Posted by SoVic08
my friend was in this situation. She kept it. she needed to get paid for all the time she put into their relationship...and he thought it was a fair deal............
sell it
Posted by AS
Posted by bluegreen08
wait a month or so and be sure you want to part with it. then sell it and buy something amazing with the money.![]()
Edit: not to be a Debbie downer but if there are any outstanding wedding expenses sell it and put the money toward that. Especially if he's not covering it all.
True!!! outstanding wedding expenses that I paid for. My, myself and I. He did not put one penny in.
Posted by xXxNovember08xXx
Posted by AS
Posted by bluegreen08
wait a month or so and be sure you want to part with it. then sell it and buy something amazing with the money.![]()
Edit: not to be a Debbie downer but if there are any outstanding wedding expenses sell it and put the money toward that. Especially if he's not covering it all.
True!!! outstanding wedding expenses that I paid for. My, myself and I. He did not put one penny in.![]()
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i agree with those who siad SELL THAT B1TCH! lol you don't want anymore of his negativity laying around in that ring or made into another piece of jewelry... you'll get a nice chunk of change for it and you can buy yourself a 'starting fresh' piece of jewelry!!
Posted by kimNanthony
Legally he is entitled to it back. AN engagement ring is a gift in contemplation of marriage and no matter who breaks it off if the wedding is cancelled he is legally entitled to the ring.
On a personal note, I would definitely give it back. I wouldn't want something that everytime I looked at it it reminded me of him.
Sell it! and treat yourself the way you should be treated!
Posted by Future Mulligan
as long as you legally dont have to give it back to him than i would either keep or it sell it (most likely i would sell it)
do you think he is going to try and get the ring back from you? if so, i wouldnt do anything with it yet just to be on the safe side......i have heard of guys suing to get an engagement ring back......i dont know the legal side of it though.....depending on the situatuon sometimes you have to give it back.......which i think stinks!!!!
I would sell it.... pay things off, or just take the $$ and invest it or something..... down the line you will look at how much money you gained by investing it and laugh when you think about the shumck that made you rich!!!!!
Posted by MiciB115
Posted by kimNanthony
Legally he is entitled to it back. AN engagement ring is a gift in contemplation of marriage and no matter who breaks it off if the wedding is cancelled he is legally entitled to the ring.
On a personal note, I would definitely give it back. I wouldn't want something that everytime I looked at it it reminded me of him.
Isn't that only if she breaks off the wedding? If he breaks it off, he's not entitled to it since it was a gift.
I say you should sell it.
Posted by xXxNovember08xXx![]()
u deserve EVERY penny back
Posted by AS
Posted by bluegreen08
wait a month or so and be sure you want to part with it. then sell it and buy something amazing with the money.![]()
Edit: not to be a Debbie downer but if there are any outstanding wedding expenses sell it and put the money toward that. Especially if he's not covering it all.
True!!! outstanding wedding expenses that I paid for. My, myself and I. He did not put one penny in.
Posted by AS
Posted by xXxNovember08xXx![]()
u deserve EVERY penny back
thank u![]()
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Posted by kimNanthony
Posted by MiciB115
Posted by kimNanthony
Legally he is entitled to it back. AN engagement ring is a gift in contemplation of marriage and no matter who breaks it off if the wedding is cancelled he is legally entitled to the ring.
On a personal note, I would definitely give it back. I wouldn't want something that everytime I looked at it it reminded me of him.
Isn't that only if she breaks off the wedding? If he breaks it off, he's not entitled to it since it was a gift.
I say you should sell it.
Nope doesn't matter if he broke it off he is still entitled to it back. Do you think he would try to get it back? If so I wouldn't do anything with it for now because if you sell it and he sues you for it you will have to pay him.
Also, whose names were the contracts in. If they were just in yours (like the RH, band, etc) then unfortunately he isn't liable for any of the lost money. THis is why I made FH sign EVERY contract also![]()
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Future Mulligan
as long as you legally dont have to give it back to him than i would either keep or it sell it (most likely i would sell it)
do you think he is going to try and get the ring back from you? if so, i wouldnt do anything with it yet just to be on the safe side......i have heard of guys suing to get an engagement ring back......i dont know the legal side of it though.....depending on the situatuon sometimes you have to give it back.......which i think stinks!!!!
Tiki-do you think he'll take you to the court. Alot of ppl dont end up doing this bc it would cost him money to hire a lawyer and the whole process of it, sometimes it costs just as much for all these fees, as you would win in a settlement so they dont do it...i know a guy who is in this situation and they were actually married already and she is the one who one day just left but still kept the ring. And if he even tries, which i dont think he even will, then tell him you will take him to court for all the wedding expenses
Well is he asking for it back?? If not, I would keep it. If you don't want to hold on to it and he doesn't want it back, then sell it and you can recuperate some of the money you've spent.
Posted by xXxNovember08xXx
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u deserve EVERY penny back
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i mean REALLY... really... if you paid for EVERYTHING... even if it was ur family.. adn not his name on anything... and the ring was a pretty penny and u lost $$ in the cancellation... U ONLY deserve his amt.
