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What about your wedding will be unique?

Original post by dedecakes

I just read the post about the wedding 'trends' that are being overdone. So, now lets all post things that we are doing to make our wedding different than everyone else's wedding.

I'll start...To honor my mom, instead of tossing the bouquet, I am going to give my mom the bouquet... and if I don't break down crying, I will make a short speech about how she showed me how to love and be loved.
Alexandra17 Posted:

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Posted by allegracristina

I love all these special touches! We are doing a few things. FH's father sings in an A capella group (they're huge with the locals in Glen Cove lol) and they are awesome! God willing one of the four, Jonathan will have recovered from surgery to remove cancer on most of his tongue. They sang at FH's sister's wedding in September, and it was really amazing. I feel blessed that they even WANT to sing at our wedding. If they do perform, they will sing our first dance song, which is a du-wop song called 'I only have eyes for you', then a song for me and my dad (LOVE the idea for all the fathers/daughters, mothers/sons to join in), then a song for FH and his mom, then a few classics they love to perform. I think I'm gonna be bawling, I'm super emotional. It will kick off the night music wise though, because we're doing the music in decades. After the big opening with the 50's du-wop stuff, we go right into 60s-70s, then 80s, 90s, and then finally when all the old people are drunk enough, OUR MUSIC!! LOL Bring on the old skool hip hop, the dre. and snoop, the Britney!! Yes, there will be Britney at my wedding, and I am proud of it.

Hmm what else though? FH and I are entering to Beastie Boys Sabotage in aviator sunglasses and fake moustaches!! Also we're having a sick Rock Band (the video game) after party at the RH. We're setting up our RB setup with FH's dad's speakers and a huge plasma screen in the CH room. We're opening the after party with a band performance (Me-drums, FH-Bass, Best Man-Guitar, my BFF myke on vocals) set which will rock the house down, and then everyone is invited to play along! If you've ever played before it's kind of like karaoke or Guitar Hero, and it's so fun!

I can't think of anything else so I guess our wedding is lame. jk lol.



the beastie boys thing is awesome!! I love them!
Brat23 Posted:

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For starters I am dancing with my sons to celine Dion's Miracle they are 7 and 3 so it will be cute

Caramelatta Posted:

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Posted by dedecakes

I just read the post about the wedding 'trends' that are being overdone. So, now lets all post things that we are doing to make our wedding different than everyone else's wedding.

I'll start...To honor my mom, instead of tossing the bouquet, I am going to give my mom the bouquet... and if I don't break down crying, I will make a short speech about how she showed me how to love and be loved.



Awwww this is the most sweetest thing ever!!!! Even if you break down crying you should do it cause its something that you will be really happy of when you look back.

Edit: i wrote suitest instead of sweetes....lol
BAL5-9-05 Posted:

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My 1001 DYI projects! (or at least it feels that way...LOL)

dedecakes Posted:

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What I really wanted to do also was...have two ring bearers walk down the aisle carrying a banner that says 'Here Comes the Bride'. I saw a picture of it in a recent brides review. It was soooo cute! However...I havent decided whether or not I want an adult only wedding...so that could pose a problem if there are kids in the wedding party.

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Posted by CloudNine
what an interesting idea with the dances...did you have a lot of people that were able to participate?



Yes, we had a lot of people on the dance floor. All my cousins and their dads, my brother and his 3 year old daughter (super cute) and of course some of my friends who brought their kids. The dance floor was PACKED. It was a huge hit!
pa56 Posted:

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Posted by Alexandra17
I saw only ONCE chocolate menus on tv and thought it was so cool. So that is really unique.



Thanks! I saw it in a magazine many months before I got engaged and I spent probably 6 months searching and searching for a good quality. I knew it would be expensive but I was ready to forgo other things (like fancy favors) in order to have this, because it was so unique.
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Lol..I hate to say it..but nothing about my wedding was really unique..i regret not putting more creativity into it
cynandkeith Posted:

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one unique thing i'm doing is incorporating my brothers in the ceremony, walking me down the aisle....
they will walk me down half way and then pass me off to my parents who will be waiting for me half way down the aisle...
they're not in the wedding party since FH has so many people already so i wanted to do something special to have them be a part of it....


shell1879 Posted:

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the army aspects of the wedding and all my DIY stuff
ince i'm making pretty much everything i know no one elsse will ever have the same exact thing unless i made it for them
JamDancer Posted:

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Things like I Do letters, my monogram cake topper, magnet STD, mini vienesse table, and pocketfold invites will be really unique to the guests because most of them are OOT, although most girls on here are doing all those things :)

Everyone else off of LI is already so impressed with the STD's and some things I've mentioned.
ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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DH is a huge ranger fan so we got all the guys mini ranger hockey sticks and they help it up with the girls flowers when we did the armpit tunnel (the bp walked into the rangers goal song)



and i did a ton of diy things
coldasice217 Posted:

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I'm having a cheesecake martini bar instead of a traditional Viennese, which definitely will be unique because no one really offers it or opts for it. But martinis and cheesecake are totally my thing, and it's perfect!

Plus I'm going to have venetian mask accents, which isn't unique per se, but unusual considering it's not a Halloween wedding.
endlesslove116 Posted:

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yeah that 'here comes the bride' banner that the ring boy carrys in is really adorable! when i first saw that in pictures i loved how it looks and also made me decide to have one! actually, it was more also my sister in law (MOH) idea to really have one from the begening because i am having a ring boy plus a little groom to walk down with the little bride and since the ring boy will be carrying the pillow and i had nothing for the little groom to carry sister in law came up with the idea of him carrying the 'here comes the bride' banner and i loved that idea.. so i am also doing that! :) now i just have to hope he does walk down the aisle so he can carry this adorable banner cause right now hes just too attached to his mom and has issues with seperating from her and being apart from her so i just hope by my wedding day hes ok and over that and will walk down without a problem or else ill be screwed and the banner wont be seen in my pictures! :( and they have to! hell be 3 by than, so hopefully hell be ok! if not.. i guess maybe my little bride will take that job along with holding her bok! :)

StaceYums81 Posted:

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I love the idea of the chocolate menus - where are they from?

dedecakes Posted:

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I would bribe him before the wedding...buy him something that he would really want (nothing too expensive). Hopefully that will do the trick! Also, if the boy's mom is in your wedding party, I would put her last in line...this way she will go out and he will follow right behind her. Only thing is...he might end up running to catch up with her, lol! Even still, it will be adorable. You can always take 'fake pictures' after the wedding of him walking down the aisle with the banner.

endlesslove116 Posted:

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wow this is why i love this site, haha! you gave me a good idea! i think i will do that! have her walk down the aisle last so that if he decides to brake down and cry and not wanna walk down he will see her walk down and he'll follow her and at that point i wont care as long as he goes doesnt matter how, lol! :) and taking the fake pictures will do! :) thanks hun!

FCsBride914 Posted:

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DH and I had our guests 'wanting' more all night. We had surprise after surprise just the way I wanted it!!!

--DH and I really had a hard time choosing his Best Man and my MOH. My mother is my best friend and his dad is his best friend, so why not? Not only was it unique, it was very sentimental to us to have our parents play a big part.





--I wore 2 gowns on my wedding day. That was one of the best decisions. My ceremony gown was my mothers gown. I had some alterations done to fit to me and I had the sleeves taken off (those poofy 80's sleeves) and the back taken out. It was more for sentimental purposes. For my reception, I bought a Stephan Yearick ballgown. My guests were so surprised when I walked in wearing a different dress! I was also going to wear a white version of the BM dress for my 'get away' outfit, but DH and I didn't do that after our reception.





--I also had my FG's in pink dresses instead of the 'mini-bride'. I thought it was adorable!



--Instead of the classic (but beautiful) all white bo-k, I had some pink roses put in to match my color scheme. I also had carnations pinned in the bottom and around the edges of the FG baskets (pedals in the middle), so after they threw the pedals, they'd still have flowers like the rest of the girls.





--DH and I had this elabrate set-up for lighting. We had 2 62' (I believe) TV's that had a montage of our pro ceremony pics loop while my guests were eating. That was for people who didn't come to my ceremony. Before the cake, we had a photo montage play of DH and I growing up until recent. My guests loved seeing old pictures (especially ones they were in)!



--Our first dance was unique as well. Our song was 'I don't wanna miss a thing' by Areosmith. I had my cousin Ray (singer/MC) make up a slower more romantic version of it. It was so great I smile everytime I hear it. My guests thought it was beautiful!



--My RH offered a champagne march as well. After our entrances, DH and I walked under the bridge and blah blah blah. After that my BP followed DH and I around the edges of the dance floor (once around) and all the staff came out in the in the middle of the dance floor side by side and split up left and right after we finsihed walking. They walked around to every guest (to upbeat music) and served champagne to everyone. That was awsome!



--After DH and I tossed the garter and bo-k we did the traditional guy puts on girls leg. Of course, I had to be unique. I had my cousin Ray(singer/MC) switch it up. My SIL (Tara) caught the bo-k and a friend of DH's (Nicky) caught the garter. Okay well, after put the garter on Tara, I had Ray cut the music and walk out on the dance floor. He said that something to the effect that it was Nickys turn to be embarrassed. Check out these pics!









--I'm not sure if it's common for weddings but DH and I hired a cigar roller to come in. We had personalized match books made and the cigar roller had labels with our names and wedding date on them for the cigars. My guests loved it! I've never been to a wedding with one before so that made it all the better.



--DH and I also had a veinese extravaganza! It was amazing!! With every dessert you can think of, every fruit you can think of, cheese cake, creme bru le (spelling?) Bananna foster, chocolate cordials as if that wasn't enough. We also had a coffee station, chocolate fountians and an ice cream cart with the umbrella and everything!! Wait that's not it! The ice sculpures and water fountians are somewhat unique but we had a pyrotechnics display in the beginning. It was unbelievable! A whole minute of fireworks on the veinese tables! It was incredible!!





--All in all, my wedding was different, yet traditional. In my big fat italian family, you either go big, or go home and that's exactly what we did. 1 1/2 years of planning, a BP of 28 people and 225 guests, that's exactly what we did!
vnewton85 Posted:

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I HAVE THE SAME ISSUES... YOU CAN ONLY INVITE SO MANY PEOPLE... ITS YOUR WEDDING NOT EVERYONE ELSES... WE ARE INVITING A FEW KIDS NOT ALL ITS JUST TOO MANY... AND IF PPL DONT LIKE IT.. TOO BAD.... How much do the chocolate menus go for??

Future Mrs H Posted:

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My RB isn't going to carry the traditional pillow. he will carry a pewter ring

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