What does FH pay...

Original post by cantwait2bewed

Oct 03, 2005 04:17 PM

..for in your relationsip when it comes to personal things. Does he pay for you to get your hair done, nails, clothes etc? Or are u all independent ladies who do it yourself?

MY FH used to give me money to get my hair done and nails done, but then our relationship goals changed and buying a house was his main priority for the both of us. So all of the extras got taken away.

roxyspark Posted: Oct 04, 2005 02:03 PM

Re: What does FH pay...

I was always the independent woman, I worked full time and went to school at night. I was also able to buy a home at a young age, since I was able to save a lot of money.

When we had to move to California for FI's job, things changed and now he pays for everything. I put everything on my credit card and he pays it at the end of the month.
He knows that I am a smart spender, so he doesn't have to worry.

I do work, but my money goes straight into savings.

Pmpkn087 Posted: Oct 04, 2005 02:06 PM

Re: What does FH pay...

Up until about a year ago, we used to split all the bills in half and I would pay my cc bills with my own money (he doesn't have cc bills).

Now, we share everything. I make more than him, and I get direcet deposit and he gets paid cash, so I just leave him leave him with spending money and take the rest

Tommylove Posted: Oct 04, 2005 02:33 PM

Re: What does FH pay...

Sometimes he'll fill up my truck, pay for whatever I'm buying when we go shopping, always pays for dinner and whatever else we go out and do, but I pay all of my own bills......credit cards, student loan, car insurance, etc.