensive than in 1974 & that no I am not acting like Zsa Zsa Gabor, it is just how much they stuff costs. (she only realized this after a friend told her how much she spent on stuff & said the prices I was getting were good)
MY fiance already doesn't like spending money so when you got jerks saying it is a waste (when you are nto asking them) it is just going to make him more anxious.
& me I am going to need a zanax just to deal with all the doom & gloom that some supposedly happily married people have toward marriage.
