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i'm not to sure if I want an e-party....
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Posted by Alfysbaby
i'm not to sure if I want an e-party....
well if you don't want it then you don't have to do it. Or you can do something very casual, many people just had a small get together at someones house to celebrate
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dont worry i dont think i want one either anymore ... cause it just something else that is becoming a big pain!!!! ... if i do have one i'm not really having anythin huge ... i'm just going to have it at like a VFW hall ... and the only reason i'm having it there is cause its to cold to have it outside!!!!
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thats what I was thinking about doing maybe doing it at my house when we move..But maybe waiting til after the save the date cards are out.
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If I do it wont be for everyone I'm inviting only the one's that I'm the closest to!
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I'm not having one. We're saving up all our money for the wedding, and couldn't possibly afford 2 parties. No big deal, I don't feel like I'm missing out. Hardly any of my friends and none of my family members had E-Parties, so, it's not something I've always dreamed of or anything.
If you want one and can afford one - great.
If you're not sure and don't really want to spend the money - it's not a big deal to pass.
If you want one and can afford one - great.
If you're not sure and don't really want to spend the money - it's not a big deal to pass.
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good point!
cause theres like tons of party's
e-party
bridal shower
bridemaids lucheon
rehersal dinner
shoot thats like a party everyother month on top
of
FH b-day party
son's 3rd b-day
daughters 2nd
and my
all next year..
cause theres like tons of party's
e-party
bridal shower
bridemaids lucheon
rehersal dinner
shoot thats like a party everyother month on top
of
FH b-day party
son's 3rd b-day
daughters 2nd
and my
all next year..
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Posted by DavaDay
I'm not having one. We're saving up all our money for the wedding, and couldn't possibly afford 2 parties. No big deal, I don't feel like I'm missing out. Hardly any of my friends and none of my family members had E-Parties, so, it's not something I've always dreamed of or anything.
If you want one and can afford one - great.
If you're not sure and don't really want to spend the money - it's not a big deal to pass.
i tottally agreew ith you ... i cant afford one ... the only reason why we may have one is because FH aunt and mom want to throw us one ... thats why if we have one it wont be anythin big!!!
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put it this way.... if you have to pay for your own e-party IMO it's not worth it.... if you parents are FIL's want to throw you a party and pay for the entire thing, than by all means.... cash in!
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we didnt have one cuz we couldnt afford it... my parents are moving and would love to have a family (both sides) for a big bbq once we get settled in. but we just sent out engagement announcements and those who wanted to send gifts did so and those who didnt no big deal!
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Posted by AMGBride2008
put it this way.... if you have to pay for your own e-party IMO it's not worth it.... if you parents are FIL's want to throw you a party and pay for the entire thing, than by all means.... cash in!
Hear, hear!
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Posted by Alfysbaby
If I do it wont be for everyone I'm inviting only the one's that I'm the closest to!
thats what you're supposed to do. Someone should've informed Fi's side lol, were up to about 185 ppl
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no we would be paying for it..
The FIL and I are in a big fight right now and dont even know if they are coming to the wedding!
The FIL and I are in a big fight right now and dont even know if they are coming to the wedding!
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were up to 140 and it keeps going up I think I'm going to have to put a stop to it!
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I'm having a small one in February- valentine's theme at aFirehouse...we're keeping it to 100 guests (my family is HUGE) and budget of less thank $2K...
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Posted by Alfysbaby
good point!
cause theres like tons of party's
e-party
bridal shower
bridemaids lucheon
rehersal dinner
shoot thats like a party everyother month on top
of
FH b-day party
son's 3rd b-day
daughters 2nd
and my
all next year..
wow you have lots going on if you have to throw it your self ... i wouldnt ...
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well I figure if I do about 50 people than and do the cooking my self I can do it for about 300.
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I know! lol
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we didn't have one, b/c we thought itwould be like asking for gifts, NOW This is JMHO, hope I don't insult anyone![]()
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oooo! well if I did it would just be a lil get together!
