Let me start by saying that during my time on this board I have posted negative things about my sister in law, this was brought to my Sister in law's attention, she called me on it and I told her straight out yes your right, I wrote them and I'm sorry. I had my Brother his Wife and their baby and my parents at my house last night arguing about this, and other issues, BS that shouldnt have to happen because I was either venting or telling what was bothering me at that time.
Now on to You, I do know who you are it wasnt hard to figure out, but I wont call you out on it. Your a friend of my sister in law fine, but you had absolutely NO RIGHT to get in the middle of a family. You cause a bigger chasim in our lives that I'm sure in time would have been forgotten about and things would have been fine, now my relationship with my brother is strained, my brother and I were super close, as close as any brother and sister could be. He was like a second father to me and truth be known I wanted him and my father to walk me down the aisle, now because of you thats over and done with. My sister in law, i know will never forgive me and that makes what relationship we did have dead, and that in turn affects my relationship with my niece. Things were left like ok fine its over, but we all know deep inside that its not. I just want to thank you, for causing all of this you need to mind your own business. And I'm sure that you'll be sure to tell my SIL about this, so Gina I again say to you that I'm sorry but I could not let this die with this girl and I had to let her know.
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Why would someone do that to you? That's pretty rotten of this person and also immature. Here's alot of and I hope this doesn't hurt your relationship with your family too much in the future.
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That's just disgusting. Whoever this RAT is better watch their back, because we all know what goes around comes around.
Sorry this happened to you!
jennbaby
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Just to add, since you are probably reading this now
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I HATE RATS!
Anyone who would do anything so evil really is a waste of a human being and if she has a problem with me saying this. Well she can go *_$(49-94-2394 herself..
LOSER!
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I would just like to say 1 more time I was wrong 100% for posting negative things but never would I come between two families especially when I'm not a member of either family.
Leelee
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Stay...I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. Why can't people just mind their own business???
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Stacey - f/m!!
And to whoever did this...like you 'never' vented about someone, like you 'never' complained about anyone or anything. You should be ashamed of yourself. Nice to self destruct a family over a bunch of garbage. What an arse you are!!!! Wow, are you proud? Can your arm reach far enough to pat yourself on the back for a deed well done. What a biotch!!!
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Jennbaby - f/m.
Teri
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This is truly terrible. I'm not even going to wonder who has the time or energy to do this to others and their families
But I will say that right or wrong, this is why I never badmouth or speak negatively about anyone on these boards. You just never know who's lurking, or who knows someone else, and it's just not worth the aftermath if the person finds out. I've seen it happen in the past and it's just sad for all involved.
StayandJohn - I'm so sorry you have to deal with this now. Hopefully you and your family will be able to work through this and soon.
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I am so sorry that this happened to you Stacey. People should know never to get involved with other peoples family business. I hope everything blows over and is back to normal for you soon!
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Yikes I mean really who has never vented about their in-laws. That was really low for a person to do. All they really did was hurt a lot of people and that's just wrong. I hope you and your family can overcome this and become as close as you were before.
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First of all, I don't think you were wrong in any way to vent about your family. I have vented many times on here about my current situation. Others vent, too!
What was wrong was how this person read your posts and then went running to tell about it. It makes me sick to my stomach when I think about it. I'm sorry this happened to you.
It makes me wonder about my own posts here, and the chaos it would cause if someone told my DH or family about what was written. People should just mind their own business.
What goes around comes around, and this nasty, selfish person will get hers someday.
jennbaby
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Like Teri said thats why I never vent or post about anyone--you never know who reads it!
Scary!!!
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I'm sorry you have to deal with this. You should be enjoying life right now, not dealing with aggravation
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Whoa!
What kind of mindless heartless moronic dimwit decides to ruin a family over a little trash talk. Jesus.. grow the hell up! So true that Im sure this person has most likely vented themselves. The whole purpose of this site is a place to vent and deal with stress. How stupid and petty to use it against someone. Im sure that person is smirking about the whole thing. God that's annoying!
Stacey.. so very sorry you have to go through this. My brother and I are super close too. I couldn't imagine what this would be like for us if we had to go through it. Hopefully you and he can find peace.
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Stacey I am soooo sorry that this WITCH did that to you!! Honestly, if she is smart she will not be back! Why do girls do this to one another and to come between a family!!! How dare she!!!
's to you sweetie!!!
Do you need an egging commity!!
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My gosh Stacy I am so sorry this happened. It amazes me how people think they have any say in how a family works when they are not part of it. How dare this person do such a thing.
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Stacey, I am so sorry.
It is beyond me why someone thinks they have the right to come between a family. Vent, not vent, right or wrong, it wasn't this person's business and they should have stayed out of it.
I truly hope that time will heal this wound.
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I'm sure it made the person who did this feel very big and victorious in bringing the things that you said here to your family's attention. I'm sure it made her feel like she was doing some sort of just and wonderful thing by alerting your family to your feelings. However, I think that says a lot more about the kind of person she really is to need to destroy someone else's relationships in order to make herself feel like she is a worthy human being. Insecure people tend to act in their own self-interest in order to garner some attention for their 'good' deeds, but in the end, it always comes back to bite them in the ass. Maybe not today or tomorrow or for years to come, but some day, if your family is smart, they will come to realize that this person did not have their best interests at heart and that this person is not trustworthy if she can't even keep her mouth shut about things she has no business with in the first place.
I'm so sorry that some little, hateful person did this to you! All you can do is try to mend your relationships despite this information being out there. Best of luck to you and your family on patching things up.
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This thread actually made me go back and delete all the 'venting' posts I recently made myself. You just never know who's out there reading them. From now on, if I need to vent, I will do it in FM to those who have always offered me support and understanding.
It only takes one idiot to ruin it for the rest of us.
